Weddingbee Blog

When I first told my friend who is a Mary Kay consultant as well as my hairstylist about my engagement, they both launched into plans for the wedding. I’ve read enough posts around the hive to be aware that having a good plan in place ahead of time can save you a lot of hassle in the long run and avert a possible crisis.

So, hive, I will share with you what these two lovely ladies have told me in hopes that someone else (especially with my type of skin or hair) may benefit from their expertise.

Skincare: My skin type is combination. That means I have some areas that are normal, some that are dry, and some that are oily. I’ve been blessed in the skin department, people. I’ve never had any terrible outbreaks or bad acne, even in puberty. But choosing the right products that make my skin neither dry nor oily has been a delicate balancing act. I use a Dove bar on my face and skin because it has amazing moisturizers in it. I use Oil of Olay body lotion as well as Palmer’s Cocoa Butter. My skin stays smooth and healthy because of it. We also do a number of Mary Kay products that are targeted toward someone in my age range. There’s a long list of products I use, but I use them all every day for the most part, in addition to drinking lots of water.

Image: Oil of Olay lotion via Bzz Agent

Image: Palmer’s Cocoa Butter via Oh My Beauty

Image: Mary Kay TimeWise Night Restore Complex

Image: Mary Kay TimeWise Eye Cream

Image: Mary Kay TimeWise 3-in-1 Cleanser

Image: Mary Kay TimeWise Moisturizer

Image: Mary Kay Tinted Moisturizer in Bronze 2

That’s a lot o’ products for real, y’all. We didn’t add them all at once. I first tried the lotion back in 2007, and we just added the tinted moisturizer a little over a month ago. NEVER add multiple products at once if you can help it. How else can you identify what’s working and what isn’t?

Makeup plan: We are doing a classic Mary Kay Color Party for all my bridesmaids and Mr. Kettle’s maid of honor, MOH Sis. We will each get to play around with makeup colors and get a personally designed color palette for our day-of makeup that will be based off our skin tones and the wedding colors. I don’t know when in the world we’ll get it scheduled, but I’m looking forward to it!

Hair care: My hairstylist has told me that keeping my locs healthy all the time is very important. There’s not much we have to do for preparation for the wedding in terms of normal maintenance. But what we are focusing on is hair color. My locs are not my natural hair color. I can play with color a bit more, because the hair won’t get brittle or break since it’s not being combed/brushed. But it is important to keep it from getting too dry. We deep condition my hair so it stays a nice color and doesn’t end up brassy or faded. She makes her own hair-care products, and if she gets a website or begins to sell it online, I’ll let you know. Anyone in the Chicago area with specific questions, just ask and I’ll pass on the info.

Hair plan: We’re searching for the perfect hairstyle. But we’re also playing with color now so we don’t try a dye job two days before the wedding that I hate. Right now my hair is red, but I may want to go more golden brown in February. The plan is to try it out in January in case we need to adjust it lighter or darker.

Wedding Planning Tip #8: Have a real plan in place for your pre-wedding beauty regiment. Please don’t shock your skin or hair right before your wedding.

Do you (did you) have a pre-wedding skin and hair-care plan? Did it work?