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Mrs. Marmalade, Norwalk, CT/Raleigh, NC Age and Occupation: 27, Administrative Assistant Fiance's Age and Occupation: 28, Army Officer Engagement Date: December 31, 2009 Wedding Date: July 2011 Venue: Old Cadet Chapel/Highlands Country Club About Me: I'm a Tri-State area "lady," through and through. A big chunk of my life has been split between NYC and Connecticut, and I'm finally heading down south to live with Mr. Marmalade. Our long distance relationship has been one adventure after the next, we've spent time in Texas, Louisiana, Florida,and Georgia, thanks to his military career. Next to Mr. Marmalade, my loves include live music, useless trivia, shoes, design, and my crazy half-tiger kitty, Oliver. I have a passion for food and wine, and I've been known to travel long distances to get my hands on the best meals. I come from a tight-knit big fat Greek Ecuadorian family---we're loud, we talk with our hands, and we spend hours talking loudly with our hands over large meals. I'm going to miss them so much as I pack up and begin my life, far away from home. But with Mr. Marmalade by my side, I'm ready to take on whatever may come. Next up: our wedding!
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We’re Saving the Date!

February 29th, 2012 @ 2:39 pm by Mrs. Marmalade

Time was not my friend in the planning process. One day, I glanced over at the calendar and realized that if we were going to send out save the dates, we had to get crackin’!

So I turned to the internet for some inspiration and I came across this:

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Save-the-date postcards!

Early on in our engagement, I promised Mr. M that we were just going to send out save-the-date postcards, to keep things simple. Oddly, I also felt like it was my stroke of genius…”why design save the date cards? Why not just send out some postcards and slap a date on the back? Easy-peasy!” Don’t you just love when you feel like you’ve concocted some brilliant and original idea just to discover that it’s been done many times over?

A few clicks later, I found another inspiration picture that made me stop in my tracks.

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As much as I really loved the idea of using paper airplanes, it didn’t really make sense for our wedding. But I couldn’t let the idea go. After some thought, I had a moment of “oh wait, I could fold that paper into something else!”

But if paper airplanes weren’t a good fit, then what was?

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Yes, hearts!

This is my favorite pic from (and a sneak peek of) our engagement session, shot by the awesome Lucy Clement. I couldn’t resist taking a stab at this cute gesture from one of my favorite music videos of all time. Hearts were definitely the way to go!

Postcards were a must—especially since I told Mr. M that we would be able to use our e-pics in the “save-the-date postcards” I dreamed up, to justify the engagement shoot. Me and my big mouth! Why was I so specific?

Using the criteria (postcard, engagement pic, and paper hearts), this is what I came up with:

Postcard? E-pic? Origami hearts? Check, check AND check!

When I started designing our save-the-dates, I really had no idea what our wedding was going to look like. So I figured I would just have fun with it and incorporate elements that I loved, instead of worrying about a cohesive theme.

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And the things I “loved” were kraft paper envelopes, wraparound labels, and the now ubiquitous “Love: King and Queen of Hearts” stamps.

Here’s a better look at the postcard, front and back.

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Lil $is was my design co-conspirator. She saw what I came up with, had mercy on me, and fixed up the text. She rocks. Oh yes she does.

Glassine envelopes were the perfect way show off the heart, and to make sure everyone knew they should open them up.

The hearts served a purpose; they contained the address to our wedding website! Gasp.

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Because we were working around a schedule that could change at the drop of a dime, it was really important to me that people got our URL. The origami heart was a playful way to point our guests to our website, so everyone could stay in the loop. Plus, don’t the open hearts look a little like a passed note from high school?

And…that’s about it! I was very excited to get these babies out the door.

Are you sending out save the dates? Did you go the DIY route?

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16 Responses to “We’re Saving the Date!”

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Miss Unicycle (message)  397 posts, Helper bee

these are so friggin adorable! I kind of wish we could redo ours now. I’d steal that paper heart idea in an instant. Did you mail them as postcards, or did you have to put them in envelopes since they were bulkier than normal postcards?

 
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Mrs. Honey (message)  1,402 posts, Bumble bee

Oh my goodknight…I’m in love with these! Your pictures is amazing, the heart & glassine envelope is genius! Can I re-send my save the dates?!

 
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Miss Fox (message)  1,196 posts, Bumble bee

Oh my gosh I LOVE these!! That little oragami heart is genius! I’m also way too in love with your engagement pic.. I hope you share more of them soon!

 
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Miss Dragon (message)  1,458 posts, Bumble bee

Such a neat way to use the hearts! Those glassine envelopes are perfect.

 
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Miss Aardvark (message)  807 posts, Busy bee

Ahhh-mazing. The hearts make me smile. A lot!

 
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HaveGroomWillTravel (message)  70 posts, Worker bee

These are fantastic. Loved that you managed to take elements from various things that are meaningful to you and make something so pretty! kudos!

 
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Miss Ke Aloha (message)  797 posts, Busy bee

Oh these are so cute! I love the pocket and heart. Adorable.
We used Postcards from the city we are getting married. We made a 3.5×3.5 sticker with photo and info to put on the other side. We have a little story behind postcards that started with his first deployment. Where ever I was I picked up a postcard to send to him. During his moves and travels he would do the same. When we travel together we send them to our nieces and nephews. When my man came up with the postcard thing, I thought it was amazing, and so Us!

 
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Mrs. Ostrich (message)  2,259 posts, Buzzing bee

Ahhhh, the paint, the hearts, the paper hearts - i love it all, Mrs. M!

 
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Mrs. Trail Mix (message)  6,485 posts, Bee Keeper

These are so freakin’ cute!

 
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Dandelion D (message)  1,245 posts, Bumble bee

Omg! These are awesome!

 
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Mrs. Pony (message)  5,386 posts, Bee Keeper

These are so adorable, I love every single thing about them!

 
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BreeninBoston (message)  160 posts, Blushing bee

Adorable! I love all the little details!

 
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Mrs. Bunting (message)  571 posts, Busy bee

These are wooooooonderful! I love the paper origami heart, so ingenious and adorable! Great job!

 
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Miss Ariel (message)  372 posts, Helper bee

These are so adorable, and along the lines of what I had originally wanted to do for our stds.

 
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SoontoBeBride

Love Love LOVE them. I wish we had been this creative.

 
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Future Army Wife (message)  1,924 posts, Buzzing bee

These are super cute. I also justified our e photos for the STDs. And my bro-in-law went to West Point!

 

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Mrs. Marmalade, Norwalk, CT/Raleigh, NC Age and Occupation: 27, Administrative Assistant Fiance's Age and Occupation: 28, Army Officer Engagement Date: December 31, 2009 Wedding Date: July 2011 Venue: Old Cadet Chapel/Highlands Country Club About Me: I'm a Tri-State area "lady," through and through. A big chunk of my life has been split between NYC and Connecticut, and I'm finally heading down south to live with Mr. Marmalade. Our long distance relationship has been one adventure after the next, we've spent time in Texas, Louisiana, Florida,and Georgia, thanks to his military career. Next to Mr. Marmalade, my loves include live music, useless trivia, shoes, design, and my crazy half-tiger kitty, Oliver. I have a passion for food and wine, and I've been known to travel long distances to get my hands on the best meals. I come from a tight-knit big fat Greek Ecuadorian family---we're loud, we talk with our hands, and we spend hours talking loudly with our hands over large meals. I'm going to miss them so much as I pack up and begin my life, far away from home. But with Mr. Marmalade by my side, I'm ready to take on whatever may come. Next up: our wedding!

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