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Miss Kettle, Chicago, IL Age and Occupation: 26, Non-Profit Donor Resource Coordinator Fiance's Age and Occupation: 27, Musician & Teacher Engagement Date: May 29, 2011 Wedding Date: February 2012 Venue: Patrick C. Haley Mansion, Joliet, IL About Me: I'm a city girl who loves a good escape, so I'm planning a Chicago wedding outside of the city. I've been described as a quirky yet down-to-earth drama queen who loves fiercely. I used to be a scientist, but now I'm learning to navigate the world of non-profit organizations. I love cooking, blogging, shopping, and music, and movies (Hans Zimmer is my favorite movie composer). Mr. Kettle and I had a short courtship and now we have a happy home with our cat-who-thinks-she's-people, Belle. We spend our days and nights with good food, live music, video games, family, and friends. Our wedding has become this wonderful excuse to bring together hundreds of people we can't bear to be without.
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My Mansion For A Day

August 28th, 2011 @ 5:55 pm by Miss Kettle

In my last post, I talked about redesigning the budget. I mentioned that Momma Kettle was looking to move our wedding venue somewhere else other than Chateau Bu-Sche. I glossed over it at the time, but now I’m ready to talk about it.

Actually, hive, I want to shout it from the rooftops!! But first a bit of background for anyone who hasn’t been reading my Weddingbee posts. We started our wedding venue search looking for somewhere we could have the ceremony and reception. We found a great place that just wasn’t right for us.

We moved on to another venue that I fell in love with, but was outside our budget. Ultimately, we went with a venue I liked and had some details that worked for us, even if it wasn’t a perfect fit.

Now, back to my shouting!

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We have switched our venue to the Patrick C. Haley Mansion!!!

This was the venue I fell in love with but was outside our budget. All our budget reworking was to make this venue happen. Our classy, yet raging party we all hoped to have is going to go down there! Woot!

I truly didn’t believe it when Momma and Daddy Kettle told me and Mr. Kettle we were making the switch. I hesitated to believe it when they took Mima and Poppa Kettle out to Joliet to take a look. They loved it too. Then my parents came back with a contract for me to sign to transfer the deposit from Chateau Bu-Sche to the Mansion.

When I got the confirmation e-mail from the Mansion, then I believed it. It was true. The Chateau people agreed to transfer our deposit so we didn’t lose it. Thank God they’re owned by the same people.

So now we’re having our lovely, possibly 300 guest-attended, winter wedding at the venue of my dreams. Just to remind you…

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Personal Photo: I can’t believe I’m actually truly really getting reading in this room!!

I figured most people wouldn’t take the time to scroll down the right side of the page on my posts for Weddingbee to see that the venue listed isn’t the same as the one I’ve been saying was our venue. Only one person asked me about it. I was glad about it since I wanted to tell our story in the order that it happened instead of glossing over the details. But now my story reflects what’s posted. Yay!

Did you have to rework your budget to make a certain aspect of your wedding work? What were you budgeting for?

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15 Responses to “My Mansion For A Day”

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Carolyn72
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Carolyn72 (message)  886 posts, Busy bee

Yes I did… I honestly only had a budget for a BBQ place, never did I believe that my mother would end up helping us out, as we are in our late 30s and 40s. But about a month ago, she told us she would help out with a REAL caterer. We found a GREAT company which included table linens, plates and everything else you need. Before that we were looking at fake plates and silverware. This put me on top of the world, I couldn’t believe it. We still are paying what we would have, but she upgraded our reception, and I truly couldn’t ask for a better Mother.

 
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haelmai
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haelmai (message)  234 posts, Helper bee

I noticed the difference, but I figured you would get to explaining it to us eventually. :-)
So glad you were able to get your dream venue!!!

 
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hisbahamamama
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hisbahamamama (message)  595 posts, Busy bee

Ahhhhh! I screamed out loud I was so excited for you! The other choice was great too but I knew how much you loved this one!

 
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Mrs. Giraffe
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Mrs. Giraffe (message)  4,219 posts, Honey bee

Whoo! Lucky you, Kettle!

We looked at the Chateau Bu Sche too, when we were planning, and I totally agree that the Patrick Hayley is even more super amazing. Your photos are going to be amazing!

 
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bluelily17 (message)  9 posts, Newbee

That’s a beautiful venue! Glad you’ve found yours.

 
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Miss Sunhat (message)  865 posts, Busy bee

Girl this venue is to die for! I’m so happy for you! Your day is going to be stunning.

 
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Miss Pony (message)  4,175 posts, Honey bee

So happy you were able to get your dream venue, it is so gorgeous!

 
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Mrs. Waffle (message)  1,123 posts, Bumble bee

Eeeek, it’s soooooo beautiful, swanky and romantic! Yay!

 
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Mrs. Elephant (message)  6,182 posts, Bee Keeper

Yay for getting your dream venue!

 
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TamJam (message)  208 posts, Helper bee

Great choice! I’m already excited for recaps to see how you worked this venue!

 
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Soon to be Mrs. C (message)  35 posts, Newbee

Congrats on getting your dream venue! It’s gorgeous!

 
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Miss Cucumber Sandwich (message)  572 posts, Busy bee

Yay! So excited for you. Congratulations on getting the venue of your dreams. It is going to be an amazing wedding!

 
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Ms. Gazelle (message)  994 posts, Busy bee

So glad you are able to get the right venue for you guys!! Yay!

 
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Miss Kettle (message)  909 posts, Busy bee

Thanks for all the congratulations! I love how the hive is like the upward spiral of excitement because other peoplea re even more excited for you which in turn just makes you more excited!

 
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Crystal

I am so happy your got the Venue!!! I reserved the Patrick Haley for my Leap Year 2012 Wedding. Of all the decisions I have made this venue was the easiest for me.

I fell in love with it online and once I saw it I knew it was the right choice. Planning my wedding budget around my Mansion for the day is well worth it:)

 

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Miss Kettle, Chicago, IL Age and Occupation: 26, Non-Profit Donor Resource Coordinator Fiance's Age and Occupation: 27, Musician & Teacher Engagement Date: May 29, 2011 Wedding Date: February 2012 Venue: Patrick C. Haley Mansion, Joliet, IL About Me: I'm a city girl who loves a good escape, so I'm planning a Chicago wedding outside of the city. I've been described as a quirky yet down-to-earth drama queen who loves fiercely. I used to be a scientist, but now I'm learning to navigate the world of non-profit organizations. I love cooking, blogging, shopping, and music, and movies (Hans Zimmer is my favorite movie composer). Mr. Kettle and I had a short courtship and now we have a happy home with our cat-who-thinks-she's-people, Belle. We spend our days and nights with good food, live music, video games, family, and friends. Our wedding has become this wonderful excuse to bring together hundreds of people we can't bear to be without.

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