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No matter how much you want to bury your head in the sand and try and forget about the million and one details of wedding planning, you must take time and find actual clothes to wear. Not doing that is against the law. At least in Illinois. With this in mind, I had to figure out something to wear to our engagement party. It was shaping up be a big party, so I had to be dressed impeccably.

Well, I think I put too much pressure on myself. I didn’t really have the time or money to shop the way I’d like. And I had the silly notion I should wear our wedding colors. There’s only one problem with that. “Regency” isn’t really in right now.

Personal photo of wedding color palette Left to right: regency, black, taupe, ivory, gold

Color fail.

So I branched out. I found a great dress at Delia’s that I bought.

Image: Prima Ballerina Dress by Delia’s

Because I am so very short, it stops right at my knees, making it perfect cocktail length. And it’s a great color for summer. But it’s just… plain. I’d have to jazz it up. I and don’t really do jazzy. I don’t have a blingy belt or jewelry or anything else like that. Sexy high heeled shoes is about all I have. So this dress would have required waaay more shopping to get it perfect.

I started searching for either another dress or some killer accessories. Of course, I started with Macy’s because that store never lets me down. They had tons to choose from. I wanted something cute and sexy, but not too sexy. I wanted it simple, but not too plain. With that vague idea in mind, I came up with some favorites.

Image: Sleeveless One Shoulder Ruched Cocktail Dress by Lauren by Ralph Lauren at Macy’s

 Sexy and simple. But is it too simple? And should I really be wearing black to a party in the middle of August? I don’t know.

Image: Floral Pleated A-Line Dress by Ellen Tracy at Macy’s

 Girly and sweet, but is it sexy? On me, it will go below my knee and it looks like something I’d wear to church or work maybe…

Image: Beaded One Shoulder Draped Satin Dress by Nine West at Macy’s [Temporarily unavailable]

 Let’s be honest, one shoulder dresses are not my thing. I only own one and it was forced upon me through participation in a wedding. And perhaps it’s too sexy? And I will clash with all the golden decorations, won’t I?

Image: Asymmetrical Neck Cocktail Dress by Jessica Howard at Macy’s

This one is actually called a cocktail dress. And it’s exactly my style. But is it too sweet? Is it too blue? And might it be too hot for an August party at which I’ll already be nervous?

Image: One Shoulder Belted Mini Cocktail Dress by BCBGMaxAzria at Macy’s

Everything this man makes looks great on me. It’s sexy and a soft tone, so I wouldn’t be overdoing it. But I have a small frame. Perhaps it’s just one detail too many. That’s a lot o’ ruffles. And I have a small frame, but not small hips. Le sigh.


Image: Sleeveless Beaded Sheath by Ellen Tracy at Macy’s

This one kept catching my eye, but when I look at it, all I can think is my grandmother telling me I need more color and pizzazz in my wardrobe. This dress is just my style though. But perhaps it’s not enough. Ultimately, I decided to take a trip to the store. When shopping in-store, I always start with The Limited.

BM Milk and I, along with her adorable son, went to the mall the day of the party. Yes, I waited that long. A mix of work and other priorities made this the case. But out we went and we struck gold at The Limited. I tried on several dresses that didn’t work. But the clearance rack saved us with something lovely. I’ll show you the picture from the website, but you’ll have to wait ’til the post about the party to see me in the dress.

Image: Cowlneck Dress by The Limited

Are you trying to stick to your wedding’s color palette for your wedding party wear?