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In my previous post I explained the reasons why we decided to create a wedding wedsite and how reaching a successful final result helped us feel more confident in our potential as a team.
Step 1: Privacy settings
It is very important to decide how much information you want to make public on the web. Personal details on you and your FI (dates, ages, wedding date, locations) could easily be used by the wrong people to gain access to your identity, accounts and home. For this reason Mr. Caro and I have decided to install password protection to the site and to make it non indexed by search engines. This means that the site can only be accessed via a password and that it will never turn up on a search result list from a search engine.
Spiders-Design is a wordpress plugin
Step 2: Time availability
It took us about two months to finish the wedsite, working many evenings and weekends. We decided to add a lot of content (about us, how we met, the proposal, the area, the travel details, the wedding day locations and schedule…) and we needed to have a multi-language site. This meant having to create a large number of pages in three languages. I also wanted to have a blog section, so I additionally had to create blog posts as well.
The content creation took many hours of work. But also, the process of creating the website from scratch took a long time, as the Wordpress template needed to be adapted, a design needed to be created and applied, and so on.
A word of advice: take some time to consider how much content you can realistically prepare and how much time you want to dedicate to the project. We totally underestimated it!
Step 3: Budget
You need to figure out how much a wedding wedsite is worth to you. $ 10? $ 100? $ 1,000? Remember that, unless you use the completely free option offered by some sites, you will have to pay something - even only the domain and the hosting of the site. See step 5 for more details.
Step 4: Feature wish list
What do you want to use your wedsite for? Which features should it include? How do you want your guests to use it? It’s useful to decide upfront what the wedsite must include! Some features might be:
For example, we want our guests to mail their RSVP so we did not include that on the wedsite to minimize confusion. But we do have a blog section, multi-language, password protection, a multilevel menu and a weather application! You can see some of those features in one of the internal pages:

Step 5: From scratch, ready-to-go or custom design?
There are several options available for creating a wedsite. You could choose to create one from scratch, purchase an already made template which you can then personalize or pay a web designer to create the site for you. Your budget and desired feature list will help you identify the best option for you.
You can find here a great WordPress.com tutorial and here a great Blogger tutorial! Important: if you want your own domain name, for example yourname.com instead of yourname.wordpress.com, you will need to purchase it!
Step 6: Communication
So now you have gotten your wedsite up and running. How do you communicate it to your guests?
There are several ways of course: a mailing, Facebook, word of mouth… We chose to include the website URL on our save the dates (with the password of course) and that decision was a major success—everyone loved it! Unfortunately this meant that we sent our save the dates later than expected, as it took us quite a bit to finish the website (see Step 2). If you are on a tight schedule make sure you keep it simple!
Step 7: Future development
Will you still want your wedding wedsite up and running after the wedding? What will you use it for? Will having it on CD be enough?
We decided that we wanted to add a “Photo Upload” feature immediately after the wedding, where our guests could all upload the pictures of the wedding. Hopefully if everyone does that we will have all the pictures stored in one place! We also decided that we want to keep the site up and running as it might evolve in the future as our life together evolves (I think it’s always useful to have a password protected personal site that only close friends and family have access to!).
Step 8: Ready, set, go!
I hope this post was useful in clarifying which solution is right for you and in giving you some good resources to start from!
Will you have a wedsite? Which is your favorite option or which one did you choose?
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