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Mrs. Lyre, Philadelphia Age and Occupation: 31, Librarian Fiance's Age and Occupation: 29, Government Employee Engagement Date: November 11, 2011 Wedding Date: January 2013 Venue: Atrium at the Curtis Center About Me: I’m a book loving, photography obsessed, artsy/crafty bride to be, who was dating all the wrong men, until I met the right one, and where one story ended - our new life together began. He’s a video game loving, quirky t-shirt wearing, movie quoting geek who stole my heart, and welcomed me into his. Together we are a happily co-habitating couple, who live in South Jersey, and are planning a wedding in Philadelphia in January 2013. We love to cook, share a bottle of wine, and watch way too much TV; we laugh all the time, don’t sleep nearly enough, and cannot wait to begin our lives as husband and wife!
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Why Winter

June 16th, 2012 @ 2:08 pm by Mrs. Lyre

When people hear that we are planning our wedding for January, in a mid-Atlantic climate, the most common question people follow with is WHY?? As if getting married in the winter is completely unheard of. My go-to response is “Why not?” And people say, “Aren’t you worried it’s going to snow??” No more than I’m worried about rain, or hail, or tornadoes, or the apocalypse, or monkeys falling from the sky on my wedding day. I try to avoid worrying about the weather, because if there is one element that is completely beyond my control, it’s this.

I’ve always wanted a winter wedding. As a teacher, I know it makes the most sense to get married in the summer. Time off to finalize plans right before the wedding, a long extended vacation right after—it makes perfect sense to me. I get why the summer is so popular, but I have zero interest in getting married during these months. While I love vacation, the weather from June through August is a different story. Excessive heat and humidity, sweating, mosquitoes (I am a mosquito MAGNET)—no thank you. I also have super-sensitive skin, and after no less than 10 minutes in the sun, I get a terrible sun rash that itches me all day. With all this, my wedding fragrance would have to be a combination of SPF 100 and bug spray. Not my idea of a romantic scent. I will risk the chance that it might snow on my wedding day to avoid everything I don’t like about summer weather.

But, as a librarian (and forever seeker of knowledge!), curiosity got the better of me, and I wanted to research what the history of our wedding date was like in Philadelphia.

So, being January and all, I’m most concerned with snowfall:

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Philadelphia Snowfall Totals for the past 30 years / Image via The National Weather Service

So as you can see, Philadelphia snowfall peaks maybe once every seven years, the two winters prior to this past one were very heavy, and this year we had virtually no snow. So if you look at the pattern in the graph, this winter should have a low to average amount of snowfall based on these stats.

Furthering my research, I wanted to see what the weather history was on the actual date of our wedding, so I found this weather site, wunderground.com, and they have a travel planner, which gives you the weather history of a travel destination for the past 15 years:

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Weather history on our wedding date via the travel planner on wunderground.com

So statistically, based on the past 16 years, we have a 31% chance that it might snow. Now, snow I’m OK with, so long as it’s not a blizzard and doesn’t look like this:

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View from my back porch, Snowmageddon 2010 / Personal photo

I know I can’t predict the weather, and as good as statistics are, they don’t forecast what the weather will actually be the day of our wedding. And regardless of what does happen weather-wise—sunshine, rain, or snow—we will be husband and wife, and I am 100% certain of that.

If I’m already stalking the stats of the weather for my wedding day seven months out, can you imagine how bad I will be with a 10-day forecast? Anyone else choose an off-season wedding because they dislike summer weather?

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BookishBelle
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BookishBelle (message)  1,362 posts, Bumble bee

That’s EXACTLY why I’m doing a January wedding too!!! I MELT in the slightest bit of heat and did not want to be a sticky bride :) I hope it snows a TINY bit, enough for beautiful pictures but not to ruin anybody’s travel plans!

 
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Miss Treasure (message)  1,396 posts, Bumble bee

I love a good winter wedding! Everything in white with sparkles and Christmas lights! But in Chicago, the risk of a blizzard + the vast majority of our guests being from out-of-town wasn’t the best combination for us.

 
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Miss Toadstool (message)  2,466 posts, Buzzing bee

Monkeys falling from the sky? that’s another one for my worries list. lol
We decided on a winter wedding case we want to get married on our anniversary.

Summer here’s awful, like 115°F right now, awful, so winter weddings are normal around here, -10% chance of snow, darn desert.

 
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Digital_Geisha (message)  65 posts, Worker bee

Yep, December 15th for me! I’m wearing a heavy satin dress which would have murdered me in the summer! There’s something so romantic about a winter wedding.

 
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Mrs. Dalmatian (message)  592 posts, Busy bee

I think winter weddings are beautiful! I am a warm weather girl myself, but I can totally see the appeal of a winter wedding – so romantic!

 
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redrosewolf (message)  19 posts, Newbee

We decided to get married 12/12/12. This was partially because I liked the date, it fell between army training for my Fiance, I was supposed to have been done with school, I sunburn easily and I always wanted a furlined cape! Thank you for the weather information and how to get it! I was sort of worrying as we are getting married at The Stanley Hotel in Estes Park CO! Mountain wedding+ middle of week + snow= pretty but possibly a bad idea. No sun burn for me in wedding photos though!!

 
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lindsey.sturges (message)  54 posts, Worker bee

I always wanted a winter wedding but it didn’t work out with when we got engaged. So I’m doing early spring – end of March – still cool enough I hope!

 
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Mrs. Pony (message)  8,525 posts, Bumble Beekeeper

Love your reasons, it definitely makes sense to me, plus winter weddings are so gorgeous!

 
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futuremrslalli (message)  7 posts, Newbee

Have you heard the song ‘January Wedding’ by Avett Brothers? Please tell me its on your song list……

 
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priyathescientist (message)  1,513 posts, Bumble bee

While I will probably end up with an autumn wedding, I think winter weddings are ABSOLUTELY gorgeous. Your reasons are absolutely sensible, and I’m glad it works for you and Mr. Ly!

 
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Miss Fairy (message)  976 posts, Busy bee

I love the idea of a winter wedding! My parents got married in November and had a candlelight ceremony. I also think you can get some amazing pictures in the snow :)

 
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MsMarbee (message)  222 posts, Helper bee

To get our venue on a Sat evening with a less than 250 guest list, we had to book it for an off month. I pushed it as close to spring as possible, Feb 23rd. Since it’s northern IN, I am hoping for a light dusting, but NO lake affect. Most people haven’t reacted that badly, MIL had some of the common responses of “Why?”, “Brrr”, etc. It’s all in the same building, people only go outside when they leave their cars to come in. Suck it up is what I say ;)

 
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Miss Dragon (message)  2,867 posts, Sugar bee

I’m hoping that our fall wedding makes for a less sticky/sweaty/messy day!

 
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StacyM (message)  55 posts, Worker bee

We’re getting married in South Jersey right after Christmas. 12-30-2012 and I’m secretly hoping for enough snow for pictures plus th fact that I can utilize the holiday decorations that are already going to be up.

 
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Miss Coyote (message)  3,345 posts, Sugar bee

I think winter weddings are beautiful Lyre!! And I love all the weather research you did. :)

 
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gonnabeMrsHH
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gonnabeMrsHH (message)  466 posts, Helper bee

Im a real sunlover…cant stand the cold AT.ALL. But Ive seen some really nice winter weddings here on the hive and Im sure yours will also have that nice, romantic feel :)

 
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MsVoyageur
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MsVoyageur (message)  1,384 posts, Bumble bee

Yup I’m with you. We live in HOUSTON and this area is absolutely infested with mosquitoes (there is a bayou that runs through the whole city), and it is over 100 all summer and extremely humid. So we’re getting married in November :)

 
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ErinGrossToSall

Winter brides of the world unite! We’re getting married in January in Buffalo, New York and we couldn’t be happier about it. Everyone, family and friends included, look at us like we’ve gone completely crazy, but I’m a pale-skinned redhead who spends most of the summer rotating between shades of white and red, and I just don’t want to worry about it. Plus, we love our city, snowfall and all. I’m actually hoping for some snow for our photographs. We also invested in wedding insurance to cover us in the event of a huge blizzard that shuts down the whole city. At the end of the day, I don’t mind the weird looks. We’re getting married exactly when we want to.

 
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Mrs. Porcupine (message)  633 posts, Busy bee

My summer-hatred was a big reason we chose March. I REALLY wanted a winter wonderland wedding, but everyone BUGGED out that it would snow and ruin everything. Then it turned out to be the warmest winter ever. Figures! It was warmer in February than on my actual wedding day. You never know.

 
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Mrs. Honey (message)  1,660 posts, Bumble bee

Yesss to winter weddings, I’m biased, I know…but I think they are so romantic and beautiful!! Can’t wait to see yours come to life!

 
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Mrs. Lyre, Philadelphia Age and Occupation: 31, Librarian Fiance's Age and Occupation: 29, Government Employee Engagement Date: November 11, 2011 Wedding Date: January 2013 Venue: Atrium at the Curtis Center About Me: I’m a book loving, photography obsessed, artsy/crafty bride to be, who was dating all the wrong men, until I met the right one, and where one story ended - our new life together began. He’s a video game loving, quirky t-shirt wearing, movie quoting geek who stole my heart, and welcomed me into his. Together we are a happily co-habitating couple, who live in South Jersey, and are planning a wedding in Philadelphia in January 2013. We love to cook, share a bottle of wine, and watch way too much TV; we laugh all the time, don’t sleep nearly enough, and cannot wait to begin our lives as husband and wife!

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