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Mrs. Cucumber Sandwich, Washington, DC/Cape May, NJ Age and Occupation: 28, School Counselor Fiance's Age and Occupation: 40, Collegiate Athletics Engagement Date: March 27, 2010 Wedding Date: October 2011 Venue: Congress Hall Hotel About Me: I am a school counselor who spends my day wrangling children and my nights attempting to be creative with wedding projects. My enthusiasm for each of these activities far surpasses my skill. Thank goodness Mr. Cucumber Sandwich is there to pick up the pieces and be the voice of reason about my DIY tries. I have an obsession with terrible romantic comedies (‘From Justin to Kelly’ anyone?, anyone?!?), competitive Scrabble play, and hot dogs. I could eat astronaut ice cream for every meal and can’t seem to resist buying more shoes. Our wedding is going to be a true hodge podge of semi-destination, tradition, Yuengling, New England charm, with just a dash of ‘Jersey Shore’ thrown in. It has been six years in the making and I can’t wait to marry my best friend.
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It WORKED!! After my post on my floral inspiration, the florist sent me a quote. (Dear Blogland, I would like one million dollars. Just throwing it out there.) And the best part is the quote is a number Mr. Cucumber Sammie and I are thrilled with. I am about to start playing the lottery soon because it is coming up all aces for Miss Cuke Sammie. The magical florist is still about $500 more than the other two, but would I pay $500 for peace of mind about our centerpieces being gorgeous!?! You betcha.

Starting the florist search seemed rather daunting. For some reason I was completely overwhelmed by the number of options. I searched many sites including TheKnot, WeddingWire, and even the hive’s vendor reviews. Every search left me more and more confused. Finally I went back to the basics and started with the venue-provided vendor list. Congress Hall had about 10 vendors listed for florist. For whatever reason, in the beginning I was hesitant about contacting them. I think a part of me thought I could get a better deal by going with someone not on that list. I know how ridiculous that sounds. I mean, they are on the preferred-vendor list for a reason.

I looked over each florist’s website and made a list of my top five. I ruled out anyone coming from Philadelphia because even though it is only two-and-a-half hours away, I figured they would probably charge a pretty steep delivery fee. I contacted my first choice on the list…and she was already booked for our wedding weekend. What?!? Commence bridal tailspin. After 15 minutes of freaking out, I called all the rest of the florists and set up appointments for the following weekend. Then I called Mr. Cucumber Sammie and told him to clear his schedule because we are road tripping it to Cape May. In hindsight I probably should have called Mr. Cucumber Sammie first. Oh well.

First up on the short list of three appointments was Manic Botanic. Manic Botanic was my early favorite based solely on their website. Tons of amazing floral-inspiration pictures and real weddings from our venue! Even their adorable storefront did not disappoint.

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Lillian, the fabulous store owner, took over an hour to meet with us and talk about everything we were envisioning for the day. It was not until our later appointments that I truly appreciated our meeting with Lillian. She wanted to know everything about the wedding—the colors, the feel, the details—and she added her own suggestions. She seemed to be invested in making our wedding beautiful even though she had only just met us. And to give you something to drool over, take a look at her awesome work:

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Image and design by Manic Botanic

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Image and design by Manic Botanic

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Image and design by Manic Botanic

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Image and design by Manic Botanic

I had set up two more appointments for that day closer to Cape May, so we had to keep truckin’. Next up we went to see Cape Winds Florist and An Enchanting Florist. Both of their prices were completely reasonable, and they both would have given me exactly what I wanted. But that was it. There was no real pizzazz. I had to supply all the inspiration and creative, and they would produce whatever I asked for. I guess I was just looking for a little something more. In the meetings they just asked for the basics and then told me the price. No brainstorming, no stroking my bridal ego. Nada.

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An Enchanting Florist

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Yes, very enchanting

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Cape Winds Florist

There is no big reveal here. We are going with Manic Botanic and I am tickled! I can’t wait to start working with Lillian and see what she comes up with. Now I need to excuse myself and start combing through the budget to find where I can make cuts to turn my flower dreams into a reality.

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Hello, lover

And of course we stopped to say hello to the venue.

Do you think this is the beginning of the end of our budget? Did you just have to have something even though you were probably only paying for peace of mind?

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12 Responses to “Hook, Line, and Sinker”

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Miss Cannon (message)  457 posts, Helper bee

I probably would have gone with Manic Botanic just because they have an awesome name. And I think a good website and the vendor showing a lot of interest goes a long way- those are pretty much the same reasons I fell in love with our photographers.

 
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Mrs. Hyena (message)  1,881 posts, Buzzing bee

Hmm, I would ALSO like a million dollars! If it works for you, maybe it’ll work for me?! :)

 
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lovekiss (message)  1,591 posts, Bumble bee

You drive-by stalk your venue every time you are in the area, too? This makes me feel slightly less crazy now. :)

 
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Miss Macarons (message)  235 posts, Helper bee

In some cases peace of mind is totally worth it. I’m so glad you’re able to work with the Florist you wanted all along!

 
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Miss Pony (message)  4,171 posts, Honey bee

I love your florist’s work, it’s so pretty! And totally worth the extra money to get what you want and to maintain your sanity in the process.

 
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Mrs. Tartlet (message)  3,207 posts, Sugar bee

“Manic Botanic” is a great name. :) Glad everything worked out! There’s definitely something about vendors who are seriously invested in you and your wedding. Our florist was the same way!

 
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stephbonthego (message)  687 posts, Busy bee

We have almost nothing in our budget for flowers and I was originally planning on DIY until we met our fab. venue owner. Her floral work is. amazing.

 
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Mrs. Rubber Stamps
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Mrs. Rubber Stamps (message)  273 posts, Helper bee

So happy your got your quote and it’s doable so you can have your preferred florist. I would definitely go with a vendor if they were invested in your wedding over someone that is a little cheaper. I love your florist’s shop’s name, so fun!

 
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Miss Ladyfingers (message)  1,119 posts, Bumble bee

Yay! So exciting! I totally get that you need to feel like somebody sees your inspiration then runs with it and makes it yours with their flair. Good choice!

 
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Miss Cucumber Sandwich (message)  569 posts, Busy bee

@lovekiss: Every time! And I make Mr. Cucumber Sammie go in to look at the ballroom ‘just one more time’.

 
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I am very pleased with the ShedRain WindPro. Opens and closes at the touch of a button. It’s coverage is better than the average umbrella and no worries about wind turning it inside out. Thank you ecanvasbags!!

 
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Miss Hearty
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Miss Hearty (message)  101 posts, Blushing bee

we changed venues for an increase of thousands of dollars, simply for peace of mind. Believe me, I understand.

 

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Mrs. Cucumber Sandwich, Washington, DC/Cape May, NJ Age and Occupation: 28, School Counselor Fiance's Age and Occupation: 40, Collegiate Athletics Engagement Date: March 27, 2010 Wedding Date: October 2011 Venue: Congress Hall Hotel About Me: I am a school counselor who spends my day wrangling children and my nights attempting to be creative with wedding projects. My enthusiasm for each of these activities far surpasses my skill. Thank goodness Mr. Cucumber Sandwich is there to pick up the pieces and be the voice of reason about my DIY tries. I have an obsession with terrible romantic comedies (‘From Justin to Kelly’ anyone?, anyone?!?), competitive Scrabble play, and hot dogs. I could eat astronaut ice cream for every meal and can’t seem to resist buying more shoes. Our wedding is going to be a true hodge podge of semi-destination, tradition, Yuengling, New England charm, with just a dash of ‘Jersey Shore’ thrown in. It has been six years in the making and I can’t wait to marry my best friend.

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