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Mrs. Lox, Baltimore Age and Occupation: 33, Government Worker Fiance's Age and Occupation: 35. IT Consultant Engagement Date: May 8, 2010 Wedding Date: May 2011 Venue: Vandiver Inn About Me: I’m an East Coast gal born and bred and a suburban brat turned city rat for the last year. Now Mr. Lox and I enjoy walking all kinds of places, having the coolest things around in our backyard, and especially our garage parking. I love gadgets, toys, Ben & Jerry’s Chubby Hubby ice cream, monkeys, and our insane cats. I’m a blonde by birth and a redhead by choice. I’m that girl in the cubicle farm with all the cool toys and the file cabinet covered in magnetic poetry. I still use smiley faces in my emails, whether people like it or not. This is not the first rodeo for Mr. Lox nor me. And together, we are planning an intimate afternoon wedding on a budget we can afford by ourselves.
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Bridal Shop Tour 2010: Midday Meltdown

January 23rd, 2011 @ 11:30 am by Mrs. Lox

Before we begin…

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After our first stop, I was feeling pretty sassy. Dresses went onto my body, and I found something that took many of the things I loved from my inspiration dress and combined them in a new way. I was thinking I might have found The One.

Lucky for me, Mrs. M was probably the most supportive friend I could have brought along. She was so damn happy we stopped at Starbucks between the first and second stops that she was kind of pathetically grateful and sweet for the rest of the day. Apparently she had a bad experience once with another friend who felt stopping for food and water was unnecessary during her dress hunt. To be fair, I told her the two of us would be fine and I wasn’t like that. But she didn’t believe me until the end of the day. Still, Starbucks went a a long way toward buoying her spirits. And so, with everyone in a great mood, we moved on to stop number two.

This stop didn’t go as well. Despite the fact I’d called ahead and confirmed that all the shops had things for me to try on, this store was really…well…thin in that department. And the few dresses in my size they did have were pretty terrible. So that meant almost nothing for me to even consider. I really wished the girl helping us had told me that on the phone and saved me a drive. Also, as sweet as this girl was, she didn’t know how to lace or fasten anyone into a dress, and therefore most things weren’t that flattering and things that could have been zipped shut were left gaping open. Had I not just had a great experience, this is where I would have melted down. Lucky for Mrs. M, I did not.

This is where I could not salvage pictures. Please accept these stock alternatives. Here are the only two things that fit and weren’t hideous:

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This one was a favorite at this shop but did not make the final cut list. (Source)

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This was a lovely dress and flattering, but it just didn’t have enough of *something* for me. No clue what. (Source)

At this point there was nothing left in the shop that I could even pretend to try on. So Mrs. M thanked the tiny little salesgirl for her help, and we headed off for our next destination. I was proud of myself for not melting down. Mrs. M was still just happy she got caffeine. We were off to greener pastures!

Did you ever have a frustrating experience while searching for a dress?

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photographernico (message)  527 posts, Busy bee

I can’t decide between two experiences: my first shop where I liked none of the dresses and had an out of body experience OR the shop with beautiful gowns where I was permitted to try on 5, which were whipped on and off me so fast the whole appt took under 30 minutes (and the store had no other customers).

 
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ktbrady (message)  1,054 posts, Bumble bee

Caffeine does a lot towards buoying my spirits as well! Hopefully you will have more luck at the next store.

 
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eleroo02 (message)  116 posts, Blushing bee

good luck, dress shopping can be quite the pain! I went to so many shops that I was getting quite depressed about finding a dress. Luckily I did, and you will too :) I have to say my experiences besides not finding one I liked were okay except for the places with really pushy sales associates and this one who asked me three different times what my name was, my FI’s name and where we were getting married. Obviously she wasn’t listening to me and that was obvious with the dresses she was picking too!

 
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Miss Oatmeal (message)  221 posts, Helper bee

Yay for caffeine…. it sure does wonders. And I applaud you for not having a meltdown. I certainly can’t say that I would have reacted the same :) Can’t wait for the segment of the “tour.”

 
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Miss Ostrich (message)  1,948 posts, Buzzing bee

I hit a wall after a few weeks when it seemed like there was no such thing as a pretty non-strapless wedding dress. i took a break for a week and just like that - “THE ONE” appeared like it was waiting for me all this time.

i’m so impressed by your composure, loxy! and mrs. m sounds like one wonderful friend!

 
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Last wedding dress is so pretty, just love it.

 
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Miss Bacon (message)  656 posts, Busy bee

Dress shopping can be so stressful! I showed up at a salon for a trunk show only to find out after I arrived that it was a mis-print and they hadn’t bothered to mention it when I made the appointment! UGH! Can’t wait to see the one you pick, though!

 

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Mrs. Lox, Baltimore Age and Occupation: 33, Government Worker Fiance's Age and Occupation: 35. IT Consultant Engagement Date: May 8, 2010 Wedding Date: May 2011 Venue: Vandiver Inn About Me: I’m an East Coast gal born and bred and a suburban brat turned city rat for the last year. Now Mr. Lox and I enjoy walking all kinds of places, having the coolest things around in our backyard, and especially our garage parking. I love gadgets, toys, Ben & Jerry’s Chubby Hubby ice cream, monkeys, and our insane cats. I’m a blonde by birth and a redhead by choice. I’m that girl in the cubicle farm with all the cool toys and the file cabinet covered in magnetic poetry. I still use smiley faces in my emails, whether people like it or not. This is not the first rodeo for Mr. Lox nor me. And together, we are planning an intimate afternoon wedding on a budget we can afford by ourselves.

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