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I realize that I’ve been writing all of this time and I’ve never really told you the story of how the Gazelles came to be.
Like so many modern love stories, Mr. Gazelle and I met through an online dating site, Lavalife. I had spotted his profile, sent him a wink because I thought he was cute, and he sent me a message asking if I wanted to go for a drink. The usual me would have turned him down right away, and maybe after emailing for a couple weeks, then we could meet. Instead, I said yes.
The Gazelles early on in our relationship
We met for drinks on the Friday of a long weekend. As soon as I saw him I totally thought I hit the jackpot because this guy was good looking! Drinks went so well that we met for a movie on Sunday night and then again for a festival on holiday Monday. We had definitely hit it off.
The Gazelles on their first hike - C-Level Cirque in Banff
Things were going pretty well. We took our first vacation together to Las Vegas.
The Gazelles in Las Vegas
Mr. Gazelle cheered me on at races and even ran a few with me.
The Gazelles at the Vancouver Sun Run
I thought that Mr. Gazelle and I were doing great. We got along really well, enjoyed spending time together cooking and travelling and I saw us eventually moving in and getting married. Unfortunately for me, Mr. Gazelle didn’t want to get married. And once we realized we had reached an impasse in our relationship we broke up, just a few weeks shy of what would have been our one year dating anniversary.
One of the last photos of the Gazelles V1.0 together, hiking Ribbon Falls in Kananaskis
At first I was angry and thought that Mr. Gazelle was a bit of an idiot for not realizing how great of a catch I was. Then I moved on with life, attempting to learn how to ski (yeah, that didn’t go so well)…
taking fun solo vacations…
on a road trip through Washington
and training for my first Ironman…
A year and a half later I got an email from Mr. Gazelle—totally out of the blue—asking for a recipe for something we had made together. After a few e-mails back and forth he confessed that he had made a mistake.
Yup, I was pretty shocked. He had made a mistake, but time had gone on and I pretty well told him that I wasn’t interested. I realized though that maybe I did still miss him, so perhaps it would be worthwhile going on one date. We quickly realized that things were even better than before as the Gazelles V2.0. We still really enjoyed travelling together, cooking and riding our bikes, but we could see doing these things together for the rest of our lives. Thank goodness for second chances.
The Gazelles V2.0 in Banff
In February we were finally able to celebrate a first dating anniversary together…it was a long time in the making! In July we’ll soon have a new anniversary to celebrate. Our path to wedded bliss wasn’t as direct as it is for some people, but I wouldn’t change it for the world. I really enjoyed the things I did on my own in our time apart. I believe that making the choice to get back together makes us stronger as a couple. I also know that I can’t wait to marry Mr. Gazelle in less than two months.
Was your road to the altar a bit bumpy?
Oh, yes. Mine was quiet bumpy. However, I feel the break up was very necessary. We broke up a few times, we both had a lot of growing to do. Neither wanted to see other people, just needed space. Finally last year, I put my foot down and said no more. I told him we ran our course. I then tried dating and compared everyone to him. I still loved him but was afraid considering our history. I am so glad that we worked really hard to get to where we are now. Lots, and lots of endless conversations later I couldn’t be happier. He is my best friend. Thank you for sharing your story. I’m glad I’m not the only one who didn’t go the direct path. Congrats on your upcoming marriage! I marry Mr. Leon in January!
That was such an amazing story ! I feel like I know you two so well now! … I also think you should submit your story to LavaLife and be on the commercials 
Well, I’m not quite engaged yet. 
However, my SO and I have been through so much in the past four plus years (long distance, local, living together, etc.) The first year was rocky, but now it’s wonderful.
Great story Gazelle! I’m so glad Mr. Gazelle realized that he messed up
Great story! My new hubs and I went through a breakup, except I was the one who thought he wasn’t the one for me. After some time apart I was able to reflect on what a great guy he was, and he learned how to show his appreciation for me in the ways I needed. I feel like time apart, and all the conversions about what went wrong the first time, definitely made us a stronger couple
Some day maybe I’ll tell you the story of how the Loxes almost weren’t. To say we had a rocky start is an understatement. But sometimes I think maybe that’s part of the reason we’re so rock solid now. 
The saying is true…Sometimes you don’t know what ya got ’til it’s gone. Thanks for sharing your story!
@Mrs. Lox: right there with ya, Mrs. Lox.
Everything is a choice, including second chances.
Trust me when I say, my FI didn’t HAVE to give me a second chance, but I’m eternally grateful he did. I’m also glad we’ve worked through everything and have become what we are today.
What a great story. I’m happy for you that it all worked out.
My story is almost identical. I’m sure you feel as blessed as I am to have reconnected. Best of luck!
our break was much shorter, but we have a 1.0 and a 2.0 version as well… I’m a firm believer that we wouldn’t have made it to where we are today without that break in between!
I love that you aren’t afraid to admit that your story is a little more complicated than dating, engaged, married. Relationships are a journey and there’s nothing wrong with a bumpy path
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Ms. Gazelle, Calgary/Vancouver Age and Occupation: 32, Engineer Fiance's Age and Occupation: 32, Technology Analyst Engagement Date: September 3, 2010 Wedding Date: July 2011 Venue: Brock House Restaurant, Vancouver About Me: I am a marathon runner, cyclist, Ironman triathlete and beautiful shoe fiend who also loves kicking back and watching Glee. I grew up a bit of a nomad as I traveled around the world with my family, living everywhere from Australia to England to South America and Indonesia. I finally settled in Calgary a few years ago and met Mr. Gazelle who loves me even though we cheer for different hockey teams. We are planning a bit of a destination wedding in beautiful Vancouver, British Columbia and we can’t wait to share the day with our close family and friends.
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