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Mrs. Honey, Durango, CO Age and Occupation: 28, Financial Assistant Fiance's Age and Occupation: 24, Lab Tech/Phlebotomist Engagement Date: August 1, 2010 Wedding Date: January 2012 Venue: Vallecito Lake About Me: I am a Colorado girl through and through, marrying an adrenaline-fueled Alabama boy. We love the outdoors just about as much as we love spoiling our dog and three cats. On any given weekend you can find us being adventurous, doing anything from rafting to snowboarding, and everything in between. We live in an outdoor mecca and truly believe in "Work Hard, Play Harder." I'm an optimist to the core, a crafter wannabe, a Southern food cook-in-training and a big time believer in girls nights. We met, fell in love and got engaged in eight short months and are now knee-deep in planning what we hope to be a super-fun, very us wedding celebration. Join us as we plan a rustic meets whimsical, Colorado winter wedding with loads of personal touches and good food!
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My Two in One

July 27th, 2011 @ 3:02 pm by Mrs. Honey

And by “two in one,” I mean two wedding-related activities in one day. This was big for me.

My dad called me one afternoon and said he heard on the radio that a casino in our area was hosting a bridal show. Now, to the best of knowledge, the Durango area only has one bridal show a year, and I had missed what I thought was my only opportunity to attend it because I was in Mexico drinking margaritas and lounging in the sun…but I’m not complaining. I marked it on my calendar and made plans with Mama Honey to attend. We also decided we would make a trek across the state line to the nearest Hobby Lobby.

Guess what else is across the state line? An awesome bridal boutique called Silk Bridal. I decided to make an appointment, but I was insanely nervous; my voice was a little shaky and for some reason I was very intimidated to make the call. I pulled it together and dialed the salon. When I asked the consultant what times were available for the day I would be in her area, she kind of laughed at me. Not a mean laugh…no, a laugh that was preceded by this statement: “We are having an Allure Bridal trunk show that day!” She then said, “Girl, I have got to get you in. Let me move around some appointments. There we go, you are in at 12:45.” Wow, and just like that I had an appointment.

Saturday rolled around and we attended the bridal show…which was a waste of our time…and then we headed to the Land of Enchantment for my first wedding-dress-shopping experience. I had actually been to Silk Bridal once before with a girlfriend, and I remember having a very pleasant experience. The bathroom has this painted on the wall: Your Fiance Called and He Said You Can Have Anything You Want.

My Two in One :  wedding durango wedding dress Silk

{Silk Bridal, via their Facebook page}

I had some inspiration pictures from all of my drooling and even did my research on which Allure gowns I wanted to try on. The consultant met with us and and I gave her my guidelines:

  • Interesting texture
  • No ball gown
  • No satin
  • No beading

This is a no-picture boutique (boo!) so you’ll have to settle for Allure’s models and my descriptions of the dresses. I find it funny that you can’t take pictures of brides for fear of brides going out and buying them after the fact somewhere cheaper, but we brides have a fantastic memory when it comes to remembering which gowns we tried on…just sayin’. Here are the dresses I tried on that day:

My Two in One :  wedding durango wedding dress 8810f

{Allure 8810F*}

The first wedding dress I ever tried on was the 8810F; I will always remember it. *grins* I actually loved this dress—the texture on the bottom was so romantic and frilly. It had the pouf but didn’t feel too ball gowny. I was feeling confident and was only one dress in. Can I get a woop woop?!

My Two in One :  wedding durango wedding dress My2bdr

{Allure 8806}

The second dress did not disappoint either. It was very similar to the first dress, just not as poufy. The flower detailing was superb, and I was amazed at how small my waist looked and how good my booty looked. So far, so good! Why on earth did I avoid this for so long?!

My Two in One :  wedding durango wedding dress Allure02

{Allure 8808}

Dress three was gorgeous, I was really drawn to the structured silhouette of the dress and adored the mixture of the fabrics in the dress.

My Two in One :  wedding durango wedding dress 8854f

{Allure 8854F}

My consultant pulled dress 8854F for me “just to try on.” It’s a ball gown, it’s silk, and it’s full-o-beading. Mama Honey loved this dress, but it is very much her style so I wasn’t surprised that she loved it. It was very pretty, and I was shocked that I was looking in the mirror and enjoying it. I felt very bridal, in a very traditional way.

My Two in One :  wedding durango wedding dress 8801f

{Allure 8801F}

Dress 8801F was a combination of the ball-gown style with a beaded bodice and the texture I like on the bottom. I just couldn’t decide if it was too much altogether. While I was admiring myself in the mirror in this dress, the other bride across the room was eyeing me. I’m pretty sure she ended up with this dress.

My Two in One :  wedding durango wedding dress 8851f

{Allure 8851F}

Another satiny ballgown, pretty similar to the other one I tried on. When comparing the two satin gowns, I like this one a tad better because it was a slimmer silhouette. But again, I was shocked that I was even liking the way these dresses looked.

My Two in One :  wedding durango wedding dress 8526f

{Allure 8526F}

I’m not sure if it was this exact one I tried on, but it was at least something similar. Toward the end I was getting tired, overwhelmed, and hot (those things are heavy!), so they all kind of started to blend together. This style is so simple, and I was imagining a big statement-making necklace because it was so plain. I did like the taffeta feeling as well.

My Two in One :  wedding durango wedding dress 8751f

{Allure 8751F}

Last but not least, this lacy number. It’s a beautiful dress, and I really liked the scalloped neckline and the deep plunge.

Mama Honey and Honey Aunt demanded requested I try on one in particular again because they knew just as much as I did that it was the one. That means one of these pretties is my dress—squeee!

There I was, at my first bridal appointment, contemplating the purchase of a dress that I LOVED and that was way more than I had planned on spending. It wasn’t out of budget, but it was more than I originally thought I would spend (hello, David’s Bridal $99-gown specials?!).

So, what did we do? We left empty handed and went to Olive Garden for never-ending soup and salad…and beer. I needed a Blue Moon.

Did anyone else find the dress on the first attempt?

*All wedding dress pictures are from Allure Bridals

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kmnowlan (message)  160 posts, Blushing bee

Awww cliff hanger! Boo!! I think you ended up with either number 1 or 2, but no matter which one you picked, its simple math: 1 pretty girl + 1 pretty dress (any of the above options)= 1 pretty girl very happy in her pretty dress!! I am excited to see what you ended up with Honey!!

 
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Miss Pony (message)  4,175 posts, Honey bee

So much suspense! They’re all gorgeous and I can’t wait to see what you chose! And, can I just say, that is a brilliant thing to write on the bathroom wall? Geniuses.

 
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Elvis (message)  757 posts, Busy bee

Really, is that why they won’t let you take pictures?

I don’t think I’ll be buying anywhere that doesn’t allow pictures, just because I’d like to know, before spending that much money on a one shot dress, that I’m going to look good in it in the photos.

Loved your taste in dresses; #3 and the last one were my favorites.

 
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Miss Sparkler (message)  423 posts, Helper bee

LOVE Allure 8808! And the sign in the bathroom “Your Fiance Called and He Said You Can Have Anything You Want”…hilarious! Can’t wait to see what you picked! :)

 
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mrs-to-be (message)  229 posts, Helper bee

Me!! I too found THE dress during my first ever visit to the bridal shop. And actually went ahead and ordered it right away as well. I had browsed plenty and plenty of websites and all and while I wasn’t exactly sure what kind of dress I really wanted for myself, I did know what I definitely did NOT want. That included any weddingdress that had a hoop in the skirt, for instance. Guess what I ended up with?? ;-) Though I have to admit, I did make them pull out the huge hoop that was in it and had it replaced by the smallest I could find. :)

 
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cosmo_gmr (message)  449 posts, Helper bee

I love love love all the dresses!!!! I’m sure you’ll look stunning in whichever one you picked!

Congrats!

 
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Miss Bacon (message)  656 posts, Busy bee

I love the message on the wall. I totally have one in mind that I hope you picked! Can’t wait to see photos of the one!

 
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Miss Honey (message)  1,069 posts, Bumble bee

@kmnowlan: aw thank you :)

@Elvis: I don’t actually know if that is why you can’t take pictures, it’s the only reason I can think of.

 
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MissIcecream (message)  169 posts, Blushing bee

My bet is on dress 1, but maybe it’s dress 3? Either 1 or 3, definitely. Or 2. this is hard!
They’re all beautiful, and I’m with you on the satin gowns. I wouldn’t have thought I liked satin gowns, but those were really pretty.

 
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catib123
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catib123 (message)  40 posts, Newbee

Ahh I can’t wait to see which one you picked! We have similar taste. I hope it’s #1! When I tried that one on, I couldn’t believe how light the skirt was.

My final two I picked from were #1 and #7!

 
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Mrs. Tartlet
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Mrs. Tartlet (message)  3,207 posts, Sugar bee

Hmm, maybe #2? They’re all so pretty!

 
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Mrs. Elephant
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Mrs. Elephant (message)  6,182 posts, Bee Keeper

These are all gorgeous dresses, I can’t wait to see which one you selected!

 
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SadieBee
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SadieBee (message)  771 posts, Busy bee

Those are some lovely dresses! I love the 4th one, but it’s also quite similar to mine :-) I decided early on, too! I bought the second dress I tried on.

 
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u_c2moore (message)  76 posts, Worker bee

I wish they had these lovelies at the last Allure Trunk show that I went to! I’m wearing Allure C166! I loved it as soon as I saw it on the website, I tried it on 3 times but still had to try on EVERY Allure dress that I could get my hands on “just to make sure”. It was WAY more than I thought I would ever spend on a wedding gown, but oh so worth it!

 
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Mrs. Hyena (message)  1,882 posts, Buzzing bee

Love the statement on the wall! And can’t wait to see which one is yours!

 
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calypso0712 (message)  246 posts, Helper bee

I totally thought I was going to be a $99 David’s Bridal kinda gal myself…. until I went and actually tried on dresses there LOL They have some beautiful gowns but for someone with a VERY specific image in mind of what I was looking for, their selection was slim to none. I did wind up finding a pretty affordable gown elsewhere though that I love =)

 
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ruby26
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ruby26 (message)  322 posts, Helper bee

Honey, I also found my dress on the first time out! It was so not what I was looking for either, but the consultant pulled it and I tried it and fell in love! I went out again to try on other dresses for comparison, but kept coming back to the one from before. All of those dresses are gorgeous… I can’t wait to find out which one you picked!!!

 
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Melissa.erin
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Melissa.erin (message)  239 posts, Helper bee

Me!!! But mine is poufy and has beading lol. My mom was scared of dress shopping after flashbacks of prom dress shopping but I found my dress at the 3rd store I went to that day maybe 10th dress. And. I. Love. It.

 
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lainsayssup (message)  42 posts, Newbee

“There I was, at my first bridal appointment, contemplating the purchase of a dress that I LOVED and that was way more than I had planned on spending. It wasn’t out of budget, but it was more than I originally thought I would spend”

I did the exact same thing. Although I rushed myself into making a decision because my appointment was *exactly* 6 months before my wedding. I freaked out for a week after placing my order, but now I cant wait for my dress to arrive in September!

 
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Mrs. Pain au Chocolat (message)  1,698 posts, Bumble bee

Loving the texture and shape of so many of these gowns! Can’t wait to see which is The One.

 
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Mrs. Honey, Durango, CO Age and Occupation: 28, Financial Assistant Fiance's Age and Occupation: 24, Lab Tech/Phlebotomist Engagement Date: August 1, 2010 Wedding Date: January 2012 Venue: Vallecito Lake About Me: I am a Colorado girl through and through, marrying an adrenaline-fueled Alabama boy. We love the outdoors just about as much as we love spoiling our dog and three cats. On any given weekend you can find us being adventurous, doing anything from rafting to snowboarding, and everything in between. We live in an outdoor mecca and truly believe in "Work Hard, Play Harder." I'm an optimist to the core, a crafter wannabe, a Southern food cook-in-training and a big time believer in girls nights. We met, fell in love and got engaged in eight short months and are now knee-deep in planning what we hope to be a super-fun, very us wedding celebration. Join us as we plan a rustic meets whimsical, Colorado winter wedding with loads of personal touches and good food!

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