I Picked a Dress!

I’ve been drawing out my dress posts because”¦well, it’s my favorite part of wedding planning. I could probably have an entire blog dedicated entirely to wedding dresses. And as much as I’ve talked about how I could try on wedding dresses for eternity, even I will admit that eventually you’ve got to pull the trigger.

I made five dress-shopping trips over the course of three months. This was not because I was indecisive. Mostly, it was because I really wanted both my mom and my aunt to be a part of the process, and she couldn’t be there until the very last trip. And I’m so grateful that the very last shop we visited was where I found the perfect dress. But before we get there, I’d like to recap the dresses that were almost “the one.”

First, there was a gorgeous Vera Wang dress from David’s Bridal. It wasn’t until I put on this dress that I truly felt like a bride.

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There were also two dress that I knew I would never buy, because they’re not my style AT ALL (the skirts aren’t big enough!!!). But they were so gorgeous that I had to post them. (Pardon any weird poses. I’m not going to be America’s Next Top Model anytime soon.)

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I have to post this gorgeous Lazaro, because I was absolutely in love with it. But I was not in love with the $6,000 price tag.

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The runner-up dress comes from a shopping trip that I haven’t mentioned at all. I found a great shop in Columbia, Maryland called The Bridal Boutique. The shop is a little run down, but they had more Maggie Sottero and Sottero & Midgely dresses than I saw anywhere else. I actually went there three times to try on dresses. If your budget is somewhere around $1,000–$2,000 and you’re in the area, I definitely recommend it. I love love loved this dress. It’s by far the BIGGEST dress I tried on. And in all honesty, if my mom and aunt had been with me on the shopping trip where I found it, this would probably be my dress. But I couldn’t find it anywhere in Atlanta, so they never got to see it in person. And I ended up falling in love with a different dress. So here’s the runner-up (it’s Sottero & Midgely Chrystelle).

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It’s got a massive train!

My MOH pointed out that it might not be completely appropriate for an outdoor mountain wedding (not that I cared—who wears any kind of ball gown outside?). But, in the end it didn’t matter, because I found another gorgeous dress.

While in Atlanta (you can read more about our trip here), we (my mom, my aunt, and I) visited three stores. The third and final store was LaRaine’s Bridal Boutique. I didn’t really have any expectations about what it would be like (I just picked random stores in Atlanta based on yelp.com reviews), but when we walked in the store, I saw sooooooo many beautiful gowns. Actually, they were so beautiful that I was afraid that none of them would be in my budget. Fortunately, most of their gowns are less than $2,000, so I had a TON to choose from.

We ended up spending over THREE HOURS in the store. And I had no idea! I was happy as a clam, just trying on dress after dress. Our consultant, Leslie, never rushed us. She was so happy and friendly the entire time. But as much as I was having an awesome time, I was becoming pretty much convinced that I would be buying the Sottero & Midgely dress. I tried on soooo many beautiful dresses, but none of them could top the other dress. I was sad that my aunt hadn’t seen it, but I really hadn’t seen anything that I thought was better.

But, this post couldn’t be about me picking a dress unless I actually picked a dress. So one of the last dresses I tried on was a Lis Simon dress that’s actually fairly similar to the Vera Wang I had already tried. (The style is called Danica.)

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In case you haven’t noticed, I really like dropped waists, and I love skirts with lots of folds and textures. I was really hoping that the Danica might be the one (minus the sash). But when I put it on, it just wasn’t. I liked the skirt, but it didn’t wow me.

But our consultant suggested I try a different Lis Simon dress. When she brought it out, I was reluctant at first, because it had a natural waist. Up to this point, every single natural waist dress had just been kind of blah on me. But my mom was really excited. From day one of trying on dresses, she’d said, “You need a natural waist! It will show off your figure!” But I actually felt like most dresses with a natural waist didn’t emphasize my waist. I think the dropped waist dresses are better for showing off one’s figure. But to appease her, I agreed to put on this dress.

And”¦(you can guess the rest of this story!)

It really wowed me!! I started dancing on the podium. And both my mom and aunt LOVED it. They couldn’t get enough of it. I was pretty sure this was the dress. But being the practical person I am, I told our consultant that I wanted to think about it for a day or two before I committed. She was more than happy to make us an appointment for two days later. And so, two days later, I came back in”¦and it was still as wonderful as I remembered!

So where’s the picture of this fabulous dress?? Well”¦I kind of want to save it as a surprise. Also, I’m terrified that Mr. Whale will somehow come across a picture of me in the dress. (He’s also terrified of this. He shields his eyes whenever I’m on the blog because he doesn’t want to accidentally see a picture of my dress.) But, I also hate when people don’t show off their dress.  So I’ll meet you halfway. You can see the model picture of my fantastic dress. It’s Lis Simon Constance from her Spring 2011 Collection.

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Isn’t the skirt to die for??? I’ve been told that the dress is made from FORTY YARDS of fabric! Holy cow!! But it’s 40 yards of pure delightfulness!

Now, I did order it with a few customizations. I asked that the applique not be attached, in case I want to use a different belt. I also changed the neckline. It’s going to be a sweetheart neckline, and the fabric will be wrapped in the same way that the Danica dress (from above) is. I’m so excited!!

What do you all think?

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Mrs. Blue Whale

Location:
College Park, MD
Wedding Date:
May 2013

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    beanstalk 770 posts, Busy bee @ 6:12 am

    Beautiful! I can’t wait for you to get married so we can see you in it!!! I’m a huge fan of natural waist dresses… they’re just so elegant and princess-like to me!

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    mswallaby 2061 posts, Buzzing bee @ 6:16 am

    Girl you look beautiful in every single one of those dresses! I love the beaded strapless sheath dress, that one’s my fave :)

    The dress you picked is lovely and so unique! I can imagine the 40 yards of fabric make it pretty heavy, right? I can’t wait to see you in it!!

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    GFerg 3202 posts, Sugar bee @ 6:19 am

    I’m not into most of the styles of wedding dresses these days, but I love this one! It looks like a wedding cake!

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    missmovies 351 posts, Helper bee @ 6:23 am

    A ton of super gorge dresses!!! I don’t know how you picked one!

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    Miss Care Bear 193 posts, Blushing bee @ 6:43 am

    Can’t wait to see you in it :)

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    cosmo_gmr 946 posts, Busy bee @ 6:51 am

    That dress is amazing!!! I love it!

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    graywolf 725 posts, Busy bee @ 6:57 am

    i love your dress! i tried on that vera at davids too but man did it not look that good on me. that lazaro is to die for too. i love your choices and cant wait to see the dress on you!

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    bracelet 1419 posts, Bumble bee @ 7:15 am

    40 yards? Holy cow, that’s a lot of fabric!

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    anjanette.thomas1 166 posts, Blushing bee @ 7:33 am

    Just gorgeous!

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    mspony 9265 posts, Buzzing Beekeeper @ 7:59 am

    Beautiful, I can’t wait to see you in the dress!

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    mrshollinger 1013 posts, Bumble bee @ 8:33 am

    Pretty!

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    jennyinstereo 308 posts, Helper bee @ 8:49 am

    Wow it’s gorgeous! It is actually really scarily similar to my dream dress (Maggie Sottero Juliette) but I think the skirt on yours is way nicer! Wow. Totally shocked that I might love this dress more….

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    babbot 586 posts, Busy bee @ 8:51 am

    love it! it’s amazing, can’t wait to see it on :) the other dresses were pretty too, I really love the tighter bodice style w/the fun and flowy skirts with flowers, etc. I love seeing pics of these and seeing all the different style, so thanks for posting! So FUN!

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    mstoadstool 2485 posts, Buzzing bee @ 9:04 am

    The skirt is fantastic, I’m just wondering how heavy it is.

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    Almost Mrs.P 2056 posts, Buzzing bee @ 9:09 am

    Gorgeous dress!! THat skirt is to die for.

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    painauchocolat 2298 posts, Buzzing bee @ 10:03 am

    What a dramatic dress… and so many lovely runners up. Love the folds and texture on your skirt. As a fellow texture dress bride, I feel like it’s my duty to say how heavy the skirt will be at the end of the night! My legs ached that night into the next morning.

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    bridesmomma 440 posts, Helper bee @ 10:25 am

    LOVE it! :-)

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    stephk527 987 posts, Busy bee @ 10:49 am

    Super dramatic, like @Mrs. Pain au Chocolat said, but in a beautiful and stunning way. It’s going to look phenomenal in pictures!

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    bluewhale 638 posts, Busy bee @ 11:06 am

    @Mrs. Wallaby: Yeah… it weighs ten pounds…

    BUT, in @Mrs. Pain au Chocolat‘s dress post, she said she didn’t even realize how heavy it was until she took it off. It’s a lot of pressure, Mrs. Pain au Chocolat, but I have to tell you that your dress post convinced me that I would be okay with a ten pound dress. I reeeeeeally hope you’re right :)

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    mz2handgrip 119 posts, Blushing bee @ 11:10 am

    So gorgeous!!! Your going to be a stunning bride!!!

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    bluewhale 638 posts, Busy bee @ 11:21 am

    @jennyinstereo: Wow the Juliette is beautiful. Have you tried it on? I found Maggie Sottero dresses to be made of a fabric that was a lot heavier than I thought it would be, so I thought they might be too hot for my wedding. But that dress is gorgeous!

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    jennyinstereo 308 posts, Helper bee @ 3:10 pm

    @Miss Blue Whale: Oh yes I did try it on! It’s absolutely gorgeous! The Juliette was actually really light which is very nice because all her other dresses I tried on were incredibly heavy. I have pics of myself in the dress here: http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/tried-on-my-dream-dress-juliette-by-maggie-sottero

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    dalmatian 592 posts, Busy bee @ 4:00 pm

    I totally had this bookmarked when I was online dress shopping! Never saw it in person but I can only imagine how beautiful it is! Great choice :)

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    camel 703 posts, Busy bee @ 4:04 pm

    All of these dresses are amazing and YOU look amazing in all of them too! I can’t wait to see you in your dress!!

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    jennyinstereo 308 posts, Helper bee @ 3:40 am

    @Miss Blue Whale: I did try it on! (I posted another comment with a link but it’s being moderated so I figured I’d post again without a link). You can see it in my thread I started called, “Tried on my dream dress: Juliette by Maggie Sottero!”

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    OlsoBri, Guest @ 11:24 am

    Hello @MissBlueWhale! I had a few questions about the dress (and pricing) as I’m looking to buy the same one. If you’re willing to share on the comments, let me know. Otherwise you can send me a private message.

    Thanks in advance! :)

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    bluewhale 638 posts, Busy bee @ 12:49 pm

    @OlsoBri: I’d be happy to talk about it. I’d send you a message, but I can’t figure out how to send it since you posted as a guest :) You can message me though!

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    Ari, Guest @ 8:05 pm

    This was my wedding dress. It truly is a beautiful wedding dress. The beading on the waste and the gorgeous akirt and train! to die for. I made some alterations to the corset to make it just a tad bit more sweet heart.
    I am selling it now. Let me know if interested. Size 2 and fitted to perfection. I am 115 lbs.

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    olsobri 57 posts, Worker bee @ 2:02 pm

    @Ari:

    Can you send me pictures? And how much are you asking?

    Thanks!

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    Ari, Guest @ 4:35 am

    @olsobri: @olsobri:

    Hi, yes of course. I actually posted the dress on craigslist not long ago. You can see pictures there. Contact me regarding pricing to the craigslist post if you’d like. Thank you for contacting me!
    The link is: http://miami.craigslist.org/brw/clo/3872300109.html

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