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Mrs. Knitting, Toronto Age and Occupation: 24, Student Recruitment Assistant Fiance's Age and Occupation: 24, Neuroscience PhD Candidate Engagement Date: October 2009 Wedding Date: December 2010 Venue: University of Toronto Faculty Club About Me: I'm a pearl wearing, etiquette book reading Toronto girl who loves cooking and baking, museums, charm bracelets, and collecting books on Jackie Kennedy (a lot). I've been known to spend Sunday mornings at the antique market, Wednesday evenings at sister sushi dinners, and any bit of spare time reading. After six and a half years of many late night walks, watching DVDs together in bed, travelling to places like New York, and Tobermory, doing Sudokus together on the couch, lots of Indian food, the occasional yoga class, moving in together and so much more, Mr. Knitting and I are planning a cozy Christmasy (it's a word!), vintage wedding in Toronto complete with many DIY projects (eek!) and lots of help from our amazing group of family and friends.
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The Least Romantic Exit of All Time

October 20th, 2011 @ 10:17 am by Mrs. Knitting

It’s true. The Knitting’s departure from our wedding could not in any terms be called romantic or picture worthy. However, before I describe that, there’s a few more things that happened before the end of the night.

First, I threw my bouquet from the balcony:

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Then Mr. Knitting threw a garter:

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As you can see we were very interested in an equal opportunity bouquet and garter toss and we encouraged people of both sexes and all ages to participate. We made the deal a bit sweeter by attaching Tim Hortons gift cards (because we’re Canadian!) to the items.

While dancing definitely continued for a while after, I was starting to get tired. Luckily, because we had the entire club all evening I was able to go spend time with my friends in a more comfortable setting.

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I loved that we had this extra space because it meant a lot of guests who probably would have left once they were tired of dancing and loud music stayed and seemed to be having a great time having a more low key experience. I really loved that.

Eventually, the night came to an end and it was time to go. In contrast to the many adorable exits that many other bees have had, ours was not the slightest bit romantic. Mr. Knitting and I helped round up all our items from the club and then, due to a number of weird logistical reasons, Mr. Knitting drove back to our apartment with this parents and cousin while I got a ride with my dad and a ton of wedding paraphernalia.

I know this sounds really awful to a lot of you, but while I could recognize that this was not a romantic exit and that the symbolism of it was pretty bad, I didn’t actually mind all that much. I thought it was more funny than anything else. I knew I was going to see him again in 10 minutes, so it definitely wasn’t something to stress over.

Did anyone else have a less than romantic exit from your wedding? I’d love to hear some stories.

Unless otherwise noted, all photos by the wonderful Josh Levinson.

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18 Responses to “The Least Romantic Exit of All Time”

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jessica.dirr
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jessica.dirr (message)  384 posts, Helper bee

Nah - other than the pretty pictures, I never understood the whole idea of staging a grand exit. I want to be the last ones to leave my reception, not one of the first! I love how you did it. : )

 
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Miss Aardvark (message)  635 posts, Busy bee

I love the toes in the bottom of the last picture! Someone had clearly been doing some barefoot dancing! :) How cute!

 
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Miss Dalmatian (message)  480 posts, Helper bee

1) That is an awesome balcony for bouquet/garter toss! 2) I love the chill exit from the wedding, sometimes practicality just has to outweigh a photo-op :)

 
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autumn865
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autumn865 (message)  189 posts, Blushing bee

LOL Our exit was uneventful too! The music ended and we said our goodbyes while the venue started to clean up. We packed about three cars worth of wedding stuff and his parents drove us back to our house. His aunt in the third car got lost, so at about midnight after our wedding we were sitting around the family room with his whole extended family, exhausted, and on the telephone giving her directions! Not very romantic…

 
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animalcrackers
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animalcrackers (message)  28 posts, Newbee

Our exit was unromantic as well! My husband and best man went to go sort something out with our after party space at the hotel, and I ended up driving my car - puffy dress and all - the 300 yards or so from the reception space to the hotel with the best man’s girlfriend. I thought it was hilarious then, and my only regret is that there’s not a picture of me driving with tulle and silk and lace piled up on my lap.

 
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hosannac

We had no grand exit either, but we did get to visit with some of special relatives at a cocktail lounge on the resort property where our wedding was held, then walked along the lake front to another bar to meet our friends and party longer. It was the perfect ending to a perfect night.

 
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acingthelace
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acingthelace (message)  555 posts, Busy bee

Nope. We tried to help clean up but our families wouldn’t let us, so we hung out with his nephew in the front lounge area until we could get a ride back with his brother. The guests were gone at this point so it was just the three of us in a truck full of wedding stuff. When we got home, all of our family came to drop wedding items off. He did carry me over the threshold, though :)

 
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MissCT
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MissCT (message)  76 posts, Worker bee

Personally, I never understood the idea of a grand exit. I want to say and party with my friends and family and I will leave when they leave. Plus, my wedding will be a backyard wedding, so it would be kinda weird to have a grand exit, but even if it was at a venue, I don’t think that I would do a “grand exit.” Grand entrance is enough grand for me.

 
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lawschool bride
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lawschool bride (message)  296 posts, Helper bee

I can beat that! Our reception wound down, pretty much all the guests were gone, and I was exhausted and wanted to get to our hotel. We wanted to make sure we said goodbye to all our family members, but couldn’t find my husband’s mom to say good bye. So a 10-15 minute search ensued, ending up with finding his mom hanging out in the dining room, with no clue of the commotion. This resulted in tired bride turning into cranky bride, and led up to me picking our first married argument (on an unrelated matter) on our way to the hotel. Super unromantic, but funny looking back on it.

 
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totheislnds
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totheislnds (message)  5,361 posts, Bee Keeper

Its all part of your story! thats the beauty of it…we didnt have a farewell or send off - basically everyone moved from the ball room to the hotel bar - after another hour or so of drinks and socializing we quietly snuck up to our hotel room to get some rest before our 6am flight. i don’t even know if anyone saw us leave.

 
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Mrs. Pony (message)  4,175 posts, Honey bee

We stuck around our venue making sure everything was packed up and ready to go and then hitched a ride with our friends, nothing romantic or particularly photo worthy, but I wouldn’t have it any other way :)

 
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Mrs. Hyena (message)  1,882 posts, Buzzing bee

Mr. H is in a lot of weddings, so inevitably I’m the girl that gets stuck helping clean up after every single wedding. I sure as heck wasn’t going to clean up after my own, so I’m glad we left when we did! That may sound not very nice of me, but it’s true. :)

 
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Miss Cucumber Sandwich (message)  572 posts, Busy bee

We helped pick up everything from our venue too! Then we went upstairs to our hotel room and I gorged myself on a cheeseburger. It was pretty unsexy the way I inhaled it. Oh well no turning back now mr. CS

 
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BriarRose (message)  202 posts, Helper bee

We had to end our reception at 12pm and my husband, myself and our cousins, close friends and siblings still wanted to hang out so we had them all come over to our suite for some drinks, quality time and good-byes since we live all over place.

Wasn’t romantic or grand but I wouldn’t change a thing!

 
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Mrs. Parasol (message)  2,132 posts, Buzzing bee

I love how you included everyone in both tosses! What a great idea! And the casual, non-romantic end to your night actually sounds really nice and perfect for you two. We ended up leaving with one of our good couple friends who drove us to our hotel, and it was nice to have some time to visit with them. We loved it, even though it wasn’t “just us” or anything.

 
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k8e

i left w/o my hubs too! we rented a van and a driver to take everyone downtown for the after party and i lost hubs on the way out (it was chaotic to say the least). i rode with some ‘maids and groomsmen and hung out a the hotel waiting for him to arrive in the second van. probably bad symbolism too, but we weren’t actually leaving anyone - bc everyone was coming to the afterparty. we had our “exit” from flaco’s - a late night sandwich shop in downtown gville - at about 3am. that worked for me

 
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Mrs. Teaspoon (message)  731 posts, Busy bee

Friends of ours did exactly the same thing, they did a tunnel exit, because many people were going to bed and they wanted to do the tunnel then came back in the door to keep partying!

 
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TheFutureMcBride
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TheFutureMcBride (message)  4,479 posts, Honey bee

We did an unromatic departure too. Since our officiant was 45 minutes late, I wanted every second I could get out of my reception. Sometimes things happen, but it doesn’t make the day any less special.

 

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Mrs. Knitting, Toronto Age and Occupation: 24, Student Recruitment Assistant Fiance's Age and Occupation: 24, Neuroscience PhD Candidate Engagement Date: October 2009 Wedding Date: December 2010 Venue: University of Toronto Faculty Club About Me: I'm a pearl wearing, etiquette book reading Toronto girl who loves cooking and baking, museums, charm bracelets, and collecting books on Jackie Kennedy (a lot). I've been known to spend Sunday mornings at the antique market, Wednesday evenings at sister sushi dinners, and any bit of spare time reading. After six and a half years of many late night walks, watching DVDs together in bed, travelling to places like New York, and Tobermory, doing Sudokus together on the couch, lots of Indian food, the occasional yoga class, moving in together and so much more, Mr. Knitting and I are planning a cozy Christmasy (it's a word!), vintage wedding in Toronto complete with many DIY projects (eek!) and lots of help from our amazing group of family and friends.

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