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Miss Oatmeal, Fresno, CA Age and Occupation: 25, Medical Device Sales Representative Fiance's Age and Occupation: 28, Police Officer/Captain in the US Army Engagement Date: February 16, 2010 Wedding Date: May 2011 Venue: Private Residence, Fresno About Me: I am a toast-loving, list-making, occasionally crazy California girl getting dangerously close to marrying her crime-fighting, patient, man's man fiancé. I’ve never left our hometown of Clovis, CA, I love Anthropologie so much it almost hurts, appreciate promptness, love that our 4lb. Chihuahua, Murphy, smells like Fritos, am irritated by windshield wipers that move too fast for the amount of rain, love me some cold weather, have an unhealthy obsession with boots, and wholeheartedly think that my family is everything. Mr. Oatmeal is, oddly enough, my brother's best friend. He's also the best thing that's ever happened to me, and together we are planning a vintage chic, backyard, spring wedding with a few nontraditional touches while trying to keep up with our crazy lives.
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First Things First

January 7th, 2011 @ 3:32 pm by Miss Oatmeal

What was the first thing we did after getting engaged? We booked our photographer. That’s a slight exaggeration, of course, but it was most definitely a priority. You might be wondering why, since Brother Oatmeal is a professional wedding photographer. Duh, people. He’s going to be the best man. It may be difficult for him to shoot an entire wedding ceremony while standing up there next to Mr. Oatmeal, but then again he is talented. Maybe I should have given him a shot. Oh well.

So who did we decide to go with? The lovely and talented Kate Mefford. She really is the most adorable person I’ve never met. You read that right—we’ve never met. There’s a good reason for this, of course. She lives in Texas. We live in California. That’s how badly I wanted her as our photographer. Between my bro’s recommendation, my incessant stalking of her blog, and our shared loooove of Anthropologie…she just had to be it. We are thrilled about her making the trip to shoot our wedding. Thanks, Kate! We love you already.

Just to prove how sweet this lady is, I’ll share with you a special gift I received from her a couple months ago. Don’t you just love getting real mail? Cause I do. I adore it.

Kate sent me a copy of the most thoughtful book. It’s one of her darling daughter‘s favorites, and they thought I should have my very own copy. Can you say uh-mazing? I read through the entire book immediately with a huge smile on my face. Thank you for the millionth time. I’m sending virtual hugs to you, Kate!

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What’s the first thing you checked off your to-do list? And have you been surprised by the sweet generosity of a vendor?

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8 Responses to “First Things First”

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Megrit
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Megrit (message)  478 posts, Helper bee

First thing we got handled was the church and then the hall. And that’s it for now. Eeek!

Good job finding your photographer!

 
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Mrs. Seashell (message)  1,713 posts, Bumble bee

I can totally relate! I booked our photog *before* we got engaged. And same deal, flew her in from out of state because I loved her that much.

 
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Mrs. Barrettes (message)  883 posts, Busy bee

I’d never met my photog either, but some things are just meant to be =) He became a must-have as soon as I saw his work online and we had fab internet chemistry. We finally met a week before our wedding at a wine tasting!

 
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Miss French Toast (message)  288 posts, Helper bee

that’s so sweet of your photographer!

 
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Mrs. Glasses (message)  2,741 posts, Sugar bee

Wow, you’re flying her out? Serious business! Can’t wait to see your photos on the big day. She sounds like a sweetie!

 
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photographernico
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photographernico (message)  527 posts, Busy bee

After we set the date, I booked the photographer. Absolutely the most important vendor!

 
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Lexsy (message)  537 posts, Busy bee

I also knew which photographer I wanted, but I decided that I needed to meet her in person before making the decision to book her - so I actually planned a trip only for that purpose!
Once we met, I loved her even more and we got along great - so I booked her immediately.
Did I really need to meet her? Had I booked her without meeting her, I would still have gotten along with her great, but I would have saved the money of the trip. In the end I think it was the right decision for my state of mind, as I had to be sure! But since you are already, I’m sure it was the right decision!

 
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Godiva Bee (message)  5 posts, Newbee

We haven’t even set a date yet! The most I’ve done is start a new email with my future name!

 

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Miss Oatmeal, Fresno, CA Age and Occupation: 25, Medical Device Sales Representative Fiance's Age and Occupation: 28, Police Officer/Captain in the US Army Engagement Date: February 16, 2010 Wedding Date: May 2011 Venue: Private Residence, Fresno About Me: I am a toast-loving, list-making, occasionally crazy California girl getting dangerously close to marrying her crime-fighting, patient, man's man fiancé. I’ve never left our hometown of Clovis, CA, I love Anthropologie so much it almost hurts, appreciate promptness, love that our 4lb. Chihuahua, Murphy, smells like Fritos, am irritated by windshield wipers that move too fast for the amount of rain, love me some cold weather, have an unhealthy obsession with boots, and wholeheartedly think that my family is everything. Mr. Oatmeal is, oddly enough, my brother's best friend. He's also the best thing that's ever happened to me, and together we are planning a vintage chic, backyard, spring wedding with a few nontraditional touches while trying to keep up with our crazy lives.

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