An Unexpected Surprise for the Minks

When I originally told her that I was totally against bringing lighting into our venue, a friend asked me what I had against lighting. Thinking about it, I felt a little silly. After all, we follow a band whose lighting guy is deemed the fifth member of the band. People actually shoot video of him working at shows. Having stood under his lights quite a few times in my life, unable to blink for fear of missing a second of the show, I think it’s safe to say that I’m a fan of lights.

Unfortunately, when I think of lights at weddings, my Jersey roots come out and I picture ballrooms with bold hues reaching every single corner. The rooms are literally washed in purple or pink or blue. The feel is almost theatrical.

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From DJ Zone Magazine

That’s fine for a hotel or banquet hall, but it seems totally out of step with a vineyard wedding.

In my mind, the vineyard wedding should play up the environment. I don’t think of strong, harsh lighting when I envision our wedding. Somehow, vineyards don’t feel like venues that call for structured beams of light racing from the floor to the top of the wall.

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Photo by The Wedding Central

I would probably coo over the lighting schemes above if I saw them at a concert, but I can’t fathom them at our wedding. I’d like to embrace our space and its surroundings, not throw up sheets of lights to cover what is there.

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This reminded me of concerts we love where people throw glow sticks into the air during instrumental parts of songs / From Off the Chart Entertainment & Event Production

A good friend who worked for a local event company for years convinced me that lighting could be done tastefully. He said he could create a lighting design that would complement the room instead of take it over. Though he moved away a few years ago to work in a larger market, he’s coming back to Charlottesville to light our wedding.

I never even put lighting on our “to do” list because I was convinced we wouldn’t have it. This is a total surprise!

Did you have anyone surprise you with a service when you were wedding planning?

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Mrs. Mink

Location:
Charlottesville, Virginia
Wedding Date:
June 2012

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    MrsKeAloha 1044 posts, Bumble bee @ 9:45 am

    Oh I can’t wait to see what its like. I would love a surprise like that.
    My only surprises have been the total at the end of the contracts :-)

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    Mrs. Mink 3151 posts, Sugar bee @ 9:50 am

    @Miss Ke Aloha: EEk! I’m dreading one of those surprises!

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    ddavila2001 611 posts, Busy bee @ 12:09 pm

    That is the Westmount Country Club isn’t it? I completely agree with you in regards to lighting. I have no desire for purple or blue or green lighting, to me it reminds me of the ground effects people put on their iRoc’s in the 80′s- (I’m also from the tri-state area). I also have no desire for wacky effect lighting, that includes gobo lights or monogram lighting. I happen to work in the events planning industry and I can understand the need for pinspot lighting or uplighting – IF NECESSARY and never in color. The wedding industry is a straight up racket, people are the business to create things to make you think you “need” them and then charge you three times the amount. Most of the estimates I put out there when I mention the word “wedding” come up 3x higher than they would if I were booking for a corporate or launch event.

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    Mrs. Mink 3151 posts, Sugar bee @ 12:17 pm

    @ddavila2001: That IS Westmount! You have me wondering if we grew up in the same period! iRocs! Ha!

    Thank you so much for your comment. I was hoping I wasn’t alone in wanting some simple lighting that wasn’t over the top.

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    ddavila2001 611 posts, Busy bee @ 12:29 pm

    You know and the Westmount is a lovely venue! It’s so funny because I met with a potential photographer who was showing me her portfolio and I saw THAT telltale lighting “concept”- it was literally ONLY the ceiling, the bride & groom were being lifted on chairs and I was like “is that the Westmount Country Club?” and she was like “HOW did you know?” well… Listen, I think it will be worth a meeting, right? You need to take your venue into consideration and what the lighting might be already. Tri-state hard *fist pumps*!

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    Mrs. Coyote 1478 posts, Bumble bee @ 12:52 pm

    That’s so great!! We are going back and forth with the lighting. Our venue actually offers it at the no extra charge, but living in Westchester has made me fear that Jersey ballroom look!

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    kamiie 116 posts, Blushing bee @ 3:34 pm

    Yay for lighting!!! I decided on lighting at the last minute (2 weeks before) for my Country Club wedding and I’m so glad I did…it does SO MUCH for pictures! You won’t regret it. The only time I don’t recommend it is for outdoor weddings…

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    Mrs. Pony 9265 posts, Buzzing Beekeeper @ 4:35 pm

    What a great surprise! I really liked having lighting at our wedding, even though it was a hassle getting it.

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