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Mrs. Cucumber Sandwich, Washington, DC/Cape May, NJ Age and Occupation: 28, School Counselor Fiance's Age and Occupation: 40, Collegiate Athletics Engagement Date: March 27, 2010 Wedding Date: October 2011 Venue: Congress Hall Hotel About Me: I am a school counselor who spends my day wrangling children and my nights attempting to be creative with wedding projects. My enthusiasm for each of these activities far surpasses my skill. Thank goodness Mr. Cucumber Sandwich is there to pick up the pieces and be the voice of reason about my DIY tries. I have an obsession with terrible romantic comedies (‘From Justin to Kelly’ anyone?, anyone?!?), competitive Scrabble play, and hot dogs. I could eat astronaut ice cream for every meal and can’t seem to resist buying more shoes. Our wedding is going to be a true hodge podge of semi-destination, tradition, Yuengling, New England charm, with just a dash of ‘Jersey Shore’ thrown in. It has been six years in the making and I can’t wait to marry my best friend.
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Ring of Fire

July 15th, 2011 @ 3:21 pm by Mrs. Cucumber Sandwich

Mr. Cucumber Sammie and I set off on our ring-palooza (which makes it sound way funner than it actually was). First up: Mervis Diamond Importers. Mervis has about three stores in the DMV (District, Maryland, and Virginia) area, making them a small family-run chain. Anyone from the area can probably recite their radio commercials because they are on…All. The. Time!

Anywhoodle, about a month ago Mervis was running a “ring” event where they promised a plethora of wedding-band designers, discounts, cake, and vodka. (I still can’t figure out why the vodka, but I am not one to argue.) Cake!?! Off we went. The event was the very first time Mr. Cucumber Sammie and I tried on rings, and we were positively giddy. There were tons of people there, so we got brought up to Zeb Mervis’s office for our consultation! Now I know what being in the inner sanctum of a celebrity feels like.

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The Man, the Legend’s desk chair


While it was a really classy event, unfortunately it came with some really “classy” prices. There may have been some tears on the car ride home because I thought I had significantly under budgeted the wedding rings. And now the whole wedding was ruined! Very calm and mature of me. Even with the 20% discount, we couldn’t really afford anything. The rings were absolutely stunning, though.

Onward and upward! I am completely susceptible to TV ads, so the next stop was Jared.

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When we first walked in, we were immediately greeted and brought over to the display cases. After seeing my engagement ring, the oh so helpful salesperson asked if he could clean it for me. Yes, please! It took only about 15 minutes for Mr. Cucumber Sammie to find the ring he wanted.

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Image via Jared

It’s a tungsten band with a brushed-metal finish for the majority of the ring, and there is just a little bit of detailing on the outer ring. It was a very handsome looking ring. And just like that, he was done. Didn’t feel the need to go to any more stores or look at any other rings. How do guys do that?!

I took a little bit longer than 15 minutes, but not by much. I guess channel-set diamonds have become quite the trend because Mr. Helpful Salesman led me right to the good stuff. Unfortunately, it was not vodka like the other jeweler.

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Image via Jared

Oh how I heart you. Looks great without my engagement ring, all by its lonesome, and looks extra fabulous with the e-ring. Of course, I can’t make a spontaneous decision like Mr. Cucumber Sammie, so no rings were purchased that day.

After one terrible trip to another jeweler that must not be named (seriously, they tried to convince us that if my Cuke Sammie ever got in an accident, his ring would not be able to be cut off and could cause severe finger damage), Mr. Cucumber Sammie finally talked some reason into me. Not everything in wedding planning has to be a big production. If we find the rings we like and they are in budget (and they are—cue happy tears!) we should just get them. It doesn’t require hours and hours of research.

So back to Jared we go! I can’t wait to show you personal photos of the rings…especially with my engagement ring.

Does your SO ever need to talk sense into you? Don’t you love rings with diamonds!?

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10 Responses to “Ring of Fire”

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Carolyn72 (message)  886 posts, Busy bee

My wedding ring ended up having diamonds in it. I swore it would be plain white gold, as my e-ring band is plain white gold. Once I got to the jewelry store, there was just too much BLING to drool over. I love my wedding ring and cannot WAIT to wear it. It probably took me over an hour to pick it out. FI on the other hand probably about 15 minutes. His was under 100 bucks! Mine was NOT, lol………

I am thinking of wearing it alone sometimes too. Ooooohhhhh shiny shiny things :)

Your ring is beautiful, as is your FIs!!

 
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Miss Parasol (message)  2,132 posts, Buzzing bee

I love how fast Mr. Cucumber Sammie picked out his wedding ring! Mr. Parasol definitely took a lot more time and probably tried on twenty or so rings. I was the decisive one when it came to our wedding bands!

 
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reeseruiz (message)  38 posts, Newbee

Ha. I too fell in love with a very pricey ring, and then passed it up. Then we went to Jared (that’s where my e-ring was purchased), but didn’t find a band that went with it. So we found ours at Helzberg!

I will admit we didn’t go with the Tungsten because of the nonability to resize and the fact that it cant be cut off :( But found a similar style to the Tungsten ring we loved in white gold.

I agree with Mr. Cuke Sammie… if you find something you love, BUY IT. Who cares about anything else? :) Plus if you walk away for too long, it might not be there and your heart might be crushed! :)

 
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juliet

Tungsten can be removed! You can either cut it with a motorized tool also used to cut titanium rings (which most emergency rooms should have) or by squeezing it with vice-grips (which is much faster). Tungsten is very brittle and will crack when you put pressure on it.

 
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Mrs. Tartlet (message)  3,207 posts, Sugar bee

We got almost the same horror talk from some random person in the grocery checkout line about Mr. Tartlet’s tungsten ring! It was super awkward. I rely on Mr. T to frequently talk sense into me. ;)

 
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peachybride (message)  124 posts, Blushing bee

Oh wow, Zed Mervis is a close friend of my parents - my husband bought my e-ring from him, and he and his wife were at our wedding!! But yes, rings are expensive! I’m sorry it didn’t work out for you, but cool that you got the celeb treatment!

 
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Miss Pony (message)  4,171 posts, Honey bee

Your rings are so classic and pretty, but I don’t understand the vodka at a ring event, that’s hilarious!

 
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Miss Cucumber Sandwich (message)  569 posts, Busy bee

@Miss Pony: I think there should be alcohol at all events… just saying.

 
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Miss Ladyfingers (message)  1,119 posts, Bumble bee

Yeah! Nice rings! Not to be the devil’s advocate, but I *do* think the Tungsten discussion is worthwhile to have. One of my bridesmaids’ husband is an EMT/firefighter, so it was a decision-maker for them. Of course, there’s a certain amount of tact that should go into such a topic - especially from a salesperson! ;)

 
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Miss Cucumber Sandwich (message)  569 posts, Busy bee

@Miss Ladyfingers: Agreed. We should be aware that there are risks but it can always be done with some tact!

 

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Mrs. Cucumber Sandwich, Washington, DC/Cape May, NJ Age and Occupation: 28, School Counselor Fiance's Age and Occupation: 40, Collegiate Athletics Engagement Date: March 27, 2010 Wedding Date: October 2011 Venue: Congress Hall Hotel About Me: I am a school counselor who spends my day wrangling children and my nights attempting to be creative with wedding projects. My enthusiasm for each of these activities far surpasses my skill. Thank goodness Mr. Cucumber Sandwich is there to pick up the pieces and be the voice of reason about my DIY tries. I have an obsession with terrible romantic comedies (‘From Justin to Kelly’ anyone?, anyone?!?), competitive Scrabble play, and hot dogs. I could eat astronaut ice cream for every meal and can’t seem to resist buying more shoes. Our wedding is going to be a true hodge podge of semi-destination, tradition, Yuengling, New England charm, with just a dash of ‘Jersey Shore’ thrown in. It has been six years in the making and I can’t wait to marry my best friend.

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