Something I’ve seen on a lot of blogs (that I don’t know if I would have come up with by myself if I’d cut myself off from all wedding media once I got engaged) is out of town bags: bags that you leave at the hotel for your out of town guests. That doesn’t mean I don’t think they’re a great idea, because I think they’re an awesome idea! If I ever receive one, I’ll be so happy and so grateful for it. I suppose if I want to receive one, I need to start going to weddings—I haven’t done much of that, but that’s a story for another day!
I don’t know if it is something we’ll get to do, because we’re trying to keep the budget reasonable, and unfortunately, out of town bags are one of those ‘nice-to-have-but-not-essential’ things that get chopped in the first round of cuts. This hasn’t stopped me from looking for bags and things to put in them, though!

I blame this bag for even getting me thinking semi-seriously about OOT bags! How perfect for our wedding is this bag by BucktoothedBunny? Sadly, at $14 each, they’re not something I’d want to buy in bulk. I searched Etsy again, and found these booky bags:

(by gigart from San Francisco. Because we got engaged there, I have a soft spot for everything San Francisco!)

At $8 each (cheaper if you use their buy 4 get 1 free listings!) this bag from whodoesntwantthat might be the most likely candidate.
I do own a Gocco (purchased 3 years ago with the secret hope of ‘If I ever get married, I can make our invites!’) that I’ve never used, so I could buy blank bags and print exactly what I wanted. I don’t know if I want to take on learning a new skill at this point in planning, though.
I’ve also thought about what I’d put in said theoretical bags. I’d gather some maps and guidebooks for the city, and there’d be a welcome note or something stuck in there, too. I thought it might be nice to bake something simple like muffins, and wrap a couple up for each bag. But, people might want jam with their muffins, and I could include that, but then they’d get more jam as their favours from the wedding… that seemed excessive. A local magazine has their annual food issue out right now, I want to buy up a bunch of copies to give to people, because the recommendations are great.
I’m also not sure who would get a bag. Would it be one per room? So, married aunt and uncle share one, but so do the 3 high school friends of mine who are sharing a room? To save money, could we get away with only giving them to immediate family? Only those who are traveling internationally? It feels a little funny to pick and choose our people like that. Looking at our numbers, even though we’re having a small wedding, I think there may not be any OOT bags in our future. We’d need close to 40 bags, because 2/3 of our guests are from out of town (and 1/2 of the out-of-towners are traveling internationally to get here).
I think that to save, OOT bags may get downgraded to a nice welcome letter in an envelope, maybe with a copy of the magazine I mentioned above.
What were/are the logistics for your OOT bags? One per room or one per person? Were they for everyone from out of town, or just closer family members?






















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