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Mrs. French Toast, Pleasanton, CA Age and Occupation: 29, Marketing & PR Fiance's Age and Occupation: IT geek by day, self-proclaimed handyman by night Engagement Date: October 2009 Wedding Date: March 2011 Venue: Palm Event Center About Me: I’m a city girl at heart who moved to the suburbs a year ago. Now I’m adjusting to life with a front lawn, nosy neighbors, cooking attempts, and making sure the garbage pail is pulled out on time every week! When I’m not traveling, Mr. FT and I enjoy marathon sessions of Law & Order: SVU, snowboarding, photography, spoiling our 3-year old yorkie-poodle Mokka and disagreeing over what music to listen to in the car. We’re planning a small winery wedding while incorporating some cultural elements into the day as a nod to our Chinese backgrounds.
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When I took my first dip into social media with sites such as Facebook and Twitter, it was merely a channel to connect with my friends and acquaintances. Little did I know that slowly, my life would be consumed with daily use of aforementioned sites, and at the same time, it became an extremely helpful resource throughout this wedding planning process.

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We’re pretty fortunate to have the web readily accessible so we can plow through hundreds of wedding-related websites for inspiration and ideas. When my sisters planned their weddings, they could only purchase bridal magazines. A digital inspiration board? No such thing. I remember my sister would cut little photos from bridal spreads that she liked and glued them together on a poster board (which alludes to her studies at FIDM).

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As more and more businesses take an interest in social media, consumers have the benefit of utilizing that direct communication channel with them. Long gone are the days of being put on hold through the telephone or sending an email and waiting two weeks for a reply from customer service. A Tweet or a Facebook wall post on the company’s page will garner the same, if not quicker, attention and reply within hours.

For example, I was in the Marina district with Mr. French Toast a few weeks ago and walked inside the cutest bakery on Chestnut Street where I had a delicious red velvet cupcake. I subsequently wrote a stellar Yelp review for SusieCakes. A day later, the owner of SusieCakes messaged me through Yelp thanking me for my review. In fact, it was because the owner initiated contact through me that Mr. French Toast and I decided to go back the following weekend for a cake tasting, and order our wedding cake from them. Aside from a killer red velvet cake, ultimately it was their customer service that won us over.

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A typical French Toast outing: me with dessert, Mr. French Toast with the paper

Another case is when I purchased a product from Neutrogena last July that qualified for a rebate (gotta prep the skin for the wedding!). Long story short, after numerous emails and phone calls to Neutrogena, I finally received a “Too bad, so sad.” kind of reply through their customer service phone line. Frustrated, I decided to inquire on their Facebook page. Lo and behold, a week later I received my rebate check in the mail.

The purpose of my post is not to say that social media channels trumps the traditional letter/email/telephone call, and I’m mindful that the staff representing the brand behind the Facebook or Twitter account may not have the authority to escalate or address your concern. But social media creates that two-way communication channel between businesses and consumers, allowing us to get the information directly from the source. I ‘liked’ Nordstrom Wedding’s Facebook page to enter their sweepstakes and learn about their new wedding shop, I follow Anthropologie’s new wedding line BHLDN on Twitter to get their latest updates. The amount of information and resources for us brides out there are endless, and we as consumers have more control over what we want to see and read.

What are some your favorite brands that you think have done a good job with social media so far? And are you more inclined to buy from a company that has social media presence?

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19 Responses to “Planning a Wedding in the Social Media Age”

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Groom2Be

The times are a-changing.

 
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BrianneG
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BrianneG (message)  938 posts, Busy bee

I didn’t use social media for the wedding, but I see how it could be useful. However, my Google Reader was quickly filled with wedding blogs.

 
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Sazerac
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Sazerac (message)  75 posts, Worker bee

Just spent a few minutes looking at the preview posts for the BHLDN line from their twitter feed…and died a thousand tiny happy deaths.

Some of my stuffy-English-Dept coworkers mock the twitter, but I think it’s kind of an amazing resource for a lot of things…and I enjoy pointing out stats showing that students who use twitter have higher GPAs.

My sister manages a little boutique that uses twitter to announce sales and distribute exclusive coupons…having that little bonus discount (with the ease of being able to just show them my phone w/ twitter app at checkout) def. makes me more inclined to give them my hard earned TA $$.

 
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menobride
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menobride (message)  1,669 posts, Bumble bee

I love this topic, since social media and web advertising are my life! I manage my own company’s FB page (BTW, we are giving away ski passes if anyone is interested…just go to the SKI FREE tab)!
http://www.facebook.com/#!/pages/Bellwether-Community-Credit-Union/96298594003

 
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menobride
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menobride (message)  1,669 posts, Bumble bee

Ah, and if we aren’t allowed to leave links, I’ll tell you that my company is Bellwether Community Credit Union!

 
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missbiscuit
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missbiscuit (message)  1,050 posts, Bumble bee

Great post!
I’ve definitely found it valuable to follow certain blogs and/or vendors on their facebook pages. It’s interesting to see what they choose to highlight there and sometimes you get special promotional discounts that way, too! :)

 
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His Lil SantosGirl
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His Lil SantosGirl (message)  759 posts, Busy bee

I’m doing online RSVP because people just dont send mail anymore…
and it’ll save moneys <3

 
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CapeBride917 (message)  94 posts, Worker bee

Fantastic post! As a marketing manger/social media guru, I have to completely agree with you that social media is very important to a company’s brand nowadays. Plus, it makes wedding planning much more fun!

 
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tea
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tea (message)  7,288 posts, Bee Keeper

haven’t had any luck with wedding planning just yet, but got great service from comcast. we had been calling for months trying to get them to fix the caller id on the tv to no avail. a couple of tweets later, we’re good to go. makes me upset that i hadn’t tweeted them earlier!

 
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Missbliss (message)  784 posts, Busy bee

I think this post will be interesting! I have found that magazines based on my interests have helped me narrow the field… so that instead of looking at a huge amount of random stuff… I can find what I like…and use their links to discover other cool products! I’m a crafter so one of my favorite sites is EK success!

 
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amariem25
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amariem25 (message)  3,733 posts, Sugar bee

i follow a lot of hotels on facebook. The Kimpton chain especially will always post special offers for free upgrades. I also follow kate spade on facebook and I’m able to hear about their sales ahead of time.

 
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dddd89
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dddd89 (message)  491 posts, Helper bee

I “liked” my dress shop, dj and photographer on facebook and they all update pretty regularly. It makes me feel up to date, lol!

 
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Mrs. Thimble
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Mrs. Thimble (message)  807 posts, Busy bee

Yaay SusieCakes!! I think I wrote a several paragraph comment telling Glasses to get her cake there =) (I worked at their 1st store in Brentwood circa 2007).
My vendors aren’t so awesome with the social media stuff. But later when it came to albums, I chose Picaboo because of a weddingbee offer and Adorama via the Bee and Twitter.

 
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Gerbera
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Gerbera (message)  4,481 posts, Honey bee

Not so much product. But our photog had a bigger presence on her FB page than she did on her blog. She always updated teasers on her FB. So during planning I religiously checked her FB for teasers from weddings she just photographed. Of course I ooh and ahhed over every single picture, getting more excited each time!

 
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Nathan

Great post! We just finished a Save the Date video for one of our clients who will post the video on their personal wedding website: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LIMToEVxXto

 
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evorce
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evorce (message)  74 posts, Worker bee

BHLDN is going to be amazing….. swoon…..gets unveiled tomorrow and I’m on the email list.

 
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bridesmomma
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bridesmomma (message)  451 posts, Helper bee

Great post! We totally would check out every vendor on YELP before seriously considering them….

 
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Mrs. Glasses (message)  2,741 posts, Sugar bee

Great post FT! I would not have wanted to plan a wedding in the age where you had to cut up and glue every piece of inspiration, you couldn’t go online to talk with thousands of other brides about ideas, and communicate more efficiently and directly with vendors and suppliers. I love being plugged in!

P.S. SusieCakes? Your wedding cake is gonna be da booooooomb!

 
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Miss Pancakes (message)  85 posts, Worker bee

I literally don’t know how I would have planned a wedding without google or blogs like the Bee. However, I am so technologically stupid… I literally don’t understand Twitter and I miss the days when my facebook didn’t have a live feed (ie. what has now become my wall of weddings and babies!)

This is a great post and really thought-provoking. I really HAVEN’T been using social media tools to my advantage ;)

 

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Mrs. French Toast, Pleasanton, CA Age and Occupation: 29, Marketing & PR Fiance's Age and Occupation: IT geek by day, self-proclaimed handyman by night Engagement Date: October 2009 Wedding Date: March 2011 Venue: Palm Event Center About Me: I’m a city girl at heart who moved to the suburbs a year ago. Now I’m adjusting to life with a front lawn, nosy neighbors, cooking attempts, and making sure the garbage pail is pulled out on time every week! When I’m not traveling, Mr. FT and I enjoy marathon sessions of Law & Order: SVU, snowboarding, photography, spoiling our 3-year old yorkie-poodle Mokka and disagreeing over what music to listen to in the car. We’re planning a small winery wedding while incorporating some cultural elements into the day as a nod to our Chinese backgrounds.

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