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Miss Doily, Cedar Rapids, Iowa Age and Occupation: 25, Autism Paraeducator/ Student Fiance's Age and Occupation: 27, Freelance Writer/ Publisher Engagement Date: August 27th, 2010 Wedding Date: March 2012 Venue: Father’s Vineyard Church/ A Touch of Class Banquet Center About Me: I’m an Iowan girl with a deep love of Harry Potter, classic movies, cardigans, and Post-Its. My type-A Virgo tendencies often cause me to drive my laid-back college sweetheart fiance batty with lists and PowerPoint presentations. I love to be crafty and do things myself, which explains why my two crazy kittens often will prance around the house covered in glitter and ribbons. When I am not bogged down with work, school, or wedding planning, I like to travel to visit my expansive family and have wild adventures with my best friends. After a rollercoaster ride of a love story, I’m ready to take that final plunge, marry the love of my life, and become a Mrs.!
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Like I’ve said in my introduction to our church, the building was once a strip club. Because of that, our building doesn’t have a normal church ambiance. There are no vaulted ceilings, no stain glass windows, and no glossy pews. Basically, there is none of this:

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Image via St. Clement’s Shrine in Boston, MA

It’s a simple building with little decoration. The church is more about focusing on God than on appearance.

With that in mind, since the church does not have a lot of natural beauty, I want to bring in some decorations without overpowering the room. Which because of its simplicity, is going to be a challenge. So I find myself before every service on Sunday scanning the room for possible ideas. I have managed to come up with a few that have met with the approval of Mr. D and the church.

When you first walk into the church from the outside, you will go through generic glass doors into a small lobby. We have decided to spruce up the doors to give a little punch to the plain doors. I would really like to hang our initials, much like this:

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Image via Martha Stewart

Mr. D and I are going to tag-team this project. He is going to do the cutouts of our initials and we are them going to give the letters texture by covering the letters in white poms. He will also probably get the job of doing the scrunching of the tissue paper, and I will be in charge of the gluing, which will leave us with pretty, white, fluffy letters to hag on our front door.

In the lobby we will have a table set up containing our transportation information, the apparatuses that we will be using for our exit, and some small odds and ends. We will also have an easel holding our large chalkboard program.

Upon entering the sanctuary out pre-ceremony music will be playing softly ( A little VSQ anyone?) and we will have some more simple decorations like a hand painted aisle runner:

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Image via Starry Night Design Studio

pew pomanders:

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Image via The Knot / Jessica Johnton Photography

and some window decorations (these will be hanging in the windows by window cling hooks):

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Image via Smashed Peas and Carrots

We will also have a have a slideshow playing before the ceremony that will showcase our encagement pictures, our story through the years, and fun facts about us. When the ceremony starts, the PowerPoint will turn into a stained glass window, bringing in a little bit of that old church feeling.

Because we are not doing any extra ceremonies, the stage area will be empty aside from us, our pastor, and a cross. I’m so incredibly excited to see how everything pulls together in the sanctuary! I believe that our simplicity of decor matches the simplicity of our surroundings and ceremony.

How did you decorate your ceremony site? Did you face any unique challenges?

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15 Responses to “The Ceremony Brainstorm: Every Pew Has Its Bow”

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heather25
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heather25 (message)  2,355 posts, Buzzing bee

I know you probably don’t mean this, but I admit when I read your post I thought you meant to imply that ornate churches weren’t focused on God.

PS. I love the letters.

 
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Miss Ladyfingers (message)  1,119 posts, Bumble bee

Luckily, our ceremony is outdoors, so there’s very little decoration needed - but I love your ideas!

 
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futureMrsCPT (message)  600 posts, Busy bee

Sounds lovely!

 
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Mrs. Hyena (message)  1,882 posts, Buzzing bee

I hope when you wrote “Every Pew Has Its Bow” that you were intending to get “Every Rose Has Its Thorn” stuck in my head. Because you did. :)

 
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Coffee cup (message)  1,843 posts, Buzzing bee

@Mrs. Hyena: Same here, now it’ll stay there the entire day.

 
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Mrs. Pain au Chocolat (message)  1,698 posts, Bumble bee

Great solutions! The focus will definitely be on you and Mr. D.

@Hyena: exactly!

 
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Miss Doily (message)  643 posts, Busy bee

@heather25: not at all!! I didn’t even think about how that would come across! I just meant that our church decided not to focus on making it look like other churches and instead just let the cross really be our only decor and God use the simplicity as He wanted to.

 
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Miss Seal (message)  1,179 posts, Bumble bee

Oooooh pretty!!! Love the inspiration, Doily :) And I agree with Hyena—I totally have “Every Rose Has Its Thorn” stuck in my head now!

 
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Miss Magic (message)  628 posts, Busy bee

I don’t know how I missed that your church used to be a strip club. That is funny to me. But I think your decorations are lovely, and simple can be beautiful, as I am sure your wedding ceremony will be!

 
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JDBride (message)  25 posts, Newbee

That’s my old church! I was like “wait a minute…” It really is beautiful - good pick to describe a “big beautiful church”! Love the initials idea too : ) Any idea what size letters to use?

 
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SandyThePoet (message)  1,359 posts, Bumble bee

I am also in the process of trying to figure out how to decorate my already ornate church for our wedding, and I have gone back and forth. If we didn’t have so many children in our party, I would go with free-standing candle/flower holders but I am afraid they would knock them over and get hurt. The sides of the pews are wide, very similar to yours, and difficult to figure out how to decorate. I think you’ve given me some great ideas here, I will have to look into this.

 
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Miss Sunhat (message)  865 posts, Busy bee

We are going to luck out and not have to do any decorating. With us getting married on NYE, the church will still be decorated from Christmas. Our church is also huge and very ornate so it doesn’t need much anyway. I somehow missed it too that your church was a strip club and I just envisioned poles up and down the aisle! I really like the door initials and pew pomanders though. They always add a perfect touch.

 
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Miss Kettle (message)  909 posts, Busy bee

Wow, I was thinking how nice all the decor would be, but I wasn’t thinking simplicity. I’m looking forward to see how it all comes together.
We are only having a few sprigs of some sort of greenery for the aisle and two low pedestals with flowers to mark where the ceremony will be.

 
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JB

You should tell all of the ornate, historical churches in Europe that they aren’t focused on God, only appearance.

I bet if your church WAS ornately decorated they would have thought of another ‘line’ to tell you like “we want people to KNOW THEY’RE IN A CHURCH,” or, fill-in-the-blank.

Things/buildings/people can look different, but still serve the same purpose. It all depends on your preference. (A truth which is observed by, ironically, strip clubs…). :-/

 
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@JB - I know Miss Doily didn’t mean it that way at all (she said so above)– both ornate and simple churches could equally focus on God.

@Miss Doily - I’ve been reading for a while but this is my first comment (yay! -^_^-). I love that your church used to be a strip club, it reflects the truth that God’s love is everywhere. :) It sounds like your ceremony decor is going to be beautiful! {Does the term BarrPals mean anything to you?} -E

 

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Miss Doily, Cedar Rapids, Iowa Age and Occupation: 25, Autism Paraeducator/ Student Fiance's Age and Occupation: 27, Freelance Writer/ Publisher Engagement Date: August 27th, 2010 Wedding Date: March 2012 Venue: Father’s Vineyard Church/ A Touch of Class Banquet Center About Me: I’m an Iowan girl with a deep love of Harry Potter, classic movies, cardigans, and Post-Its. My type-A Virgo tendencies often cause me to drive my laid-back college sweetheart fiance batty with lists and PowerPoint presentations. I love to be crafty and do things myself, which explains why my two crazy kittens often will prance around the house covered in glitter and ribbons. When I am not bogged down with work, school, or wedding planning, I like to travel to visit my expansive family and have wild adventures with my best friends. After a rollercoaster ride of a love story, I’m ready to take that final plunge, marry the love of my life, and become a Mrs.!

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