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Ms. Sloth, Philadelphia Age and Occupation: 35, Account Manager and Fashion Blogger Fiance's Age and Occupation: 30, Design Admin Engagement Date: December 25, 2009 Wedding Date: May 2011 Venue: Bartram's Garden About Me: I'm an internet junkie and music snob with a good eye for a bargain. I couldn't live without thrift store shopping, cheeseburgers, sushi, Coke Zero, websites devoted to silly photos of baby animals, Photoshop, and Mr. Sloth. Speaking of which, he and I are a pair of goofball homebody nerds who love our beagle (the most ridiculously adorable dog EVER) to an embarrassing degree. We're planning a low-key and intimate yet festive and quirky outdoor wedding with DIY details and deeply personal touches, and it's all taking place in the city where we fell in love and call home: Philadelphia.
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Just Dance

March 17th, 2011 @ 1:22 pm by Ms. Sloth

I’ve mentioned before how choosing the party music has been difficult for us.

Neither Mr. S nor I are big dancers (I might get out on the floor if I’ve had enough drinks, but in seven years, I’ve never seen my beloved fiancé dance). And neither Mr. S nor I are fans of most current dance music.

But our guests like to dance, and we want them to have fun, but we don’t want to have to listen to music that we dislike at our own wedding!

So after many, many hours, we came up with a general playlist for the party. We’ll give the list to our DJ with instructions that he can deviate from the list as long as he doesn’t go too far off, and that he has to honor our Do Not Play list.

When I posted my tips for an iPod reception, I mentioned that it’s a good idea to organize songs into sets based on genre.

And so our playlist is organized by genre as well, although we expect that our DJ will break it up, instead of playing 30 Motown or Soul songs in a row.

And without further ado, the Sloth wedding songs!

Current/Top 40 Set (We mostly hate Top 40 but have agreed that our guests would enjoy it, so we selected a handful of songs that will be okay):

  • Outkast - Hey Ya!
  • Beyonce - Single Ladies (Put a Ring on it)
  • The Black-Eyed Peas - I Gotta Feeling
  • Justin Timberlake - Rock Your Body
  • Gnarls Barkley - Crazy
  • Ke$ha - Tik Tok
  • Cee-Lo Green - Forget You (if only we could play the unedited version. Sigh)
  • Lady Gaga - Just Dance

Classic Rock Set:

  • AC/DC - (You Shook Me) All Night Long
  • Elton John - Crocodile Rock
  • Billy Joel - Only the Good Die Young
  • Grand Funk Railroad - Some Kind of Wonderful
  • Journey - Don’t Stop Believin’
  • The Kinks - You Really Got Me
  • The Beatles - Twist and Shout
  • Def Leppard - Pour Some Sugar on Me
  • Queen - Another One Bites the Dust
  • Tom Petty - American Girl

’80s Set:

  • Billy Idol - Rebel Yell
  • Blondie - Call Me
  • The Knack - My Sharona
  • The Cars - Let’s Go
  • Soft Cell - Tainted Love
  • The Go-Go’s - Vacation
  • The Clash - Should I Stay or Should I Go?
  • The Cure - Just Like Heaven
  • Hall & Oates - You Make My Dreams
  • New Order - Bizarre Love Triangle
  • Katrina & the Waves - Walking on Sunshine
  • The B-52’s - Love Shack
  • Dead or Alive - You Spin Me Round

Actually Early ’90s but Tacked onto the ’80s Set:

  • George Michael - Freedom 90
  • Deee-Lite - Groove is in the Heart

Old-School Hip-Hop Set:

  • Run DMC - You Be Illin’
  • Salt-N-Pepa - Push It
  • Young MC - Bust a Move
  • Rob Base - It Takes Two
  • Sugar Hill Gang - Rapper’s Delight
  • The Beastie Boys - So Whatcha Want?
  • Digital Underground - The Humpty Dance
  • Baby Got Back - Sir Mix-a-a lota lot

MMP (Madonna/Michael Jackson/Prince) Set:

  • Michael Jackson - Don’t Stop Till You Get Enough
  • Prince - Let’s Go Crazy
  • Madonna - Borderline
  • Michael Jackson - PYT (Pretty Young Thing)
  • Prince - Kiss
  • Madonna - Into the Groove
  • Michael Jackson - Thriller
  • Madonna - Holiday
Old-School Motown/Soul/R&B Set:

  • Rick James - Superfreak
  • The Four Tops - Reach Out I’ll Be There
  • Barry White - Can’t Get Enough of Your Love, Babe
  • The Bee-Gees - Stayin’ Alive
  • The Jackson Five - I Want You Back
  • Smokey Robinson - The Tears of a Clown
  • Stevie Wonder - Sir Duke
  • The Temptations - Get Ready
  • Aretha Franklin - Chain of Fools
  • Rare Earth - Get Ready
  • Martha and the Vandellas - Dancing in the Street
  • The Supremes - Stop! In the Name of Love
  • Marvin Gaye - I Heard it Through the Grapevine
  • The Commodores - Brick House
  • The Four Tops - It’s the Same Old Song
  • The Jackson Five - ABC

Do Not Play List:

  • Chicken Dance
  • YMCA
  • Hokey Pokey
  • Hot Hot Hot
  • Cha Cha Slide
  • Cotton Eye Joe
  • Who Let the Dogs Out?
  • The Macarena
  • Mambo No. 5
  • The Limbo
  • (Basically, any song that has a special choreographed dance)
  • Any modern country (Shania Twain, Kenny Chesney, Garth Brooks, etc.)
  • Any top 40 songs that aren’t specifically on our list

And that’s that: the party playlist. It’s got something for everyone (we hope, we hope).

What kind of music is your favorite to dance to? And what is/was on your Do Not Play list?

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43 Responses to “Just Dance”

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Julie

another add you may want on your “do not play list” is “baby got back”. not sure why dj’s think this is wedding appropriate, but last wedding i went to they played it TWICE!

 
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jbz (message)  54 posts, Worker bee

another add you may want on your “do not play list” is “baby got back”. not sure why dj’s think this is wedding appropriate, but last wedding i went to they played it TWICE!

 
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Baileyh
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Baileyh (message)  3,491 posts, Sugar bee

ohh love love love your play list! Im a big fan of the Classic Rock…cant go wrong.

On a side note…we played the YMCA at our wedding…probably one of the high lights of the evening. The DJ handed out costumes and there is nothing like seeing your dad wearing feathers and dancing….:)

 
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Miss Sloth
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Miss Sloth (message)  3,184 posts, Sugar bee

@Julie: We have “Baby Got Back” on our playlist. I think it’s fun and nobody will be offended. :)

 
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MrsMcGyro (message)  1,500 posts, Bumble bee

OMG Mambo #5 is my all time most hated song! I’d stab the DJ with my cake set if he played that crappola.

 
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Christine

PYT is a personal favorite. I would add that I also love some Billy Idol, Dancing with Myself. Love your list!

 
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katiedee
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katiedee (message)  625 posts, Busy bee

I agree with ALL of your do not play selections…but I have a soft spot for the Cupid Shuffle. I don’t know why, but I love it. I find it to be the only “choreographed” dancing song that doesn’t made me want to run and hide.

 
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chrispygal
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chrispygal (message)  1,198 posts, Bumble bee

I love top 40 music, but I have to say that I think your song list is awesome! It’s definitely songs I know and would love to dance to. I think you put together a very thoughtful list. Good job! P.S. I am TOTALLY stealing your do not play list, but also adding Soulja Boy, Sexy Back, and OMG. haha.

 
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xtatic1
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xtatic1 (message)  779 posts, Busy bee

I have a lot of the same songs on my do not play list but forgot a couple….thanks for the reminder, I loathe choreographed dance songs too :)

 
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mshoagie
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mshoagie (message)  780 posts, Busy bee

Love your selections!!!!
@katiedee- we too are leaving room for the Cupid Shuffle. Neither of us are huge fans of the “choreographed” dance but there are some many who do and we don’t want to leave them out. We figure one can’t hurt.
Our DNP includes Soul Sister by Train and Grenade by Bruno Mars.

 
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JNWhite
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JNWhite (message)  227 posts, Helper bee

We are very much a dancing couple, so I don’t know that there will be a whole lot on our do not play list. I love hard rock, but I don’t know if it’s very wedding appropriate. Plus, I only like a selected few of Michael Jackson songs, and those will be only ones allowed to be played. I think we’ll have a lot of different types of music which will hopefully make everyone comfortable.

 
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Chocolatte
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Chocolatte (message)  198 posts, Blushing bee

thank you for this! there are a few on your do not play that i need to go add…

 
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KMA

I like all music and Top 40 etc., but I think most of even your non top 40 is fairly mainstream and still very dancable. They’re all pretty famous songs so everyone should know them - that’s the main thing that gets everyone dancing.

I also like Baby Got Back haha.

 
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Miss Elephant
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Miss Elephant (message)  6,182 posts, Bee Keeper

Thanks for the Motown section! Some of those were just added to our list!

 
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sparks
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sparks (message)  649 posts, Busy bee

This is a great playlist. I may steal this to get our playlist started.
I HATE choreographed dance songs as well, they are dumb and they take up so. much. time.

 
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ItsPronounced_ABear
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ItsPronounced_ABear (message)  680 posts, Busy bee

I’m pretty the opposite. I have 2/3 of your do not play list since I’m BIG into line dances. (No chicken dance though!!)
I also like quite a bit more top 40 than you, but not all of it. I love the 80’s. Actually, you reminded me to add Just Like Heaven to our request list!

To each his own.

 
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crownofstorms (message)  532 posts, Busy bee

I just wanted to say that your playlist ROCKS.

 
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Miss Ostrich (message)  1,948 posts, Buzzing bee

*HIGH FIVE* Sloth. This is an epic playlist!

 
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R.Elliott (message)  1,011 posts, Bumble bee

And saving this list!

 
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ktisthatbees
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ktisthatbees (message)  2,742 posts, Sugar bee

Your playlist is perfect!!!!!!!

Except for one thing. . .

WHY WHY WHY WHY IS BON JOVI LIVIN ON A PRAYER NOT ON THE PLAY LIST?!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ahem. . .ok done yelling now :)

 
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Ms. Sloth, Philadelphia Age and Occupation: 35, Account Manager and Fashion Blogger Fiance's Age and Occupation: 30, Design Admin Engagement Date: December 25, 2009 Wedding Date: May 2011 Venue: Bartram's Garden About Me: I'm an internet junkie and music snob with a good eye for a bargain. I couldn't live without thrift store shopping, cheeseburgers, sushi, Coke Zero, websites devoted to silly photos of baby animals, Photoshop, and Mr. Sloth. Speaking of which, he and I are a pair of goofball homebody nerds who love our beagle (the most ridiculously adorable dog EVER) to an embarrassing degree. We're planning a low-key and intimate yet festive and quirky outdoor wedding with DIY details and deeply personal touches, and it's all taking place in the city where we fell in love and call home: Philadelphia.

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