These (Shoes) Are Made For Walkin’

I am really not a shoe person, at least not in the way that so many other girls are.

Sure, I would kill for a sweet pair of Christian Louboutins. Who wouldn’t? Seriously. How can you resist these? Black glitter shoes are my favorite. Actually, any glitter shoes are my favorite.


{Christian Louboutin. Drool.}

I digress. Anyway, I really don’t own that many pairs of shoes, comparatively. (Did you know that some people have entire closets of shoes? If that is you, I am totally jealous.) I have some kitten-heel shoes for work, a few pairs of flats and boots (including my cowboy boots, which I am obsessed with), workout shoes. One or two pairs of heels. But really? I just like spending my money on things other than super-expensive shoes that will just get worn out in a year.

So, it’s been tricky for me finding shoes that I want to wear at our wedding. Particularly because I am a little bit scared of heels. What?? I’m tall! I have weak ankles! I have a long way to fall if my weak ankles give out on me. Don’t get me wrong—I do want, and am going, to wear heels for my wedding. If it kills me. OK, OK, maybe just for the ceremony. But for the reception? I’m thinking that I need to change into something more…appropriate. Let’s be honest. Since I never wear heels, I will probably die if I try to wear heels for nine-plus hours on my wedding day. Especially since I will be on my feet a lot of the time. And trying to dance in tall heels? Yeah. Not happening. Blisters and raw skin on my feet the day after the wedding do not sound appealing.

Thus begins my quest for the perfect wedding-reception flats. I don’t want anything too plain, but I definitely want them to be comfortable and fun. Granted, people probably won’t be able to see them, but they still must be cute. It’s just a requirement. Don’t question it.

At first, I considered jumping on the Toms bandwagon. They’re flats. They’re breathable. They’re en vogue right now. And, for each pair of Toms you purchase, Toms will give a pair of shoes to a child in need. Win win win, right?


{Shoes by Toms/ Image by A Little Bit of Whimsy Photography / Via Eco-Beautiful Weddings}

But, they’re just too informal for the look I am going for. I would feel a little bit weird wearing them at the reception, mainly because I don’t wear this type of shoe on a day-to-day basis. So, it would just seem out of place. They’re not “me.”

So I turned to my old, trusty stand by: J.Crew. They have tons of cute flats! And I love Liberty prints (someone please buy me a million yards of that stuff), so I definitely was drawn to these shoes.



But, they’re just a little…blah. Nothing special. They just don’t really scream “wedding,” or even “special event.” I would love to wear them with little gray skinny jeans, though! (Also, J.Crew flats give me toe cleavage, which Mr. Candy Apple hates. Why do I have to have such long toes?!)

Since I clearly know what I’m doing, I did an online search for “wedding blog” and “flats.” Yes. I am awesome. It didn’t really turn up much (obviously), but after some trawling around, I came across this loveliness.


{Steve Madden / Image by Kristen Marie / Via Green Wedding Shoes}

I think they’re from Steve Madden. So that means they are the right price! And, we all know how much I adore eyelet. But, again, they’re just a bit plain for me. (I’m too picky.)

And then. Then, I found these beauties. I mean, come on. Sparkles? A bow? Charcoal gray? I might be a little obsessed with how the square toe makes it look like a ballet shoe. Maybe. Love, love, love. I am just not sure how well they would go with everything. Kate Spade is pretty pricey, too, so I’m not sure I would want to spend that much on flats. Although, let’s be honest, I would wear these all the time with jeans after the wedding.


{Kate Spade}

And…that’s where I have gotten at this point—nowhere. Sigh. I need a personal stylist. I guess there are always ye olde trusty flip-flops? Someone send help.

Did you wear flats to your wedding and/or reception? Do you have any awesome non-heeled shoe suggestions?


Mrs. Candy Apple

Princeton Junction, NJ/ Seattle, WA
Wedding Date:
August 2011
With this Wing: Reception Details
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  1. Member
    Cee-Bee 62 posts, Worker bee @ 9:41 am

    Chinese laundry has some super cute glitter flats… look them up!

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    mandigrl04 669 posts, Busy bee @ 9:45 am

    You can always use

    You can type in the type of the item you want and the price range and it pulls a bunch of stuff up for you.

    So you could type in blue flats under $25 and it pulls all the blue flats under that price :)

    It could be fun to play on there!

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    lox 1465 posts, Bumble bee @ 9:46 am

    If you have long toes, the Steve Maddens will almost definitely give you toe cleavage. Which is sad because they have perfect glittery flats which would totally be re-wearable after the wedding. :(

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    tartlet 3227 posts, Sugar bee @ 9:54 am

    I was drooling over those Kate Spade flats the other day, too. :( I’m keeping a pair of flats handy on the wedding day–just in case!

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    shanawhimsy 38 posts, Newbee @ 9:58 am

    Oh those shoes are to die for! I love them :)

    I am having my shoes painted by figgieshoes (just google her!) you can chose any shoes you want ( even flats!) and know they will be special and unique!

    p.s. I am a heel lover and I have a pair of flats and a pair of heels. That way I can change if I need to! No reason to be uncomfy right!


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    jthomas, Guest @ 10:12 am

    I wore flats, which was a GREAT decision. Comfy, and absolutely no worries about falling.

    Target had several different pairs of glittery flats the last time I was there. Might be a place to check out. And they’re cheap!

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    shanawhimsy 38 posts, Newbee @ 10:13 am

    Oh those are to dies for!

    Trust me and google figgieshoes! I am having my shoes hand painted by her and you can pick any shoes that you want!

    p.s. I am having a pair of heels and a pair of flats at the reception. Just in case :)

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    S'mores, Guest @ 10:13 am

    Go to Milk & Honey! Design your own flats!

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    shanawhimsy 38 posts, Newbee @ 10:14 am

    oops sorry about the double ( now triple comment) please ignore the second one!

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    xmofreshx 80 posts, Worker bee @ 10:16 am

    I’m wearing the Calvin Klein Rya in ivory. Available at zappos and endless. i needed flats too bc my fiance is only an inch taller than me! i think the satin makes them formal, and the crystals give it a little something extra :) Plus theyre around $100 bucks! score.

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    wine_bride_2011 30 posts, Newbee @ 10:23 am

    My fiance and I are exactly the same height, so I will be wearing flats for the ceremony and the reception. Epic win for my feet! We’re doing a wine-themed wedding and I found flats that have cork on them, to further tie in our theme.

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    mrsbowieii 704 posts, Busy bee @ 10:26 am

    I love shoes… Doesn’t matter heels, flats, dressy, casual, boots… I love them all. I am that girl that took over the entire shelf of the closest with my shoes. (My bridal shower is even purse and shoe themed).

    I wish you luck on the shoe hunt.

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    mizzbaseball 83 posts, Worker bee @ 10:32 am

    I was just at Macy’s yesterday and they had a pair of gold glitter flats that I had to seriously convince myself that I did NOT need and force myself away from the department. And they were on clearance! I don’t remember who makes them, though =/

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    shirasagi 899 posts, Busy bee @ 10:38 am

    I’m in the same boat with you about shoes. I like them but I’m not obsessed with them. I would love to rock a hot pair of heels more often but they just hurt my feet too much and I spend most of the night feeling miserable. It’s not really worth it.

    I just checked out and found some really cute flats!

    These glittery ones from Steve Madden:

    More sparkles (in gold or silver) from Nine West:

    These could be super cute depending on what your dress and theme is (I think they would look cute for a rustic chic wedding)

    Sandals might be pretty too!

    More Steve Madden:

    Hope you can find the perfect pair!

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    Ms. Lone Star, Guest @ 10:53 am

    I’m wearing all silver Tory Burch flats to my wedding! At $190, they aren’t cheap, but, I’ll wear them again and again after the wedding AND won’t have any heel issues. You just have to make sure to break them in a bit before the wedding.

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    emthegem, Guest @ 11:01 am

    I’m wearing navy blue ballet flats by Vera Wang Lavender Label…I got them for a steal at Nordstrom. They are my something blue, plus they tie in our colors (navy, grey, and cranberry). I actually found them before the dress–risky, I know, but when I saw them I couldn’t resist!! :)

    They look similar to this, but with even more sparkle:

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    AuroraRose2011 76 posts, Worker bee @ 11:03 am

    I chose the Ladon by Me Too for all day at my wedding. They’re super comfy and they come in a bunch of colors, including white if you prefer. I got the royal blue ones! There’s also another one by Me Too that looks similar to the Kate Spade ones you posted. They run around $60, too which is a bonus. Good luck!

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    jenandchris 739 posts, Busy bee @ 11:07 am

    Those Kate Spade’s are my wedding shoes!! I’m obsessssed with them. So much sparkle! I’m excited that they’ll be a very fun shoe to wear after the wedding, too!

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    apple, Guest @ 11:14 am

    Kate Spade has a 25% Friends & Family discount this weekend — code is FFSPR11 — if that would make the decision easier!

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    Abby C., Guest @ 11:17 am

    Steve Madden’s website actually has lots more fab flats – including sparkly ones like the Loubotin but in flats. And, for much less pricy than Kate Spade!

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    Miss Kid 122 posts, Blushing bee @ 11:41 am

    I’m wearing flats!!!!!! I love Rocketdog and Chinese Laundry for flats, but I’m also not into sparkle, so I don’t know if that’s helpful. Check out DSW though, NEVER underestimate DSW :)

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    msseal 1179 posts, Bumble bee @ 12:00 pm

    Eeeeek. I’m a total shoe person and have way too many pairs but I still haven’t the foggiest idea of what I want to wear on W-Day.

    Loving the Kate Spade flats and the Steve Maddens! (Oh and you killed me with the shoe cleavage remark…bwahaha)

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    Kcoleybear 683 posts, Busy bee @ 12:36 pm

    I absolutely adore the sparkly Kate Spade flats.

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    elephant 6339 posts, Bee Keeper @ 1:22 pm

    I’ll be changing out of my heels after the ceremony. Hope you can find some cute flats that you like!

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    meerkat 3257 posts, Sugar bee @ 2:08 pm

    Love the Steve Madden ones!

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    panther 1112 posts, Bumble bee @ 2:44 pm

    I’m OBSESSED with those Kate Spade flats. If I could wear flats (for some reason, they’re MUCH more uncomfortable for me than heels — we’re talking blisters as far as the eye can see), I would be wearing them RIGHT. NOW.
    Get themmmmm! :)

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    JillBill 425 posts, Helper bee @ 7:24 pm

    I ended up finding really, really low wedges when I perused shoes sites, looking under the “heels” section… I just specified I wanted the lowest heel setting possible. Maybe that would work for you!

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    MissCasey 223 posts, Helper bee @ 8:45 pm

    I’ll be going the flip-flops route… because you rarely see me in anything else from mid-March until November. And believe me, I’d wear them year-round if the Midwest winters would allow me!

    The last shoes are super cute…

    Have you considered peep toe flats? I like the look of them better because you see cute toe nails rather than the yuck of wrinkly toe cleavage!

  29. biscuit Member
    biscuit 627 posts, Busy bee @ 9:59 pm

    I never wear heels either, and I bought 5 inch crazy heels. I don’t know what I was thinking. I’d like to wear flats to the reception, but I’m afraid I’ll drag on the floor unless I get some sort of smaller heel!

    I love all the shoes you showed…I say, go for the most comfortable re-wearable ones :).

  30. mscottoncandy Member
    mscottoncandy 436 posts, Helper bee @ 10:27 pm

    The Kate Spades are currently on my want list but its so hard to splurge on a pair of flats!

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    nicoliolihpf 232 posts, Helper bee @ 11:30 am

    It took me AGES to find my shoes! Haha, I have 3 whole blog posts about it because I was looking for almost a year. I’m with you, I don’t have a million shoes, but the hard thing for me was finding something with a low heel since Daniel’s not that much taller than me. But I finally found the perfect shoes for the perfect price, and I’m sure you will too!

    P.S. Sparkles are awesome!

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    violarulz 142 posts, Blushing bee @ 12:35 am

    I wore ivory heels and silver/gold sequined flats that I changed into after our first dance. My feet never hurt all day!

    The flats were from the clearance rack at DSW and don’t really seem to exist online…. They also needed arches (I have really high arches), so I bought some stick-on jelly-like arches –also from DSW.

    My personal suggestion is to just go shopping and see what you find. Then you can try everything on and see if you get toe cleavage or not. I’m not a fan either.

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    sara, Guest @ 9:12 pm

    I got my flats from Top Shop! Check out the website, mine are called MARLA. Oh yeah, I saw a paid of sparkly flats on Forever 21 that look just like the Steve Madden ones. Good luck!

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    louboutin heels, Guest @ 8:19 am

    Though I don’t agree with you in details, your post is insightful

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    candy apple 1877 posts, Buzzing bee @ 12:37 pm

    You guys – you all rock so hard. Thanks for all of the suggestions!!

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