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Mrs. Pain au Chocolat, Wilmington, DE Age and Occupation: 29, Realtor Fiance's Age and Occupation: 34, Realtor Engagement Date: November 21, 2009 Wedding Date: June 2011 Venue: Greenville Country Club About Me: An ENFJ with an artistic streak who loves backgammon, sailing, graphic design, and sleeping in. Travel (near or far), good wine, and tasty food makes my heart sing. I'm a compulsive list-maker who lives to plan and organize. Mr. P and I have lived together for 4 years, all the while renovating our city townhome bit by bit. We're planning a whimsical, Anthropologie-inspired garden wedding in June 2011.
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Accessorize Me

March 1st, 2011 @ 2:52 pm by Mrs. Pain au Chocolat

What was the one thing I wanted to do before leaving the Priscilla of Boston store? I bet you can guess on the first try. Try on my lovely gown again! The sample has seen some wear since the last time I visited, but the gown still delights me (even after the Vera beauties).

I brought accessories (and my camera) to see what would work with the gown. In tow were my Seychelles wedding shoes, several pairs of earrings, and a bracelet. First up were my favorite earrings and bracelet:

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My clear crystal earrings & the pink J. Crew version

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My crystal and gold cobblestone bracelet and a similar black J. Crew version

I bought the J. Crew jewelry blindly, intending to wear it with my dress (if not, oh well). However, the burnished gold wasn’t the right metal finish. BM R also thought the square crystal earrings weren’t the right shape for the details of the dress. Round would work better, so we tried these old rhinestone blingy things to get a better idea.

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(personal photo)

The metal and shape looked better, but it was too much shine. I’m shooting for a more subdued look. Nothing about this says subdued. I also tried on a large, white shell oval earring, which I loved the boldness of, but maybe something more formal would be nice? The last pair was a multi-stone chain dangle that was deemed too long.

OK, Mr. P. Scoot. Skedaddle. Shoo.

You don’t want to see this. Move along.

Dress spoilers ahead!

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Right: blingy, left: shell

The prospect of continuing to shop for jewelry is exciting, but the endless options are a little daunting. What do you think I need?

As for the shoes, they look fine. I’m not demanding too much of them aside from comfort and knowing I can wear them again. And all anyone will see is the toe, which will be my toes.

Other things in discussion were the hem (too short on the sample gown—glad we ordered up a size) and bustle. My options are American or French. American is a single-point bustle. French is a multi-point bustle, often three or more, hidden in the folds of the train. I asked our Priscilla gal to demonstrate both options so I can review ad nauseum at home.

American & French

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My dress looks so delicious I want to dive into it like a piece of cake! Nom nom nom. Oh, pardon me…forgot you were there!

So, opinions. What type of earrings would you pair with this dress? Which bustle style do you prefer? (I have an early favorite.)

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37 Responses to “Accessorize Me”

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chrispygal
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chrispygal (message)  1,113 posts, Bumble bee

I love the american bustle! I also love the look of the white shell earring. Maybe look for a pearl/bling combination?

 
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Lo
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Lo (message)  538 posts, Busy bee

Love the crystal earrings, I’m looking for something similar in aquamarine! As for the bustle I like the look of the American but the French is much more stable. I decided that I didn’t want to worry about my dress at the reception so I opted for the French. Can’t wait to see which accessories you choose.

 
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808mjm202
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808mjm202 (message)  764 posts, Busy bee

Love the flower earrings and the American bustle!

 
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miss.qwerty (message)  895 posts, Busy bee

All of your earrings look great, but I think maybe you’re right about not having quite the perfect pair for the dress yet. As for the bustle, I like the way the American one looks - maybe something about the way the folds work with the flowers?

 
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Miss Tartlet
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Miss Tartlet (message)  3,207 posts, Sugar bee

Hoo boy–that earring question is a tough one! I tend to gravitate towards a bit of sparkle, but after enlarging your photo I really, really like the bold oval earring! I’m a fan of the French bustle. :)

 
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Mrs. Earrings (message)  2,477 posts, Buzzing bee

I like the American bustle. And after looking at your earring choices…hmm, that’s a tough decision. Like chrispygal suggested, I think you should keep an eye out for a pearl/bling combination.

 
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hmaxwell77
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hmaxwell77 (message)  470 posts, Helper bee

I like the French Bustle the best and I think pearl or diamond studs would be gorgeous with your dress.

 
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Miss Lox (message)  1,128 posts, Bumble bee

I am normally a French bustle all the time kinda girl. But I actually really like the American bustle with your dress.

 
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peachybride (message)  124 posts, Blushing bee

The American bustle looks really organic with the dress I think, whereas the French stands out a bit more. I love both but it depends how you want your bustled dress to look/feel!

 
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sparks
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sparks (message)  649 posts, Busy bee

I think the American bustle works really well with the texture of your dress, so it gets my vote!

 
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Iguanatan

American bustle, and NOT the oval earrings- they look WAY too casual for such a lovely dress.

 
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xtatic1
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xtatic1 (message)  778 posts, Busy bee

american bustle, it flows with the dress and looks seamless!

 
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pec1216
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pec1216 (message)  644 posts, Busy bee

I too think the American bustle looks the best! I also like the J.Crew crystal earrings best! More fitting for your dress.

 
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LGenz
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LGenz (message)  3,789 posts, Honey bee

I almost always prefer French bustles, but I like the way American bustle works with the flower embellishments.

 
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Miss Samson

I think the dress is so gloriously showy, that I would go with something simpler for the jewelry — maybe pearl studs? BIG pearl studs?

 
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Miss Pain au Chocolat (message)  1,698 posts, Bumble bee

@chrispygal: The shell earrings are bold but lacked polish. Oddly enough, I don’t want pearl-anything earrings (but like the shell ones?). I am so confusing. :)
@Lo: Oh, that’s something to consider! The French is definitely stronger and the skirt of this dress is NOT light.@Miss Tartlet: So I guess my earring choice needs to be bold but simple.@hmaxwell77: Studs - that’s a good idea. Very Jackie O. I’m wearing my hair up and wonder if that’s too much unadorned “real estate”?@peachybride: I agree the French is different! And I do love different.

 
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Miss Pain au Chocolat (message)  1,698 posts, Bumble bee

@pec1216: Now if I could just find the J. Crew earrings in a rounder shape!
@LGenz: Seems like everyone is leaning toward the American bustle!
@Miss Samson: I agree - simpler is probably best with this detailed dress… one of the reasons why I’m not wearing a necklace OR veil. LOL’d at “BIG pearl studs”!

 
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Miss Magic (message)  628 posts, Busy bee

I like the American bustle too!

 
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Mrs. Socks (message)  1,323 posts, Bumble bee

Your jewelry choices are so glam! I can’t pull that look off, so I’m SO excited to see it on you. I love the pink JCrew earrings and the American bustle on you!

 
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Sunlavender
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Sunlavender (message)  553 posts, Busy bee

American bustle.

 
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Mrs. Pain au Chocolat, Wilmington, DE Age and Occupation: 29, Realtor Fiance's Age and Occupation: 34, Realtor Engagement Date: November 21, 2009 Wedding Date: June 2011 Venue: Greenville Country Club About Me: An ENFJ with an artistic streak who loves backgammon, sailing, graphic design, and sleeping in. Travel (near or far), good wine, and tasty food makes my heart sing. I'm a compulsive list-maker who lives to plan and organize. Mr. P and I have lived together for 4 years, all the while renovating our city townhome bit by bit. We're planning a whimsical, Anthropologie-inspired garden wedding in June 2011.

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