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“Let our advance worrying become advance thinking and planning.” - Winston Churchill

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Crazy wedding dreams.

You know, the ones where everything feels vividly real but everything is going horribly wrong. No one ever warned me about these….and now, about once a week, they appear and make me feel like I’m losing my mind!

The latest one was particularly frightening.

In this episode, I was getting ready to walk down the aisle but my family was nowhere to be found. But the music started playing so I just went…all by myself. Then as I was walking down the aisle, I realized a few things:

#1 my bridesmaids weren’t my friends. Instead, they were 3 random blonde girls who were beaming at me like we’ve known each other all our lives.

#2 Instead of stepping onto powdery white sand, I stepped into a rustic barn—charming, but a far cry from the wedding by the sea we had planned.

And #3 Our photographer was NOWHERE to be found. And no one else was taking pictures. SO WEIRD.

And just like that, the heart started racing and I officially started to freak out. But I kept walking down that aisle in that barn and towards the one thing that made sense in this crazy crazy dream—Mr. Ostrich. He was there, perfect and eyes shining.

We got hitched, our photographer showed up and hour into the reception and, like my bridesmaids, wasn’t our real photographer. But by that point, we were married and nothing could ruin my bliss.

I’m hoping that this zany wedding dream was a prep course for how to deal with things going awry on the day we’ve been planning, DIYing and dreaming of for 18 months. There will be a chance that the decor will be set up funky…and the music could skip…and someone could be late. But at the end of the day, it’s all about the love, right?

That’s what I keep telling myself, anyways.

Bees, have you started having crazy wedding dreams? What’s the CRAZIEST one you’ve had?