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Our engagement shoot is almost exactly one month away, and one pressing question we need to answer is whether or not to use props in some of the photos. Like many of you fellow wedding-blog readers, I’m always amazed by picnic or random-furniture-in-a-field engagement shoots.

Photography by Adrienne Gunde / Image via Ruffled

Photography by Andi Grant

Gorgeous—and so. much. work. Seriously. How the effin’ eff do you get that bed in the field?! I do not have the energy to even think about how to make all that happen, much less actually do it. But I do see the appeal of some less labor-intensive prop options. Having something to interact with might help us appear a little less awkward and camera shy than we actually are. Plus, depending on what props we choose, it could be a way to personalize the pictures a bit. So last summer I cobbled together a few props for us, should we decide to use them. (Yes, you read that right—last summer. What can I say? I was in the midst of funemployment and loving every second of it!)

I originally bought this ampersand and outfitted it with the black and white houndstooth pattern to hang between our chairs at the reception. But then I thought we could get double use out of it if I just created other fun paper coverings for it and brought it with us to the engagement shoot.

Try to look past the messy basement and bewildered dog. Just focus on that large white frame, which began as a really ugly garage-sale purchase but with a little primer and glossy white spray paint now has a second shot at life. Regardless of whether we use this for our engagement shoot, it’s potentially useful as a photo-booth prop or a set-up for escort cards or something. (Or at least that’s what I’m telling myself to justify its existence, so please don’t tell me otherwise. Thanks.)

I made this super-simple, super-cheap pennant banner especially for our engagement shoot because we hope to use one of the final images to create some thank you cards. Not sure if we’ll hold the ends or string it up somewhere, but whatever we decide I just know it’s gonna elicit serious oohs and ahhs from our gift-givers. It’s probably also going to make them incredibly grateful they gave us something so they could have the opportunity to see such a fun and thoughtful thank you card. Just sayin’.

Oh, and these. These, fair hive members, are our dissertations. I will now give you a moment to pause, stare, admire, and bow down if you must. Take your time. I know—it’s incredible. Two little books (*ahem* one [mine] a bit smaller than the other) representing the culmination of a combined 87 zillion years of schooling. I have no freaking idea how we could use these without it looking totally random, but these little devils have been a BIG part of our relationship history, so if we’re going the prop route then it only makes sense to try and include them.

That’s IF we go the prop route. I’m concerned that this measly collection of items will be too minimal to make any kind of artistic impact. Plus I’ve flipped through the engagement shoots on our photographers’ website, and most of them don’t feature any props. Surely many of those couples were just as nervous and camera shy as we are, yet they look wonderful in their pictures. So now I’m just not sure. Obviously we’ll try to keep the “thank you” banner because we already have a use in mind for it, but we might end up scrapping everything else. We still have a few weeks to make a final decision and, if we can’t decide, I guess we could just lug all of it with us and let our photographers sort through it. Ya know, pass the buck. Easy peasy.

What do you think—should we bring the props with us? And have you ever used props for a photo shoot, or do you prefer a more au naturale look?