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In my last post, I began my recaps of our amazing engagement party. I think I should be able to wrap up the rest in this post.

I already talked about our beyond-fashionably-late entrance, and the setup. Once we arrived and snapped a few photos, the party really got underway. One of our groomsmen, GM Mac, was the DJ. He had his Apple laptop and his Apple iPad.

Personal photo: GM Mac with his iPad

He kept the iPad in his pocket and would whip it out to switch to the next song. We really enjoyed his selections, and he played a great mix of songs that everyone, from Hostess High to Grandmother Kettle, enjoyed.

Mr. Kettle and I were a bit worried about how well our families would blend. But we should have known that the combination of drinks flowing (yay pseudo open bar!), tasty food, good music, and a limited amount of space would have people mingling.

After we had been there for a while, it was time for toasts. My parents, Momma and Daddy Kettle, are all over the toasts. We had great toasts during our Memorial Day barbeque the day Mr. Kettle and I were engaged. I was expecting good things from the toasts. Daddy Kettle gives amazing toasts. I think it’s because he was in Toastmasters.

He got up to make his toast and talked for quite a while. Mr. Kettle and I were really enjoying what he had to say. It was an emotional time and everyone could see how in love we were. It even brought tears to my eyes, which is apparently something I do now. I kind of forgot everyone else was watching and I really felt like it was just me, Mr. Kettle, and Daddy Kettle there until my godmother handed me tissues to wipe my tears. That made me immediately stop crying.

Then Daddy Kettle called up the people in our wedding party who were there. It was only half of them, but it was my first time seeing them all in one spot. It looked like so many people. I know, hive, you’re all thinking, “duh!” But to me it hasn’t seemed like a lot because these are people we hang out with quite constantly and see several times a month. But seeing them all up there dressed up but not at church just looked…different. It made me slightly worried, but also just a little bit more excited, for our wedding day.

Personal photo: the only shot I got with only half our attendants standing up there. Yup, just half.

After my father’s toast, Momma Kettle and Mr. Kettle’s mom, Mima Kettle, both said something. Then Mr. Kettle thanked everyone for their love, support, and attendance. It was very sweet and an amazing moment that makes me sure we have to have a videographer for the wedding.

I was surprised when Brother Kettle, my brother, arrived at the party. I wasn’t expecting him to come, so it was a pleasant surprise. Even though I don’t have a lot of cousins, it’s rare that we all get together at once. The last day was Grandmother Kettle’s 70th birthday party earlier this year, and we weren’t all there at the same time. So we gathered together and took a family picture with the cousins and Grandmother Kettle at the bar, where it was much cooler.

This reminds me that it was HOT in there. That private room wasn’t ventilated, and boy did we feel the heat. It wasn’t even that warm that day, but we spread out all over the restaurant in an effort to cool down. People were hanging out in the front and at the bar. Some people stayed in the room, but the flow of the restaurant and the friendly management helped us keep it moving around so no one baked. If I could do it over, I would have paid more attention to ventilation or cooling options. It was a small detail in the big picture, but when I was sweating, it felt like a big deal.

As the party wound down, us young folks (20s–30s) decided that the party must continue. So we headed to the Bar Louie around 8th and State and stayed there til they closed at 1 AM.

Personal photo: More pics of the wedding party and their family

Personal photo: My cousins went home to change then came and joined us. I was so glad they came back out!

Personal photo: The couple on the left is GM Hubby and his wife, who I grew up with. Mr. Kettle and I met at their wedding. Also pictured are BM Mac and Mr. Kettle.

Personal photo: Yeah…I only knew three people in this pic. These are friends of GM Light, pictured on the front right. That’s how you know it’s a party—when friendly strangers just show up!

Personal photo: We were having so much fun. We kissed for a photo ’cause, you know, we never do that.

Personal photo: I almost forgot to mention the best part of my outfit: These shoes!!!

The shoes are really amazing. I got them from Aldo. They’re called Lindemuth. They just so happen to come in all our wedding colors. Literally—they’re purple, black, tan, and cream, with gold accents. I may just wear these at every pre-wedding event because they’re so amazing! They are Aldo shoes, though, so they’re not the most comfortable. But I can deal with one imperfection.

The party finally wound down, and Mr. Kettle, BM Doc, and I headed back to our apartment. BM Doc’s ride back to St. Louis picked him up in the morning while Mr. Kettle and I headed to U.S. Cellular Field with BM Mon and his girlfriend, along with Mima and Poppa Kettle, for the baseball game. It wasn’t part of the engagement party, but it was still so awesome.

Image: U.S. Cellular Field Stadium Club via Chicago Bridal

This is where we went for brunch prior to the game. Swanky, right? I think Brother Kettle, who’s also engaged, might have his rehearsal dinner here.

Personal photo: Me and Mr. Kettle in our amazing seats at the game

Personal photo: BM Mon and his girlfriend

Personal photo: Seriously, our seats were amazing! Fourth row, right by the opposing dugout, first-base line.

Overall, the whole weekend was perfect. Did I mention our engagement party was so much better than I could have imagined?

Did you have an engagement party? Was it the perfect appetizer for your wedding?