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One of my bridesmaids gave me this book (along with the companion How to be the Almost Perfect Husband) and, while I thought it would be more of a laugh or a how-to type of book, it actually contains some interesting advice from husbands and wives about how to maintain your relationship and what you need from your spouse.
Some of my favorite advice from How to be the Almost Perfect Wife:
“Be my cheerleader. Believe that I have the talent to achieve my dreams, even if it takes longer than I ever imagined.” Ed, 47, married 25 years.
“Accept your husband as the man he is, instead of wishing you could change things here and there.” Charles, 38.
“When you’re upset about something, talk to me about it. Don’t let it become a landmine that later explodes.” Norman, 32, married five years.
“When I ask for space it doesn’t mean I don’t love you or that I’m abandoning you: I just need time to regroup.” Gary, 41, married 12 years.
And a few from How to be the Almost Perfect Husband:
“When I’m having a bad day and complaining a lot, please just listen. Forget the advice on how to make things better. Just tell me you love me and give me a hug.” Becky, 33, married 12 years.
“Hold her hand just because.” Debbie.
“Don’t just tell others how proud you are of me. Tell me!” Judy, 50+, married 30 years.
“Don’t embarrass me or make fun of me in front of other people.” Barbara, 68, married 49 years.
*Just to be clear, I don’t anticipate ever being a perfect anything! But it doesn’t hurt to aim high, especially in your relationship with your partner.
AWWWW. This is so sweet!
I semi-disagree with this one tho!
“Don’t embarrass me or make fun of me in front of other people.” Barbara, 68, married 49 years.”
My husband and I joke around all the time and tease each other. =)
I love reading things like this, they’re so cute! (: I might just have to pick up a copy
@Gerbera: I read a similar book years ago (can’t even remember the title) and it had a similar statement. The author clarified that it referred to the women who would kvetch about their husbands right in front of them, and seemed to think they were joking instead of being rude. I know my FI and I tease each other in public all the time, but there is always a line where the “joke” becomes actual griping about problems. I think this is just a reminder to be conscious of that line and don’t cross it, even when you feel like publicly calling out your hubby on something that annoys you.
these are sweet!! I think i may pick up a copy of those books
Love the advice because it’s true and honestly, I love being my husband’s cheerleader because I really do believe in him.
I love when people give wedding books for gifts! I might have to pick up a copy of this one:) I wanted a book themed shower but with a destination wedding and the shower right before the wedding…it’s just not doable…
I really like these little nuggets of advice! Especially “be my cheerleader”!
I love the ones that says “be my cheerleader”. I think this one goes for both of Mr. M. and I. He encourages me to grow my photography skills and I encourage him to pursue his education dreams.
“When you’re upset about something, talk to me about it. Don’t let it become a landmine that later explodes.” TRUTH! This looks like an interesting read, EB!
“When I’m having a bad day and complaining a lot, please just listen. Forget the advice on how to make things better. Just tell me you love me and give me a hug.” Becky, 33, married 12 years….I LOVE THIS!!
what a great post! I seriously need to remember this one:
Accept your husband as the man he is, instead of wishing you could change things here and there.” Charles, 38.
and man oh MAN do i need to remind my husband of this:
“When I’m having a bad day and complaining a lot, please just listen. Forget the advice on how to make things better. Just tell me you love me and give me a hug.” Becky, 33, married 12 years
Great post…I never heard of these books, but the snippets make sense for sure….I am constantly trying to remind myself of things that I do that aren’t necessarily the best. For example, my critical statements that aren’t necessarily meant to criticize, but rather make a matter of fact statement. I learned that this bothers Mr. L so I do my best to bite my tongue at times. Just like he has learned never to say “wait you’re not going out in that outfit are you?!”
“hold my hand…just because.”
i couldn’t have said it better.
thanks for this, eb!
Ha! I could definitely be better at listening/not offering advice, that’s for sure!
If you’d like a laugh, here’s a marital scale from the 30s that rates husbands and wives by giving points to merits and demerits like “does she dress for breakfast and have meals on time” to “does she warm her cold feet on husband at night.” It’s pretty great.
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Mrs. Eggs Benedict, Seattle Age and Occupation: 29, Attorney Fiance's Age and Occupation: 35, Attorney Engagement Date: December 5, 2009 Wedding Date: February 2011 Venue: IslandWood About Me: I'm a Northwest girl who spends my time goofing around with Mr. Eggs Benedict and our dog, hiking, traveling, drinking wine and planning a wedding that will showcase the best of what the Pacific Northwest has to offer. I also love photography, beating Mr. Eggs Bene at Mario Kart, and watching the most ridiculous natural disaster flicks you can think of (seriously, how can you deny the awesomeness that is The Core or 2012?? That's right, you can't). We are planning our weekend wedding adventure at an environmental educational center, and I can't wait for the fun to begin!
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