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Miss Elk, City: Syracuse/Long Island Age and Occupation: 25, Medical Student Fiance's Age and Occupation: 25, Computer Engineer Engagement Date: November 22, 2010 Wedding Date: May 2012 Venue: The Old Field Club About Me: I’m a Long Island girl finishing my last year of medical school in western NY, on the road to becoming a pediatrician. When I’m not studying or sleeping at the hospital, I spend my free time watching bad TV (Vampire Diaries anyone?), playing with my pooch, singing incredibly off-key (to the annoyance of Mr. Elk ), and reading Harry Potter for the zillionth time. Mr. Elk and I are planning a secular wedding infused with both Irish and cultural Jewish traditions. Only a week after I become an M.D., I will get my Mrs. degree, too!
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It Takes Two

December 26th, 2011 @ 7:00 am by Miss Elk

I can’t type those words without thinking of this song!

P.S. - that is Matthew Morrison (of Glee) who was in the original cast of Broadway’s Hairspray (which I got to see when I was 16 with that original cast!! Wow, that was almost 10 years ago. I’m old :( )

OK, back to the point of this post. It takes two people to get married, but I’ve found it takes two to plan the wedding as well. And no, my partner in planning is not Mr Elk. (Personal Photos)

It Takes Two :  wedding long island wedding dress Doggy2  Us in an ever flattering Alfred Angelo dress
It Takes Two :  wedding long island wedding dress Watters01  Admiring each other in gorgeous Watters gowns

Long before I found Weddingbee, I was lucky enough to have a friend who actually cared about little dumb details of a wedding, because she too was getting married! Bridesmaid K and I met during our first year of medical school. We studied together and became fast friends after she hit me in the head with a cadaver’s arm in anatomy lab (she claims it was accidental, but she laughed hysterically).

Anyhoo, since then we have experienced a lot of life’s big moments together. We got engaged about a month apart (and we each played a part in each others proposals in strange ways). We went dress shopping together (numerous times!) as you can see above. We are in each others weddings only two weeks apart. And we will stand together a week before my wedding to both become doctors at our graduation.

It is a little overwhelming to think about all we have to do, wedding wise, for not only our own weddings, but each others’ as well. Our bachelorette parties are just a week apart and will take place five hours away, and with our weddings two weeks apart it makes for interesting honeymoon planning. Some brides may be upset to have another wedding so close to theirs, but I can honestly say that I am SO EXCITED!

Do you have a partner in crime when it comes to wedding planning? Has Weddingbee helped when your friends or family don’t really care about all those little details brides seem to freak out about?

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4 Responses to “It Takes Two”

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Miss Fox (message)  859 posts, Busy bee

I think it’s so much fun that you have such a good friend who you can share so many wonderful experiences with. My brideslady M and I are in a similar boat - met in college, getting married within 3 weeks of each other, in each others weddings - she’s totally my wedding twin and it’s great to have someone to talk about all the little stuff with. She’s actually the one who introduced me to Weddingbee!

 
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sugarbox (message)  128 posts, Blushing bee

Wow,so beautiful.

 
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TinyTina (message)  3,312 posts, Sugar bee

Aww, that’s wonderful! I am the first of my friends to get married, so wedding planning has been a bit lonely. But that’s okay.. that’s what the Bee is for!

 
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Future Army Wife (message)  1,102 posts, Bumble bee

That’s so much fun. And who doesn’t love inappropriatness in gross anatomy? I wish I had a wedding buddy. I feel like I overload everyone with wedding details they don’t care about :(

 

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Miss Elk, City: Syracuse/Long Island Age and Occupation: 25, Medical Student Fiance's Age and Occupation: 25, Computer Engineer Engagement Date: November 22, 2010 Wedding Date: May 2012 Venue: The Old Field Club About Me: I’m a Long Island girl finishing my last year of medical school in western NY, on the road to becoming a pediatrician. When I’m not studying or sleeping at the hospital, I spend my free time watching bad TV (Vampire Diaries anyone?), playing with my pooch, singing incredibly off-key (to the annoyance of Mr. Elk ), and reading Harry Potter for the zillionth time. Mr. Elk and I are planning a secular wedding infused with both Irish and cultural Jewish traditions. Only a week after I become an M.D., I will get my Mrs. degree, too!

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