So, I’m pretty sure I’m the only Kanye fan left… but I had to give him a shout out in my title today, because this post is about BLING. Wedding bling. More specifically, my engagement ring. I realized a few days ago that I never got around to showing it to you all. And while flashing my ice around isn’t usually my style, I wanted to share it with you for a few reasons:
- I love it
- Everyone loves sparkly, pretty things
- I had a bitch of a time getting it to fit right, and the solution is worth sharing
First thing’s first, here’s what I’m rockin:

That’s Essie’s “Lilacism” polish for my fellow nail freaks
Sparks designed that thing all by himself. Can you believe it? I mentioned a few things to Sister Sparkler (skinny band, diamond border) and she must have sneakily passed that info on to Sparks. Good work team, good work.![]()
But, like I said, I had a BITCH of a time getting it to sit right on my finger. My ring was about two and a half sizes too big when I first got it, and I thought getting it sized down would be the end of it spinning around and driving me nuts. Nope.
No matter how small I made it, the top of my ring was constantly underneath my finger… putting it in the prime position for getting banged up. And that’s what happened. It was terrible.
After a hard bang on the countertop, one of the small diamonds fell out of the border. I was heartbroken and cried forEVER. Thankfully, our jeweler replaced the diamond (FOR FREE) and offered a solution that saved my ring (and my sanity… a spinning ring makes it hard to do pretty much anything).

Balls.
Those two tiny balls (known as “spacers” to more mature audiences) hug my little finger and have kept my ring from spinning since the day the jeweler placed them there! Sweet relief! And the best part is, I can get them shaved down or removed for free if I don’t need them during warmer weather.

See the hugging action? I tried to take a picture of my finger… not happening.
Did anyone else have a tough time getting their ring to fit? Did spacers save your life, too?





















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