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Mrs. Knitting, Toronto Age and Occupation: 24, Student Recruitment Assistant Fiance's Age and Occupation: 24, Neuroscience PhD Candidate Engagement Date: October 2009 Wedding Date: December 2010 Venue: University of Toronto Faculty Club About Me: I'm a pearl wearing, etiquette book reading Toronto girl who loves cooking and baking, museums, charm bracelets, and collecting books on Jackie Kennedy (a lot). I've been known to spend Sunday mornings at the antique market, Wednesday evenings at sister sushi dinners, and any bit of spare time reading. After six and a half years of many late night walks, watching DVDs together in bed, travelling to places like New York, and Tobermory, doing Sudokus together on the couch, lots of Indian food, the occasional yoga class, moving in together and so much more, Mr. Knitting and I are planning a cozy Christmasy (it's a word!), vintage wedding in Toronto complete with many DIY projects (eek!) and lots of help from our amazing group of family and friends.
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The morning of our wedding began with me realizing that we didn’t have the brown sugar I needed to make the pumpkin spice whoopie pies that I was making for our wedding dessert table. This resulted in Mr. Knitting having to get out of bed and run to the store to buy me some brown sugar.

Brown sugar disaster averted, I proceeded to make my whoopie pies:

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Mr. Knitting then had to taste test the final result:

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You wouldn’t really know it from the look on his face, but I swear he pronounced them delicious!

We then balanced out the sugar high with green smoothies:

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Eventually it was time to go our separate ways to get ready. Figuring out where each of us would get ready was a bit of a pain because both of us just wanted to get ready in our apartment. In the end though I claimed our apartment and Mr. Knitting headed off to the hotel all my family were staying in.

I was trying to spend as much of the day as possible with as few people as possible. That sounds really anti-social, but I can explain! I am a huge introvert and by that I do not mean that I’m shy and quiet and hate people. I mean that I draw my energy from being alone. Since I knew I’d be spending most of the day surrounded by lots of people, it was really important for me to delay that as long as possible. As a result I did 90% of my getting ready with just my older sister there.

I did my hair and make-up alone in my bedroom while my sister showered/took a picture of me:

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After those tasks were completed we kept things very low key and munched on some sushi while my sister gave me a last minute MOH present. She made me a scrapbook titled  ”Reflections of a Maid of Honour.” I’d show you the cover, but my sister used a very unfortunate (but hilarious) picture on the cover that I’m not desperate to post on the Internet!

It was set up sort of like a storybook, featuring pictures of us when we were younger. Here’s a few examples of the pages.

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I have no idea where those green fuzzy hats on our heads came from…

The back pages of the book were filled with marriage advice from some of my favourite women. It was a really sweet gift and I had so much fun reading through it that morning.

After that, my people began to arrive and the wedding fun really began. This was really a great way to start our wedding day. It was not completely stress-free, but I was able to follow my regular breakfast routine and then to have a very quiet morning which I think was pretty essential for my sanity and my ability to enjoy the rest of the day.

Knitting Wedding Tip #1: Know who you are and what you need to get your wedding day started in the best possible manner. If being surrounded by all your favourite people will get you super excited and pumped, do it, but if you know you need quiet, make sure to organize that time for yourself. Don’t worry about what other people do on their wedding days. Think about who you are and what you need!

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27 Responses to “A Cozy Christmas Wedding: My Anti-Social Morning”

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Mrs. French Bulldog
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Mrs. French Bulldog (message)  7,730 posts, Bee Keeper

That present from your sister/MOH is amazing and so thoughtful :)
P.S. Great wedding day tip!

 
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MissMedic (message)  348 posts, Helper bee

Awww, that book is really sweet! Mrs. Knitting, I’m soooo glad you posted this! I think I would go crazy if I couldn’t spend a significant chunk of time getting ready by myself before my wedding, and now I feel better about not being the only one like that!

 
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Miss Elephant
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Miss Elephant (message)  6,182 posts, Bee Keeper

That is such a touching gift from your sister!

 
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Glowing Bride

This is great advice!!!
I also wanted a really chill morning before our wedding. Unfortunately I had to pop into town and on the way back my Mother insisted on buying pizza from the store, then having them re-make the pizza because it had garlic on it (and that just wouldn’t do!). I spent 45 minutes sitting in the car thinking, ahhh I’m getting married today!!! by myself. I prefer your version.

 
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Ms. Library
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Ms. Library (message)  1,251 posts, Bumble bee

Such a cute idea! I may have to make one of those for my bestie I’m being MOH for in August!

 
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Kudos to you for having your “alone” time! I wish I could have done that, but all the ladies were getting their hair and make-up done in my suite so I couldn’t really escape or relax comfortably the whole morning. What was even worse, we didn’t think ahead of time that that meant my (then) fiance also didn’t have a room to relax and get ready in. Bridal fail.

 
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Miss Tartlet (message)  3,207 posts, Sugar bee

That book is such a sweet gift from your sister! I’m definitely going to need some time alone the day of the wedding, although I haven’t figured out yet how to work it in. Glad you were able to!

 
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Mrs. Cardigan
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Mrs. Cardigan (message)  8,645 posts, Bee Keeper

What a sweet gift from your sister! And I totally get the anti-social thing! I wanted as few people as possible in the room on the morning of our wedding!

 
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hrev2010 (message)  416 posts, Helper bee

Wow! Props to you for making whoopie pies that morning! I love the book, too. What a great idea!

 
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BeautifulKatastrofie (message)  189 posts, Blushing bee

Thanks for the advice, I’m an introvert myself and being around others especially overbearing family tends to get me anxious and stressed. I really want to be alone for most of the day before, just me doing some relaxing decorating of the reception room. Everyone keeps getting upset that I want to be alone and keeps telling me I need to be surrounded with lots of people. I told my FI that when we check into the hotel we are not telling anyone what room we are in, last thing I need is 15 people getting in my personal space in a tiny room. I’m so glad to hear I’m not the only one that feels this way.

 
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Mrs. Earrings (message)  2,481 posts, Buzzing bee

I definitely understand the antisocial thing. I got ready with just my hair and makeup artist present (and sometimes my mum) down one end of the house, while everyone else was at the other end so I wouldnt get too stressed with everyone in my space!

 
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sugarpea (message)  1,460 posts, Bumble bee

I can totally relate! I just want it to be my mom, grandma, and I, along with as few friends as possible. I love quiet time, and I know that I won’t get much of it later in the day (: I’ll take what I can get

 
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Denali (message)  296 posts, Helper bee

I love everything about this post. Thank you! And you look beautiful and calm in that picture :)

 
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Lilacgal
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Lilacgal (message)  380 posts, Helper bee

That is a sweet gift she made and gave you. And I am amazed you were in the kitchen baking/cooking on your wedding day… and look soo calm and relaxed….WOW! You rock!

 
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Miss Cotton Candy (message)  436 posts, Helper bee

your sister gift is so thoughtful! You look so calm in that picture I’m going to have to try to channel some of that on our day!

 
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Mrs. Eggs Benedict (message)  339 posts, Helper bee

I totally relate - I kept taking minutes to myself during the day so that I could have some time to reflect on everything that was happening around me!

 
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Mrs. Hermit Crab
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Mrs. Hermit Crab (message)  3,566 posts, Sugar bee

That book is so beautiful! Great tip - I totally agree!

 
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Miss Ostrich (message)  1,948 posts, Buzzing bee

what a valuable nugget of advice, knitting. i’m gonna tuck this one away for our wedding day. thank you!

 
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Miss Cinnamon Bun
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Miss Cinnamon Bun (message)  1,100 posts, Bumble bee

I haven’t decided what I need yet…. I really want everyone to be around, but I’m like you and will probably freak out if everyone is in my room at once.

 
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helenberrycrunch (message)  3,703 posts, Sugar bee

That is a pretty fly hat.

 
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Mrs. Knitting, Toronto Age and Occupation: 24, Student Recruitment Assistant Fiance's Age and Occupation: 24, Neuroscience PhD Candidate Engagement Date: October 2009 Wedding Date: December 2010 Venue: University of Toronto Faculty Club About Me: I'm a pearl wearing, etiquette book reading Toronto girl who loves cooking and baking, museums, charm bracelets, and collecting books on Jackie Kennedy (a lot). I've been known to spend Sunday mornings at the antique market, Wednesday evenings at sister sushi dinners, and any bit of spare time reading. After six and a half years of many late night walks, watching DVDs together in bed, travelling to places like New York, and Tobermory, doing Sudokus together on the couch, lots of Indian food, the occasional yoga class, moving in together and so much more, Mr. Knitting and I are planning a cozy Christmasy (it's a word!), vintage wedding in Toronto complete with many DIY projects (eek!) and lots of help from our amazing group of family and friends.

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