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Our opening prayer sung, we found ourselves standing awkwardly far apart amidst our friends and loved ones. The good baby juju hung heavy in the air and our officiant, Stephanie, continued:
Tabitha and Cynthia were at my wedding and blessed my commitment and love to my husband. They were both there in spirit when my daughter was born, and I swear Cynthia was so excited, it was like she just had a baby. Cynthia has a love for babies.
I have had the privilege of knowing Tabitha since 2001, when we met in San Francisco. Of course our paths would cross, we were both in the fashion industry, and adored anything creative. Sometimes we were like little girls playing dress up. Literally. Once for a project of mine during graduate school, I dressed Tabitha up and took Polaroids of her. We were giggling with tears running down our faces all day. In moments like that, I knew that Tabitha would be a dear friend for life.
It is also a moment that reminds me of why Cynthia and Tabitha are together. I have known Cynthia since the beginning of their relationship, and I know that they share in that fun, loving, child-like manner. You can see their playfulness and loving intention.
This is what a marriage is.
Score. If our slap happy grins and spontaneous outburst of laughter are any indication of our loving intention, then we are going to be damn good at this marriage business!
Also, I know in my last recap I said readings were next, but I *think* I was wrong and this lovely bit was first. I think. Truthfully, even after cross-referencing our timeline, ceremony outline, and Stephanie’s script, any linear memory of the day is completely gone, and it’s just one big love mush from here on out.
That said, readings really are next.
Did you laugh your way through your ceremony too?
Catch up on the laughter:
*All photos by the amazing Kirsten Ellis
This post makes me happy 
I love seeing the love and laughter between you two.
Your happiness is infectious. I’m sitting over here on this side of the screen with a smile from ear to ear just thinking about how in love the two of you are and how evident it is in the pictures. Gorgeous…
I do *hope* to be laughing through our ceremony! “Serious and well-thought out commitment” definitely does NOT have to equal “somber and melancholy,” which you demonstrate beautifully.
Can’t wait to hear your readings!!
I’m soooo crazy about these pictures, Stripes. You two beautiful ladies look absolutely happy and in love. As FW mentioned–it’s totally infectious. It’s such a nice reminder that underneath all the planning and money and stress…THIS is what a wedding is about: giddy, slap-happy l-o-v-e. 
I’m oh so in love with your wedding, Stripes! You two looked SO incredibly beautiful!
merci!
@RedRoses2: You will be then! It’s hard not to once you’re surrounded by all that LOVE!
These photos of you two laughing are my favorite, Stripes. You ladies are so amazing together!
Oh my goodness, the style going on is amazing. I love love love both of your hair pieces! You two are just oozing bridal goodness! (One more reason why brides are better than grooms… brides are just sooo much prettier imo)
These pictures… that’s really what a wedding is all about. Now I’m smiling
Aw, you both look so happy! I never noticed W Stripes’ bouquet before, but it’s so pretty! And yours is too, of course.
I’m sure I’ve mentioned this before but I love your photos! You two radiate happiness and love. Looks like such an amazing day!
YES! I laughed the whole time while bouncing. It was awesome. Love these pictures.
You’re both positively gorgeous. Love the happiness that you two are radiating!
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Ms. Stripes, Los Angeles Age and Occupation: 29, Costume Designer/Stylist Fiancee's Age and Occupation: 29, Chef Engagement Date: June 23, 2009 Wedding Date: September 2010 Venue: Heritage Square Museum About Me: I’m a type A creative with a messy streak, a loud mouth, and an uncanny knack for combining clashing patterns. I can usually be found with my nose in a book, my feet (or at least my toes) on the ground, my head in the clouds, and my arm around the prettiest girl you ever saw- aka Fiancee Stripes. Together we’re planning a FUN vintage/modern French carnival wedding extravaganza and rockin’ dance party on a dime. (Say that three times fast!) Good coffee, long lists, Uniball pens, and my iPhone keep me sane, and making art, making trouble, and making out keep me happy! I love urban adventures, bike rides that end with afternoon drinks, breakfast for dinner, beautiful light, photography, travel, my furry family, and of course, my beautiful fiancee! I’m super excited to be here and can’t wait to share all our adventures as we craft a joyful, budget-friendly, design-savvy and all-around AWESOME wedding!
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