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Mrs. Sparkler, Chicago Age and Occupation: 27, Communications Aficionado Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Publisher Engagement Date: July 21, 2010 Wedding Date: September 2011 Venue: Chicago Illuminating Company About Me: I’m a Southern lady living in the big city of Chicago. Well, lady may be a stretch, but I’m working hard to keep some Virginia charm in our sleek, urban, wedding-palooza! I’m addicted to marathons, not-so-famous bands, Chicago restaurants, and Mark Twain. I cry during SPCA commercials, and I think LOST was the best show to ever hit television. Mr. S and I met at a classy college mixer and, 7 years later, he’s still by my side. He’s the only child, laid back, free spirit... I’m the oldest of five kids, type-A, organizer. It doesn’t work on paper, but we’ve never paid attention to that stuff anyway. Somehow it works. And like they say, sometimes when you know…you just know.
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Weekend Surprises

April 26th, 2011 @ 1:16 pm by Mrs. Sparkler

What’s up, hive? How was everyone’s Easter weekend? Mine was a bit of a whirlwind, which is why I’ve been a little absent over the past couple of days. I hope you can forgive me; I’m back and I have some great stuff to show you!

So what was I up to? Well, Mom Sparkler surprised me big time by buying me a ticket home to Virginia for the weekend (thank you, thank you, THANK YOU :) ). I got to spend two awesome days cruising around the Potomac, grubbing awesome food, and basically having the greatest time ever with my favorite people in the world, aka: The Sparkler Sisters:

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The girls… brother Sparkler is still gallivanting around Europe. We missed you bro!


In between the delicious food and good conversation, the Sparkler gang actually accomplished a lot of wedding-related tasks (yay for productivity!). We confirmed that, YES, everyone had ordered their bridesmaids’ dresses, we locked down a date for Mom to come to Chi for our menu tasting, we solidified wedding-week accommodations for close family (more on that in the next post), and we found Dad’s saber for the cake cutting.

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Warning: Sparkler with a deadly weapon

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The detail is pretty amazing

Then, while eating Easter dinner at my grandma’s (or “Busia,” for my fellow Polish grandkids :) ), I found the greatest surprise of the entire weekend.

My grandparents had recently cleaned out some cabinets in their basement, and one of the things they found hiding underneath their other treasures was my grandma’s wedding dress. It was gorgeous. While it hadn’t been preserved, the faded color did nothing to take away from the beauty of the gown. The handmade lace, the scalloped edges, the fitted bodice and pleated neckline… it was all stunning. And I was surprised at how emotional I was when I saw her dress. I’ve always felt very close to my grandma, and seeing this beautiful reminder of her wedding day really moved me. It was how I hope my grandchildren will feel one day, when I can share my wedding keepsakes with them.

I wish I would have had my good camera with me but, like I said, I wasn’t expecting such a find!

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It was kind of funny to see something so pretty hanging in the basement :)

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The beautiful HAND STITCHED detail (wow)

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I loved the pleated neckline

If I would have known about the dress earlier, I think I would have asked to wear it. Although, it might not have fit! Busia was teeny-tiny!

Was anyone else emotionally moved when a family member (or friend!) shared their wedding day memories?

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16 Responses to “Weekend Surprises”

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xtatic1
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xtatic1 (message)  778 posts, Busy bee

That dress is beautiful! And I have to say, would still be fashionable today! WOW! Are you going to use it for anything in your wedding?

 
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bananarama
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bananarama (message)  434 posts, Helper bee

Ah - what a fun find! That dress is gorgeous!! Too bad you didn’t know sooner! I just love looking at my Mom’s dress, we just recently took it out of the box. It’s poofy and awesome and totally 80’s!

 
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Miss Candy Apple (message)  1,465 posts, Bumble bee

Such a gorgeous dress!!! Love it, Sparks.

 
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MrsSl82be
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MrsSl82be (message)  7,970 posts, Bee Keeper

Yay for Polish grandkids!! My Busia and Dziadzai died before I got to meet them…

But what an awesome find!! maybe you could incorporate part of her dress into yours? Maybe christening outfits for future kids??

My parents got married 31 years before me, and my moms veil and ring pillow were yellow like that. One trip to the dry cleaners, and you couldn’t tell at all. It was amazing, they looked brand new!

 
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Miss Pony (message)  4,171 posts, Honey bee

What a beautiful dress! I hope you can a way to incorporate it into your wedding somehow!

 
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pookiepie (message)  317 posts, Helper bee

wow! so beautiful! my future mother in law gave me her wedding dress, I was really touched… but it didn’t fit me well, so I am cutting some lace fabric on her lacey train to use it as a lace bolero for the church ceremony. She was so happy that I can incorporate her dress in my wedding :)

 
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Ms. Ferris Wheel (message)  345 posts, Helper bee

That dress is incredible! What a find!

 
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BrightYellowGaloshes (message)  250 posts, Helper bee

That dress is absolutely beautiful! Good fashion taste runs in your family! : )

 
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Miss Tartlet (message)  3,207 posts, Sugar bee

Your Busia’s dress is incredible! What amazing detail!

 
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Ryna
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Ryna (message)  4,207 posts, Honey bee

YAY for another Virginian!!! Where in VA does the family live?!? (I’m from the Valley)

Anywhos, GORGEOUS dress!!! Talk about a great find!!!!!

 
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vintagemodernbride
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vintagemodernbride (message)  316 posts, Helper bee

gorgeous! i can’t believe you found her dress. it’s stunning :)

 
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Miss Seal (message)  1,179 posts, Bumble bee

So beautiful :) What a fantastic surprise! I felt similarly when I saw my mom’s gown. Though I’d seen it before–something about looking at it with bride eyes made it more special!

 
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Miss Biscuit (message)  624 posts, Busy bee

I’m in the process of deciding when to wear my grandmother’s dress. I’d like to shorten it, but I don’t think she wants me to that to a family heirloom (even though I KNOW that my cousin would alter it if she wore it. Grrrrr). What a beautiful find for you!

 
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Miss Pain au Chocolat (message)  1,698 posts, Bumble bee

Oh yeh! I still don’t feel like I should be the one holding onto Mr. PaC’s grandmother’s 1942 wedding magazine!

 
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Miss Hyena (message)  1,881 posts, Buzzing bee

Wow, what a gorgeous dress!! That’s so lucky you found it - my grandparents eloped so there are no pretty dresses to be found. :(

 
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Miss Carousel (message)  590 posts, Busy bee

What a beautiful present - and amazing dress!

 

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Mrs. Sparkler, Chicago Age and Occupation: 27, Communications Aficionado Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Publisher Engagement Date: July 21, 2010 Wedding Date: September 2011 Venue: Chicago Illuminating Company About Me: I’m a Southern lady living in the big city of Chicago. Well, lady may be a stretch, but I’m working hard to keep some Virginia charm in our sleek, urban, wedding-palooza! I’m addicted to marathons, not-so-famous bands, Chicago restaurants, and Mark Twain. I cry during SPCA commercials, and I think LOST was the best show to ever hit television. Mr. S and I met at a classy college mixer and, 7 years later, he’s still by my side. He’s the only child, laid back, free spirit... I’m the oldest of five kids, type-A, organizer. It doesn’t work on paper, but we’ve never paid attention to that stuff anyway. Somehow it works. And like they say, sometimes when you know…you just know.

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