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Mrs. Magic, Chapel Hill, NC Age and Occupation: 30, Licensed Clinical Social Worker Fiance's Age and Occupation: 30, Researcher Engagement Date: December 1, 2009 Wedding Date: October 2011 Venue: Barn at Valhalla About Me: I’m a tall drink of water (5’10”!) and a Southern bride with an enormous appetite for Mexican food, good deals, anything French, and all things wedding! By day I am lucky enough to work with individuals with autism and their families. By night, I’m even luckier to be able to spend time hanging out with awesome friends, crafting, shopping, thinking about exercising, and kicking it with Mr. Magic and our two cats. I tend to have sudden, intense cravings that will not be denied (seafood enchiladas! new jeans!) and I’m prone to being a disorganized mess of anxiety and stress. After waiting (and waiting!) to get engaged, I am finally planning the colorful, fun, fabulously awesome Fall wedding of our dreams. In an effort to share the fun and craziness that is wedding planning, I’m gonna blog about it for y’all---the good, the bad, and the pretty!
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Dress Doubt Disorder

March 28th, 2011 @ 10:13 am by Mrs. Magic

Diagnostic criteria for dress doubt disorder:

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A diagnosis of dress doubt disorder is made when the following criteria from A, B, and C are met.

  1. A total of six (or more) items from (1), (2), and (3), with at least two from (1), and at least one each from (2) and (3):
    1. Qualitative impairment in cognition, as manifested by at least two of the following, one of which must include (a):
      1. extreme feelings of doubt or uncertainty regarding dress decision
      2. marked impairment in or decreased thoughts of topics other than dress
      3. failure to attend to topics other than dress
      4. increased cognition directed solely toward dress
      5. lack of insight into rational processes regarding dress
    2. Qualitative impairments in social emotional behavior as manifested by at least one of the following:
      1. increased anxiety regarding dress that can be exhibited by nail biting, lack of sleep, physical pain, headaches, crying, and/or irritability
      2. marked impairment in ability to trust others who were previously deemed trustworthy fashion advisers
      3. extremely labile mood exhibited by twirling in dress and then quickly crying while still wearing said dress (or other similar behaviors)
      4. inability to be soothed or calmed about dress decision
    3. Restricted, repetitive, and stereotyped patterns of behavior, interest, and activities, as manifested by at least one of the following:
      1. encompassing preoccupation with dresses, both one’s own and others’
      2. repetitive thoughts and/or language regarding dress
      3. repetitive behaviors regarding dresses (as evidenced by trying dress on or reading magazines with known high dress counts)
      4. persistent preoccupation with parts of dresses, such as lace boleros, sashes, trains, and veils, as well as dress styles and fashion trends
  2. The symptoms cause clinically significant distress or impairment in social, occupational, or other important areas of functioning.
  3. The disturbance is not better accounted for by buyer’s remorse disorder.

Research shows that between 10% and 70% of brides suffer from some degree of dress doubt disorder. Treatment usually involves multiple repetitive conversations in an attempt to placate the bride, with limited results. Anti-anxiety pills are sometimes prescribed, as well as cognitive behavioral therapy. In some extreme cases, exposure or in-vivo therapy is indicated.

Have you suffered from DDD? I think I might have it…

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21 Responses to “Dress Doubt Disorder”

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iheartyou132 (message)  185 posts, Blushing bee

As a clinical social work student, I love this.

 
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missrobots
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missrobots (message)  2,068 posts, Buzzing bee

Funny. I definitely have suffered dress doubt disorder, mild, recurrent.

 
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Miss Candy Apple (message)  1,832 posts, Buzzing bee

Heart you, Magic.

Why is it that so many brides get this?! I blame the dress industry, for forcing us to get dresses so far in advance, thus making us re-think our decision constantly over the next million months.

 
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Catylady
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Catylady (message)  5,506 posts, Bee Keeper

lol. Yes I did but luckily I hadn’t bought it yet.

 
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Miss Lox (message)  1,402 posts, Bumble bee

You know I suffered from a rather advanced case of DDD myself. But now I’m an inspirational story! It CAN be overcome!

Maybe I should start teaching a seminar or something. ;)

 
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candicemcc (message)  759 posts, Busy bee

As soon as I saw the layout of the criteria I had to remind myself of your occupation. (Masters in Psyc over here.) :)

 
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mrsbowieii
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mrsbowieii (message)  704 posts, Busy bee

I blame the onset of bride brain which makes you obessed with weddings and constantly looking at wedding related items which in turn causes brides to reserve the right to change their mind 1,000 times before having to make a solid decision.

It’ll be ok. You aren’t alone.

 
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pookiepie (message)  317 posts, Helper bee

I feel you in this one! my wedding is far way ahead, with all the wedding dresses that come up with different styles and more wedding magazines to read, I am a little doubt if my wedding dress is just too plain simple for me. well, it makes me feel better, I’m not alone with this feeling :)

 
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ItsPronounced_ABear (message)  1,002 posts, Bumble bee

Oh yes, just wrote a long reply regarding such on a message board this morning. Long story short, I caved and bought a new one.
Fortunatley the first one was a steal (which probably contributed to buying the wrong one in the first place.)

 
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Shannamaria (message)  32 posts, Newbee

OMG….so glad to hear I’m not the only one. I just posted last night that I’m in major meltdown mode over my dress! I haven’t slept more than 5 hours in two days. I’m obsessing…and it’s driving me out of my mind. Im on the 2nd dress right now…I loved it and within 2 hours my panic alarm kicked in. I’m currently trying to recover from the mania.

 
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Mrs. Meerkat (message)  3,242 posts, Sugar bee

I think that the statistics should read 99% of brides suffer from DDD. There is always that time, no matter how sure you were, where you are waiting for the dress to arrive and you are worried you will hate it.

 
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Miss Tartlet
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Miss Tartlet (message)  3,227 posts, Sugar bee

Oh, yes. It didn’t help that I continued watching shows like SYTTD! Thankfully every time I’ve tried on my dress I fall in love with her all over again, but I’ve definitely experienced times of doubt.

 
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Ms. Anemone
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Ms. Anemone (message)  624 posts, Busy bee

Definitely.
I think.
;)

 
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dulce ana lee

I’m sick, I have DDD symptoms (all ) !

 
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tbowling15
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tbowling15 (message)  27 posts, Newbee

@Miss Tartlet: Oh SYTTD… so devilish, but so fabulous!

 
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Crown
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Crown (message)  575 posts, Busy bee

This totally made me laugh so hard I snorted like Arnold Ziffel. As a Mental Health Counselor myself, I LOVE this and will staple it to the back of my DSM-IV.

 
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MissBear

Unfortunately, yes, and now i have an official name for it! :( It was less than an hour after I bought the dress that I realized that maybe I made the wrong choice. I go back over the pictures I took and it makes me feel even worse. I’m not the kind of person to do things on a whim, and dress #9 for some reason made me say THIS ONE! Rash decisions always leave me in remorse, but this one is the worst. :(

 
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Alicia C
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Alicia C (message)  41 posts, Newbee

this is so true

 
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JD

Uhhh, does anybody else look at parts of their dress that they used to love and think that just maybe, they’re actually “weird” and you HATE them… or maybe not, maybe you do still really love them… you just couldn’t say… ???

 
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sara

as a phd student in clinical psychology who is just starting to look for my dress, i love this post… haha :) hopefully i don’t develop DDD!!!!

 
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Mrs. Magic, Chapel Hill, NC Age and Occupation: 30, Licensed Clinical Social Worker Fiance's Age and Occupation: 30, Researcher Engagement Date: December 1, 2009 Wedding Date: October 2011 Venue: Barn at Valhalla About Me: I’m a tall drink of water (5’10”!) and a Southern bride with an enormous appetite for Mexican food, good deals, anything French, and all things wedding! By day I am lucky enough to work with individuals with autism and their families. By night, I’m even luckier to be able to spend time hanging out with awesome friends, crafting, shopping, thinking about exercising, and kicking it with Mr. Magic and our two cats. I tend to have sudden, intense cravings that will not be denied (seafood enchiladas! new jeans!) and I’m prone to being a disorganized mess of anxiety and stress. After waiting (and waiting!) to get engaged, I am finally planning the colorful, fun, fabulously awesome Fall wedding of our dreams. In an effort to share the fun and craziness that is wedding planning, I’m gonna blog about it for y’all---the good, the bad, and the pretty!

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