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Mrs. Sunhat, Dyer, IN Age and Occupation: 32, Tax Accountant Fiance's Age and Occupation: 35, Landscape Foreman Engagement Date: September 25, 2010 Wedding Date: December 2011 Venues: St. Andrew the Apostle, Fiesta Palace About Me: I'm a Midwest girl who grew up in the country and now works in the big city! I love cooking, entertaining, reading (addicted to my Kindle) and going to the movies. I don't miss an episode of Hoarders and I start cleaning every time I watch! My profession doesn't call for much creativity so wedding planning has been a great outlet. Mr. Sunhat and I met online three years ago, cheer for rival MLB teams and share a home with our dog, Wrigley. We are planning a traditional, Polish, Catholic wedding with lots of DIY elements and some fun surprises. I'm so excited to be married on New Year's Eve and we can't wait to ring in the new year as husband and wife!
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The Great Escape

September 20th, 2011 @ 5:44 am by Mrs. Sunhat

We are quickly approaching the 100 day countdown to the Sunhat / Ball Cap wedding. I’m trying not to freak out about going into double digits.

The last couple of months have been quite hectic and stressful for us.

  • We lost my grandma in early August
  • My other grandmother’s Alzheimer’s has gotten severely worse in the past month and she is still in the hospital
  • September 15th was a busy tax deadline for me
  • Mr. BC has been on a new job hunt for quite some time
  • I’m on a diet (that’s a story for a whole other post!)
  • My car’s alternator decided to go out on me (but at 148,000 miles, things are bound to happen)
  • The wedding list isn’t getting any shorter

I’m in no way trying to be a big baby whiner here.

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Life happens whether you are planning a wedding or not.

Unfortunately, I’m not always the best at managing my stress. So what’s a boy and girl to do? Run away of course!

Well not forever, but a weekend away was long overdue.

Early Saturday, the 17th, we dropped Wrigley off at her Aunt and Uncle’s house and we headed Northeast to Coldwater, Michigan. Those darn Pure Michigan commercials and radio ads had stuck with me. I logged onto Michigan.org and saw that Coldwater was having their annual Applefest and that the town had a drive-in movie theater! A 2.5 hour drive wasn’t too bad and we didn’t care if we ended up doing nothing at all—it was an escape.

Coldwater is a super cute, small, historical town in South Central, Michigan. When we arrived, we drove right through the middle of town and found the Applefest. There were approximately 150 vendors selling food and crafts. We picked up a bag of apples, a caramel apple for me, caramel corn for him, and a couple of bottles of cider. Yum!

After about an hour and a half of walking around, we grabbed some lunch, had some cocktails and watched some college football. It felt great not worrying about a thing.

We checked into our hotel, (Hampton Inn), and I surprised Mr. BC with the room I had booked.

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Oh yeah - that’s a hot tub!

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Just a standard room—except for the hot tub! (Side note: that green wall was kinda awful—would have totally gone with a different shade or color.) The hot tub was awesome, however, it relaxed us almost too much! We never did make it to the drive-in, which I’m a little sad about now, but we were so relaxed / tired and had a fantastic pizza from a joint in town (Tail Gators) that we really didn’t miss it.

This getaway was much needed and did wonders for us both. I feel re-energized and ready to tackle the wedding list with a vengeance (and shop for a new car). I think it is important, and imperative to your sanity, to stop and re-charge your own batteries sometimes.

Have you taken a wedding planning break or planned a wedding-free zone getaway?

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10 Responses to “The Great Escape”

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Mrs. Hyena (message)  1,881 posts, Buzzing bee

That sounds wonderful! I wish we’d had a little getaway time before the wedding, but the honeymoon more than made up for it. :)

 
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Holy crap, my aunt lives in Coldwater! I grew up near the area in Southern Michigan and currently live in Indiana.

So nice to see a local-ish Bee! :)

 
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Miss Porcupine (message)  428 posts, Helper bee

Great idea. Our pre-wedding escape will be at a friend’s destination wedding. Other than that I am counting down to our honeymoon!!

 
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Miss Ladyfingers (message)  1,119 posts, Bumble bee

I love this idea! This makes me want to go away ASAP… but with 40ish days left, no money, and no time, I guess we’ll have to wait for the honeymoon ;)

 
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Miss Honey (message)  1,069 posts, Bumble bee

With you at almost 100 that means I’m just a tiny bit over 100…yikes!

 
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AshleyB (message)  557 posts, Busy bee

that inspired me too now I want to go somewhere… but I always want to go places… sounds like you had a good time…

 
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Miss Kettle (message)  909 posts, Busy bee

I’m glad to hear your weekend away did exactly what is was supposed to do. Hopefully with re-charged batteries, now you’ll be ready to take on the world. I’m praying for your grandma. My great-aunt who I’m very close with is having the same battle.

 
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Future Army Wife (message)  1,101 posts, Bumble bee

My sister is a CPA, and that deadline was bad for her, too. Glad y’all got a weekend awy. I do love the Hampton Inns with jacuzzi tubs. So nice. I’m hoping the fiance and I can do a weekend away each month next year because we’re not doing a traditional honeymoon.

 
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TinyTina (message)  3,312 posts, Sugar bee

That sounds wonderful!! Since we can’t really afford a full blown awesome sauce vacation FI and I take frequent weekend getaways. Most times we don’t even leave the hotel. Sometimes it’s nice to just order room service, some pay per view movies and cuddle in the huge hotel bed for a weekend!

 
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Miss Sunhat (message)  865 posts, Busy bee

@Googleasaurus: How random is that!
@Miss Honey: Yikes is right! I’m sure I’ll have a freak-out post on Thursday.

 

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Mrs. Sunhat, Dyer, IN Age and Occupation: 32, Tax Accountant Fiance's Age and Occupation: 35, Landscape Foreman Engagement Date: September 25, 2010 Wedding Date: December 2011 Venues: St. Andrew the Apostle, Fiesta Palace About Me: I'm a Midwest girl who grew up in the country and now works in the big city! I love cooking, entertaining, reading (addicted to my Kindle) and going to the movies. I don't miss an episode of Hoarders and I start cleaning every time I watch! My profession doesn't call for much creativity so wedding planning has been a great outlet. Mr. Sunhat and I met online three years ago, cheer for rival MLB teams and share a home with our dog, Wrigley. We are planning a traditional, Polish, Catholic wedding with lots of DIY elements and some fun surprises. I'm so excited to be married on New Year's Eve and we can't wait to ring in the new year as husband and wife!

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