One of my latest wedding obsessions is guestbooks modeled after a Quaker marriage certificate and/or a Jewish ketubah. Wedding customs have always interested me and, after learning about these traditions, I have been determined to find a way to incorporate their lovely sentiment and significance into our wedding.
A traditional Quaker marriage certificate* states the date, location of the wedding, and sometimes the vows recited to each other. The certificate is then signed not only by the bride and groom, but also by all the witnesses of the ceremony to show their support for the union.
An example of a more traditional Quaker marriage certificate:
This Martha Stewart downloadable version is a more modern interpretation of the idea:
Image via Martha Stewart Weddings
A traditional Jewish ketubah* is a prenuptial agreement that outlines the responsibilities of the groom to the bride. It is signed by the bride, groom, rabbi, and two witnesses before the ceremony and is subsequently read during the ceremony. Most ketubot contain vows of the couple in both Hebrew and English, although many websites feature texts to fit any couple, whether they are traditional, reform, interfaith, or same sex. Ketubot are often displayed in the couple’s home as a reminder of their commitment to each other.
An example of a beautifully painted ketubah:
Illustration by Michelle Rummel via Ketubah Tree (I love the e.e. cummings quote on this one!)
An absolutely amazing paper-cut ketubah:
Kebutah by Jerise via Etsy (With another quote because I can’t get enough of them)
Even though Mr. Pony and I are neither Jewish nor Quaker, we really like the idea of having a beautiful and symbolic reminder of our vows be prominently displayed in our future home. Plus, there are so many beautiful ways to customize a certificate to fit your specific interests, colors, and style.
Wedding colors, anyone?
Use it to show off your other beloved (love the kitty):
Make your interest in traveling known to all:
Geek out about the quote at the bottom like I did (must. have. quotes!):
Commemorate your ceremony at a winery:
Memorialize the location of your engagement:
Or, just show off someone’s amazing talents with paper:
Certificate by Jerise via Etsy (I seriously love the paper-cutting technique.)
We haven’t quite decided what type of design elements we want for our marriage certificate, but I am loving this idea. If I had any sort of artistic talent, I would probably attempt to do this myself, but I know my limits. I can, however, come up with the wording we want to include on the certificate, which is a project all on its own.
Are you considering a marriage certificate/guestbook alternative?
*I am in no way, nor do I purport to be, an expert on these traditional documents. The extent of my knowledge comes from my curiosity about wedding traditions, a bunch of Google searches, and a love of pretty, sentimental keepsakes.
I’ve never heard of either of these traditions, but what a lovely idea. Think I might borrow this idea too!
These are beautiful inspiration photos and I love the tradition. Mrs. Cheeseburger had an absolutely drop dead gorgeous DIY Quaker marriage certificate that she blogged about.
Mmmm… awesome inspiration photos. The papercut ketubahs are gorgeous.
I love the idea of a marriage certificate/agreement hanging in the bedroom. I feel it is such a beautiful reminder of your love that you get to see every single day. And to have it signed by all your loved ones makes it even more special.
What a comprehensive round-up of inspiring marriage certificates! We’re not doing the typical guestbook either. I hope you implement something like this!
Loooove these, P. I think i may do something similar for our rehearsal dinner.
I’ve always loved the marriage certificate alternative. You can even frame it after the wedding and make it a conversation piece in your home! That last paper cut one is gorgeous.
I love the certificate alternative as well. I had my heart set on own by Rifle Paper Company, but they are no longer making them. They posted them on their blog. They are modern, but lovely. We’ve been trying to recreate them, with results that lets just say aren’t exactly presentable 
We decided to use a marriage certificate instead of a guest book! I’m debating whether or not to design one myself or have someone make a custom one for us. They’re beautiful, but so expensive!
I’m Quaker and we’ll be doing one of these certificates. I absolutely love them and have family friends who have theirs from twenty or thirty years ago hanging in their living rooms. It’s a great reminder of your promise to each other and the community.
So glad you shared!
Oh! That last paper cut certificate is so fantastic! I have been looking into various Quaker certificates as well. I admit, we aren’t Quaker, but I love the idea! Thank you for sharing your sources!
Mrs. Cheeseburger did one at her wedding last year that was so beautiful. I think this is a really great way of combining art and a wedding momento!
Mrs. Pony, Bloomington, IL Age and Occupation: 25, Attorney Fiance's Age and Occupation: 34, Attorney Engagement Date: March 22, 2010 Wedding Date: September 2011 Venue: Mackinaw Valley Vineyard; Bloomington Center for the Performing Arts About Me: I found my Southern counterpart in law school and since he popped the question last March, we have been busy graduating, job searching, bar taking, and wedding planning. My loves include must see TV, magnets, quotes, anything green, my car, fun socks, the Cubs, and my Mr. Together we love wine, playing outside, and exploring the world together. Stay tuned to see our Midwest wedding full of Southern charm, vintage flair, lots of DIY details, and a whole lot o’ wine.
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