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Ms. Potato Chips, Boston/Narragansett RI Age and Occupation: 29, PhD Student Fiance's Age and Occupation: 30, Personal Trainer/Business Owner/Physical Therapy Assistant Engagement Date: January 1, 2009 Wedding Date: June 2010 Venue: The Narragansett Towers About Me: A semi-professional bookworm, if I could be a literary character I’d be a cross between Jo March and Jane Eyre, only better accessorized and much lazier. My hobbies include sleeping in, seasonal brews, running, Trader Joe’s, and watching Unwrapped and Good Eats with Mr. Potato Chips. I harbor an irrational fear of tulle, crafts, things that are fussy, and overuse of the phrase "Your Special Day". After a year or seven together, down the aisle we go, slouching toward adulthood and planning a Rhodie party with equal parts whimsy, cheer, and pizza.
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Ghost Bride!

February 21st, 2011 @ 8:25 am by Ms Potato Chips

Hello hive! Do you mind if I pop in for a second to tell the tale of my wedding dress’s after-life?

Post-wedding, my poor dress was a bit of a mess. The bustle broke, tearing the chiffon in the back slightly, and the bottom was dirty from having run November-Rain-style through the post-after-party downpour. I thought, “well, that’s that…” but my mom, only slightly aghast at my lack of sentimentality, cleaned it (I think in the bathtub) and even fixed the tear.

On a recent visit, I went up to my old bedroom, which is now the guest room. Although my mom has kept the ludicrously bright pumpkin-colored paint I’d chosen, she’s since redecorated in her folksy, crafty, turn-of-the-century bed & breakfasty style.

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Darling, right? But wait, what’s this? Hanging on a lacy hanger on the closet door is a now-permanent installation piece!

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My dress as decor. While it totally works in my mom’s home, and I adore my mom’s craftiness and style, I LOL-ed when I saw it, in all its Miss Havisham-esque loveliness. Mr. PH and I slept in that room over Christmas and in the middle of the night, I was maybe just a little convinced that the ghost bride would appear out of the closet and possibly murder us.

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Rumor has it, if you look in the mirror when the clock strikes twelve, you might even catch a glimpse of the ghost bride, eternally awaiting her wedding day.


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What do you plan to do with your dress, post-wedding?

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21 Responses to “Ghost Bride!”

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jboltz19
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jboltz19 (message)  517 posts, Busy bee

My aunt had a wonderful idea, she had her all chopped up and made into crib bedding (skirt, canopy, etc) for my cousins arrival. I thought it was a cute use of it - especially for a little girl!

I definitely dont intend to leave mine in a closet somewhere - I want to do something with it! :)

 
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Mrs. Trail Mix (message)  6,328 posts, Bee Keeper

Haha!! So funny that your dress is out on display although I have to admit, I kinda like the idea (like you said, in a Miss Havisham-esque way!) I’m a pack rat and a sentimental mush, so I’ll be saving mine until my daughter gets married, so she can drag it out, laugh at what an out-dated dress her mother wore at her wedding and then probably use a teeny piece of the lace to wrap her bouquet in, ha!

 
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Miss Lox (message)  1,128 posts, Bumble bee

I’m a sap like Trail Mix, so I’ll be having mine cleaned and preserved and will stash it away for the little girl I hope to have some day.

 
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ms_nickie (message)  396 posts, Helper bee

I’m going to donate mine to Brides Against Breast Cancer. It’s a beautiful dress and I love the idea that it will not only make someone else’s wedding day special, but it will also help those who are fighting breast cancer.

 
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Miss Tartlet
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Miss Tartlet (message)  3,207 posts, Sugar bee

Your ghost bride pics made me giggle. :) I’m currently torn between re-selling my dress and preserving it.

 
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keturahrussell
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keturahrussell (message)  201 posts, Helper bee

I’m going to clean and re-sell my dress. I know that it will just sit in the closet. I’d rather another bride wear it on her special day!

 
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canadianbacon
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canadianbacon (message)  202 posts, Helper bee

I’m giving mine to a local non-profit who help ill patients have a great wedding day who would otherwise not be able to afford it.

 
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annapeeps (message)  85 posts, Worker bee

I’ve said I’ll try to sell it…it was ungodly expensive. But a part of me really doesnt want to part with it! I love it, and maybe I’m biased, but I think it’s “timeless” enough that maybe a future daughter would want to wear it. I’ve also heard of women who have part of the gown made into a christening gown…great idea but we’re not religious at all.
It’ll probably wind up in my closet in a box, and I’ll put it on in 15 years and be depressed that it doesnt go over my ass.

 
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Mrs. Sand Dollar
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Mrs. Sand Dollar (message)  1,305 posts, Bumble bee

Great post PChips! That’s such a cute way to display your dress. I love seeing gowns used as decor, especially those hung on a dowel and pinned above beds. I gave mine back to the shop it was gifted from, so they can use it as a store sample and resell it as “already loved”. I did keep my short dress though, and I’d love to dye it a la Young House Love!

 
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Miss Bacon
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Miss Bacon (message)  656 posts, Busy bee

Since I’m already going to have to tackle selling that first dress of mine, I think I’ll get mine cleaned and maybe try to reuse the fabric for something else? Is it terrible that I’ve had the thought “Maybe I can shorten it and wear it again?” LOL

 
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periwinkle

Your dress looks so pretty hanging up that it would be a shame not to display it. Good for mom!

 
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Lexsy
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Lexsy (message)  537 posts, Busy bee

Lol never thought it could become part of the decor! Great idea, it does look lovely in that room!

 
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Ms. Anemone
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Ms. Anemone (message)  624 posts, Busy bee

that is adorable!

 
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Miss Lupine (message)  20 posts, Newbee

Too funny! Love the pictures!

 
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MissMargie
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MissMargie (message)  767 posts, Busy bee

Love to see you back PChips!

 
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tksjewelry
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tksjewelry (message)  9,769 posts, Bee Keeper

Love the pics!

I have three dresses, I will be giving the reception dress (tea length) and the original dress to two brides who can’t afford a dress. I am not sure yet what I will be doing with the dress I am now wearing for the ceremony.

 
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missmouse29
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missmouse29 (message)  2,998 posts, Sugar bee

After the wedding I will probably be selling the dress ,as I highly doubt there will be much else to do with it.

 
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ktisthatbees
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ktisthatbees (message)  2,742 posts, Sugar bee

@annapeeps: ahahaha, yeah, the ever growing derriere is such a problem for dress re-visits.

I don’t think I can part with mine, maybe it will set in a closet for years, but at least I would still have it.

 
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Mrs. Husky (message)  1,754 posts, Buzzing bee

PChips, you reminded me why I miss you so: “… in all its Miss Havisham-esque loveliness” and the ghost bride photos. :)

 
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Sarah Kirschner

Hello There !!! I think your dress is beautiful as decoration :0)

I was actually wondering if you still have the J Crew dress for your flower girl? What size is it and are you willing to sell it ?????

I LOVE LOVE LOVE this dress and of course J Crew (and any other store) has nothing like the Bea dress this season.

Best Wishes…
Sarah J Kirschner
sarahjoan21@hotmail

 
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Ms. Potato Chips, Boston/Narragansett RI Age and Occupation: 29, PhD Student Fiance's Age and Occupation: 30, Personal Trainer/Business Owner/Physical Therapy Assistant Engagement Date: January 1, 2009 Wedding Date: June 2010 Venue: The Narragansett Towers About Me: A semi-professional bookworm, if I could be a literary character I’d be a cross between Jo March and Jane Eyre, only better accessorized and much lazier. My hobbies include sleeping in, seasonal brews, running, Trader Joe’s, and watching Unwrapped and Good Eats with Mr. Potato Chips. I harbor an irrational fear of tulle, crafts, things that are fussy, and overuse of the phrase "Your Special Day". After a year or seven together, down the aisle we go, slouching toward adulthood and planning a Rhodie party with equal parts whimsy, cheer, and pizza.

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