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Miss Turkey, Philadelphia Age and Occupation: 29, Brand Management Fiance's Age and Occupation: 28, Consultant Engagement Date: February 2011 Wedding Date: May 2012 Venue: The Rittenhouse Hotel About Me: I'm a marketer who loves a good glass of wine, anything pumpkin-flavored, every crime drama on TV and, of course, Mr. Turkey. It's funny to say out loud, but we're former coworkers turned betrothed---now planning a wedding in the city of Brotherly Love. For three years, we've been eating our way through Philadelphia, playing tourist at home, and cheering for every sports team in the 215. Although we've hit some unplanned snags along the way, we're determined to have a rocking party this spring with our loud, fun families and friends.
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Controlling the Vision

December 14th, 2011 @ 1:51 pm by Miss Turkey

So…we have a venue and we have a style…but how to execute?

WARNING: PHOTO-HEAVY POST AHEAD

As I mentioned, with our venue the issue was going to be controlling the vision. With the potential for there to be multiple vendors for the reception design and execution alone, we needed to think about how everything would remain cohesive and not turn into a garbled mess.

We spoke to the Kimmel Center and asked them if they could recommend any vendors who could “do it all.” In other words, were there companies that could help us with everything from flowers to chairs to forks and china? There were (hooray!), and so we decided to narrow it down to two that had done business with the venue and visit them one spring weekend.

I went armed with two things when visiting these vendors:

1. My wedding brand (modern elegance)

2. My binder of wedding inspiration

Oh…and 3. My mom and Mr. Turkey

When asked about the wedding I showed them photos around overall inspiration that I had compiled in my wedding binder, of bridesmaid style, food, and flowers.*

We were looking for them to tell us what could be done and see if they understood what we wanted. A fairly simple conversation, but our thought was that we could tell if there was a good “vibe” between us.

The first stop was Evantine. We had a feeling we would be “WOWed” by this visit, judging by what we had heard about their work and seen on the blog. I mean, check these out:

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Place-card table at the Project H.O.M.E. iCare gala (at a private farm) / Image via Evantine Design

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Love all the glass—from a gorgeous winter wedding at the Rittenhouse Hotel / Image via Evantine Design

We met with Brian and quickly realized that there was nothing he couldn’t do. Basically, your imagination could run wild (as could your bill). We loved how he thought outside the box and seemed to “get” our vision. Oh, and we nearly DIED upon touring his warehouse.

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Imagine rows and rows like this—everything you can imagine / Image via Evantine Design

So, clearly a positive experience. However, we knew that with Evantine came a hefty price tag, so we went to our next location with a very open mind.

Our second stop was Robertson’s, who are known mostly for their floral design, but have done some fabulous signature events.

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Event at Inn at Leola Village / Image via Robertson’s Flowers

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Centerpieces from a wedding at the Westinlove the diversity / Image via Robertson’s Flowers

Our conversation mainly centered around flowers, and I felt like the consultant’s knowledge about what was in season in May (on the spot) was wonderful. He was able to look at my floral photos and give thoughts on how we could bring the color up or down, depending on our preference. I loved that.

To make a long story short, we ended up choosing Evantine. We had thought about splitting the work and having Evantine do the general design (chairs, tables, etc.) and Robertson’s do all the personal flowers (and potentially centerpieces), but that didn’t happen.

Why?

Because, believe it or not, we NEVER heard back from Robertson’s. Not once. Not after multiple phone calls and emails. It was seriously the oddest thing ever. And, after a while without a response, we decided we didn’t want to work with them anymore. (Can you imagine a lack of communication closer to the wedding? Eek.)

In the end, Evantine was absolutely the right choice, but it was a bizarre way to make a decision!

Have you had a vendor “disappear” after a meeting? Do you think maybe they didn’t like us?!?

*Note: I know NOTHING about flowers. I chose inspiration photos that were a) white, green, blue, or yellow (colors we wanted) and b) fairly unstructured in shape.

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12 Responses to “Controlling the Vision”

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Miss Mink (message)  1,510 posts, Bumble bee

The warehouse would have done it for me.

My floral designer let me see her ribbon library and her storage room. The ribbons, and her story about buying some French ribbon to match the trim on one bride’s Carolina Herrera gown, won me over. :)

No MIA vendors so far. Knock on wood!

 
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Miss Dalmatian (message)  480 posts, Helper bee

That’s crazy! Definitely a good call - I would hate to be stuck with a vendor that I couldn’t reach. Also, that warehouse is amazing!

 
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Kate

Funny, I tried to meet with Robertson’s too and they never followed up! Evantine does amazing things - can’t wait to see how it all turns out!

 
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Miss Ke Aloha
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Miss Ke Aloha (message)  475 posts, Helper bee

I had a florist do the same thing… I finally got a hold of them but had already made my choice. I went with my #3 - a lady I had almost cancelled with because I liked #2 who never responded. Also, my photographer who I everything but put deposit on because of high recommendation by a friend I trust very much. We actually only wanted to meet to place deposit and sign contract but… after 6 weeks of no contact I had found another photographer - and I am so very happy with the person we have chosen.

 
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Mrs. Pony (message)  4,171 posts, Honey bee

It’s a good thing you followed your instincts and didn’t go with the vendor that ignored you. We didn’t fare so well with all our vendors, but you live and learn.

 
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Miss Turkey (message)  300 posts, Helper bee

@Miss Mink: Matching ribbon to a gown - wow! You clearly have a wonderful floral designer!

@Miss Dalmatian: So confusing - I didn’t get it! And that picture does NOT do the warehouse justice. I could spend days in there :)

@Kate: Ah - it’s not just me!

@Miss Ke Aloha: That’s crazy that it happened to you twice! I guess everything happens for a reason.

@Mrs. Pony: Instincts are all you have to start, I guess. But, like you said, in the end “you live and learn” with how it works out.

 
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km

I met with Robertsons as well, and was very unimpressed… especially when the woman said “we dont use cheap filler, like carnations” - with a sneer. They called 2 months after our consultation wondering when we wanted to come back in. If there are any other Philly Brides reading this - be sure to meet with Carl Allen, on Market. The consultation is AMAZING!

 
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TinyTina
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TinyTina (message)  3,312 posts, Sugar bee

That’s so strange that Robertson’s never got back to you!! Guess that made the decision easy though, right??

 
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All In
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All In (message)  1,029 posts, Bumble bee

It definitely seems like the first vendor was a better choice, so maybe it was meant to be. :) Gorgeous pics!

 
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Miss Hawk (message)  598 posts, Busy bee

I didn’t have a vendor disappear, but one was pretty unresponsive. It made my floral decision pretty easy!

 
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kmnowlan (message)  160 posts, Blushing bee

@km: I LOVED my experience with Carl Alan.. They did an amazing job!

Gosh, I’m glad you found people you love and who give you guys the time of day you deserve! To have a vendor not even call you back is so unprofessional! As Stephanie Tanner would say “how rude!”

 
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Miss Turkey (message)  300 posts, Helper bee

@km: @kmnowlan: I didn’t look at Carl Alan but just googled and wow!

 

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Miss Turkey, Philadelphia Age and Occupation: 29, Brand Management Fiance's Age and Occupation: 28, Consultant Engagement Date: February 2011 Wedding Date: May 2012 Venue: The Rittenhouse Hotel About Me: I'm a marketer who loves a good glass of wine, anything pumpkin-flavored, every crime drama on TV and, of course, Mr. Turkey. It's funny to say out loud, but we're former coworkers turned betrothed---now planning a wedding in the city of Brotherly Love. For three years, we've been eating our way through Philadelphia, playing tourist at home, and cheering for every sports team in the 215. Although we've hit some unplanned snags along the way, we're determined to have a rocking party this spring with our loud, fun families and friends.

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