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Miss Mink, Charlottesville, Virginia Age and Occupation: 34, College Administrator Fiance's Age and Occupation: 40, Craft Beer Consultant Engagement Date: November 26, 2010 Wedding Date: June 2012 Venue: Pippin Hill Farm & Vineyards About Me: I left a pre-war brownstone in Boston six years ago to live in a funky, Southern city where Thomas Jefferson, Dave Matthews, and urban chicken keepers enjoy equal social standing. I still love my Patriots and Red Sox, but have fallen in love with Virginia. I work in education and specialize in integrating technology into my work to improve the student experience. I’m a diehard blogger, animal lover, jamband follower, and DIYer. I paint to relax and have transferred by energy from home projects to wedding projects in recent months. When Mr. Mink and I started talking about marriage, we knew our wedding would be outdoors, that my golden retriever would be part of the day, and that the music would be fantastic. We’ve taken a few risks during our planning process and we’ve been enjoying the process immensely!
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When I was in college in New England, getting packages with a return address of One Ivy Crescent in Lynchburg, Virginia was a thrill. It meant that yet another boxy, Shetland wool, or roll-neck sweater had arrived from J.Crew. We were addicts. We thought the label “J.Crew U” was a compliment to our great style, not a criticism of our homogeneous look.

One day, I decided to find One Ivy Crescent in Lynchburg, just an hour south of Charlottesville. A friend told me that the clearance center at the J.Crew factory carried current merchandise that had been returned or slightly damaged and not the cheaper outlet-only line that you’d expect. J.Crew doesn’t publish any official information about the two stores it operates out of the Lynchburg factory, but I post their addresses on the Weddingbee boards every now and then in hopes of helping people find them.

During my visit, I got on the factory’s email list and started getting announcements about sample sales and warehouse clearance events. Last spring, I got a message about a wedding clearance event that J.Crew held in an empty storefront in Richmond and decided to go check it out.

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I was too excited to take a picture. / Photo from the Richmond Bargains blog

I hadn’t finalized wedding colors or my bridesmaids when this sale happened, so I wasn’t really looking for anything specific. I was stunned that gowns that used to sell for over $1,000 were marked down to $200–300. All bridesmaids’ dresses were $30. All shoes were $10. On top of that, everything was 20% off for the final weekend of the sale.

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Wedding gowns to the left, bridesmaids’ dresses in the middle. / Photo from the Richmond Bargains blog

I didn’t feel ready to shop for a wedding gown, and I knew J.Crew’s gowns weren’t really my style. I couldn’t resist the shoes, though. I dug through the boxes and unearthed about five pairs that had promise. I ultimately went home with these:

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Miss Mink’s first wedding-attire purchase / Photo by Miss Mink

They were $8. They retailed for $238 when they were in the catalog. I wasn’t 100% sure I loved them, but I figured that $8 wasn’t much of a loss if they didn’t wind up working out.

A few weeks later, I found a beautiful pair of Butter shoes on the website of a shoe store in New Orleans. They were a final sale, but I was so certain that I liked them that I placed the order. Butter shoes, if you haven’t heard of them, are super comfy but beautiful and feminine shoes. Their bridal line, which is called Something Bleu and Bridal by Butter, is being carried by Anthropoligie’s new wedding brand, BHLDN.

When the shoes came, I loved them, but they were too big! I guess I need to order a size down in Butter. Darn it.

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Discouraged, I abandoned the shoe hunt for a while and decided to make a few trips to bridal salons to try on wedding gowns. By shopping for shoes, I was putting the cart a bit far before the horse, don’t you think?

Is anyone else shoe obsessed? I was never as fixated on shoes as I have been since getting engaged.

Did anyone else wind up with multiple pairs of shoes?

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jadefrog154 (message)  118 posts, Blushing bee

Adorable!!! I bought my shoes before the dress..the first pair is really cute! And the second pair could pretty much go with lots :)

I had 4 pairs…but ended up returning 1 so far, deciding on returning another pair.

Fear not fellow shoe lover..have as many as you have room for. :)

 
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Miss Mink (message)  1,524 posts, Bumble bee

@jadefrog154: Honestly, I think I’m going to be a two shoe bride anyway, so I’m giving myself permission to keep looking!

 
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knvprincess143 (message)  807 posts, Busy bee

Still only one pair, but I bought them the week I got engaged…talk about the cart before the horse, lol.

 
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Miss Mink (message)  1,524 posts, Bumble bee

@knvprincess143: Hee hee! Glad I’m not the only one!

 
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Miss Aardvark (message)  636 posts, Busy bee

I love your $8 shoes! And the Butter shoes. I got all of my shoes (3 pair) before my dress so You are not at all being crazy! (And if you are…what does that say for me!?)

 
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Miss Mink (message)  1,524 posts, Bumble bee

@Miss Aardvark: Hee Hee! I feel like I’m getting permission for more shoe shopping!

 
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TinyTina
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TinyTina (message)  3,312 posts, Sugar bee

Ohhh I love those shoes from J.Crew. Can’t believe you got them for $8!! You are a true bargain hunter Mink!

 
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Miss Mink (message)  1,524 posts, Bumble bee

@TinyTina: Just wait for my next post. You’re going to be so proud of me!!!

 
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kmclevel (message)  35 posts, Newbee

I immediately starting the shoe search when I got engaged… I only started shopping for dresses “just for fun, to try them on” at my moms urging. We did end up finding a sample on super sale at a tiny boutique that fit off the rack, so good thing for moms!
I was torn between Angela Nuran and Hey Ladys, but still can’t justify spending full price. I finally bought the pair of Johnathan Kayne royal blue peacock shoes I have been lusting after because shoe buy had a discount and 90 returns… If I decide these are comfortable enough I may do one pair- but if not, I am going to get another pair and change shoes after the ceremony

 
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Miss Mink (message)  1,524 posts, Bumble bee

@kmclevel: I like your taste in shoes! I love Hey Lady shoes and found the Nuran shoes super comfy!

 
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Miss Mole (message)  990 posts, Busy bee

Butter is having a sale on Rue La La right now, so thanks for the sizing tip!

I ended up with 3 pairs of shoes. I’ll probably wear some Boutique 9 heels and my Kate Spade flats for Vegas!

 
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Mrs. Pony (message)  4,181 posts, Honey bee

Love both pairs of shoes! And I’m so taking a trip to Lynchburg to check out the JCrew factory store, thanks for the tip :)

 
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toshella (message)  644 posts, Busy bee

Clearly, I went to the wrong J. Crew factory store! My sister and I went by when we were down in Lynchburg a few weeks ago. We actually were visiting Church Street Bridal (which we found from your blog) and while we were in town decided to check out the J. Crew factory store (…uh, which we found from your blog). Anyway, we went to the one at 25 Millrace Drive and were kind of disappointed. J. Crew is too expensive for me in general, and apparently J. Crew discount is still too expensive! Alas.
$8 shoes are a great bargain though!

(btw, I haven’t commented on your posts before, but I was so excited when you became a Bee! I love your CVille blog, if you couldn’t tell.)

 
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Miss Mink (message)  1,524 posts, Bumble bee

@Mrs. Pony: They having a holiday sale in the warehouse in the next couple weeks!

 
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Miss Mink (message)  1,524 posts, Bumble bee

@toshella: Aw, thanks!

The key is the get on the mailing list at the Lynchburg store. Then you will get the emails when they hold the big warehouse events. Check back this afternoon to see a price list from one of those events.

I think the Lynchburg stores are totally worth it for some items, but if you can hold out for one of the warehouse events, you’ll be in heaven!

 
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lolo7835 (message)  558 posts, Busy bee

How do you get on the mailing list? We are in Richmond and would LOVE to know about these!

 
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Miss Mink (message)  1,524 posts, Bumble bee

@lolo7835: If you go to the Millrace store, you can sign up for the mailing list. I think you can call and get a recording about the next warehouse event.

Google “Lynchburg jcrew factory” and the 4th hit should be a blog post (called “A Trip to the J. Crew Factory”) that has the addresses and contact info.

 
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Miss Mink (message)  1,524 posts, Bumble bee

BTW, there is a third J. Crew warehouse in Adren, North Carolina for those of you who might be a little south of me. :)

 
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kmclevel (message)  35 posts, Newbee

Woohoo I’m in NC!! FHs family is near Richmond I was plotting a side trip over Xmas but this is much better!

 
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JuneBride2012
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JuneBride2012 (message)  509 posts, Busy bee

8?! What a find! Both pairs of shoes are beautiful; it’s too bad the Butter shoes were too big.

 
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Miss Mink, Charlottesville, Virginia Age and Occupation: 34, College Administrator Fiance's Age and Occupation: 40, Craft Beer Consultant Engagement Date: November 26, 2010 Wedding Date: June 2012 Venue: Pippin Hill Farm & Vineyards About Me: I left a pre-war brownstone in Boston six years ago to live in a funky, Southern city where Thomas Jefferson, Dave Matthews, and urban chicken keepers enjoy equal social standing. I still love my Patriots and Red Sox, but have fallen in love with Virginia. I work in education and specialize in integrating technology into my work to improve the student experience. I’m a diehard blogger, animal lover, jamband follower, and DIYer. I paint to relax and have transferred by energy from home projects to wedding projects in recent months. When Mr. Mink and I started talking about marriage, we knew our wedding would be outdoors, that my golden retriever would be part of the day, and that the music would be fantastic. We’ve taken a few risks during our planning process and we’ve been enjoying the process immensely!

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