Weddingbee Blog

Hive, I’ve talked about my honeymoon way waaay more than I ever intended. It’s like a bar joke that won’t ever die. “Two newlyweds walk into a bar on their honeymoon…” Or, you know, something more clever and memorable than that.

I have good news to share and then I won’t speak of the honeymoon again until recaps. Our honeymoon is booked! Woot!

It’s not at all the honeymoon I imagined and wrote about before. There were just too many obstacles in our way. Mr. Kettle has taught me so much about compromise since we’ve been together and that really came in handy when we were sorting out the details of our honeymoon.

To refresh your memory: I saw our honeymoon as a wonderful holiday triple threat. We were going to do Carnival, Valentine’s Day, and Mardi Gras. We were going to Panama and New Orleans and it was going to be wonderful.

The price ended up being more than I expected, so we waited to reassess our funds before we booked.

The day I was going to book the trip (to make sure the New Orleans hotel wasn’t full), something major changed. Mr. Kettle got word of a great opportunity for his music. He’s a musician and a teacher and he’s damn good at both.

The only thing about this opportunity it is was the week after our wedding, when we were supposed to be in Panama. Being the awesome almost-wife that I am, I reasoned that we could go to Carnival another year. And maybe with more advance planning, we could actually go to Rio de Janeiro in Brazil. Trading in a warm beach hotel for a hotel in the city of Chicago in February isn’t what I was thinking, but it will allow us to be in the city the week after our wedding.

We are going to stay in a hotel in the city, so we’ll still be honeymooning, we’ll just also be working on Mr. Kettle’s music opportunities. And we’ll be going to New Orleans for Mardi Gras still. Searching for hotels in Chicago was a lot of fun. I compared options and found an amazing deal on a wonderful hotel and spa right smack in the middle of downtown.

Image via hotels.com / Dana Hotel and Spa

Image via QuikBook / Do you see that view?

Image via concierge.com / I could see having dinner there!

They also have in-room couples’ massages. I’m thinking a relaxing week followed by a big party in New Orleans will be perfect for us. It makes sense for the Kettles that a big part of honeymoon includes Mr. Kettle’s music. I wouldn’t have it any other way.

Did something throw a wrench into your honeymoon plans? Were you able to go on a big honeymoon immediately after the wedding, or did you have to put it off?