Getting Married at 30

I will be 30 years old when I get married. I realize that I’m considered an “older” bride, statistically speaking. According to US census data, most American women get married at around 25 or 26 years old. I’m also one of the “older” blogger bees, although there have been a few 30-somethings here in the past (Mrs. Cauldron, Mrs. Mink, Mrs. Snapdragon, to name a few).

Recently, you may have read awesome entries from both Miss Bat and Miss Otter on getting married young. But this one is for the “older” brides and the “older” single or not-yet-engaged ladies. Yes, I see you not-yet-engaged ladies who are lurking around Weddingbee! No shame! I was in your shoes one year ago.

I am one of the last of my friends to get married. When I scroll through the class of ’01 on Facebook I see a lot of married people and I see a lot of babies. Some of my classmates and friends are now on their second or third child! And here I am, puttering around with just an engagement ring. No mortgage or car payment to speak of, chillin’ on some furniture from Target and Ikea. Do I feel behind the times? No, I don’t. The idea of having children still terrifies me. I have no idea where I want to buy a home and invest in a future. Luckily, Mr. Camel feels the same way. Mr. C, who will be 36 on our wedding day, has obviously seen his friends and relatives married off and having children for years now. He often tells me that after 30 he resigned himself to a life alone. He didn’t think he would ever get married and certainly not to someone he could be 100% himself around. And then along came me. Now here we are, ready to take that first big step: marriage. Marriage at 30.

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Even if I was given the opportunity, there is nothing I would change about my past. I feel that everything, both the good and the bad, has happened for a reason and happened at the right time for me. As much as I would have loved to know a younger Mr. C, to have have shared in those crazy, lazy days of high school and college together, I know that we met and fell in love at exactly the right time in our lives.

I consider myself to be fiercely independent. I experienced my 20s at full throttle. I biked across France alone when I was 20 years old. I traveled across Europe, explored the life of T.E. Lawrence in England, and spent two years teaching English in a tiny Japanese town of 4,000 people. Could I have done all of these things with the love of my life by my side? Absolutely! But for me, my 20s was about reaching out to life’s experiences on my own. Meeting people, going places, and finding myself along the way. There were failed relationships. There were a few regrets here and there. But for me it was never about partying or casual dating.

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Relationships are about compromise. As a 20-something I was able to live my life and make decisions based on what was best for me and me alone. I realize that sounds incredibly selfish, and it is. But it was also liberating and empowering. It enabled me to move to Japan, attend graduate school, teach English in Italy for a few weeks in a study abroad program, and find a job in a town where I wanted to live and work. Yes, you can do all of those things and more while married, but those plans and decisions can become much more problematic when two people are involved. I never had to plan my life or my decisions around the man in my life. I spent over two years living on my own, doing my own thing, growing comfortable with the silence of my own thoughts. In fact, that was the hardest thing to give up when Mr. C and I decided to move in together. We live in a small two-bedroom apartment, and every now and again I find myself pining for my tiny Japanese flat (even without central heating and air!) or the place I lived when I first started dating Mr. C. I miss the quiet. I miss that feeling of being utterly alone in your own space.

As a disclaimer, I haven’t always felt so comfortable about getting married later in life. I kept a blog in my early 20s and there are many entries where I sigh and wring my hands about being unable to share so many of life’s moments with the person I love. Ten years ago, at the age of 20, I wrote a an entry entitled “To the Person I Haven’t Met Yet.” Here’s how it ended: Youth fades so quickly, and I feel that time is running out. Every day without you seems a waste of energy and beauty. I don’t have all day, and there’s so much I have to tell you, and so much I want to show you. I have looked and looked, and I still can’t find you. So you win. You can come out now.

Oh dear, sweet 20-year-old Miss Camel. You are so intense with all of your emotions swimming just under your papery skin. You will lead a life that the wide-eyed teenager you once were would be intensely proud of. And you do find that guy, and guess what? He wasn’t in Rome or Tokyo or Manchester. He was next door. He was next door just waiting for you to finish your journey. He was there waiting to capture your wildly expanding heart. And when you meet him you will have so much to show him. Even now you aren’t done sharing stories and there’s no end to the places you want to take him. You will have a lot to talk about because your stories only got better. At 20, Miss Camel, you were barely out the door.

At 30, I am ready to take the next step with the man I love by my side. I’m ready to start a new journey, but it’s not just me and my old shoes anymore. There will be lots of compromising and it won’t always be easy. There will be times when I miss doing things on my own, but at the end of the day, having Mr. C in my life is absolutely worth it. Now we’re an unstoppable team.

If you are in your late 20s or 30s and you still haven’t met that special someone, don’t get yourself down. Or maybe, like me, you are with someone who makes you feel doubtful or uncertain about your future together. You are waiting for the next step, but not sure that it’s the right thing to do. Let it go. Enjoy your independence. Enjoy being utterly, completely yourself on your own. You have a whole life to meet someone and a whole marriage of compromising waiting for you. I realize that at this age many women feel their biological clocks ticking away, but watching the clock won’t stop time. Get out there and live your life, do the things you enjoy doing, and know that somewhere along the way you will meet the right person. And when you do, think of all the amazing stories you will have to share.

We shall never cease from exploration

And the end of all our exploring

Will be to arrive where we started

And know the place for the first time

Excerpt from “The Wasteland” by T.S. Eliot

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Mrs. Camel

Location:
Athens, GA
Wedding Date:
May 2013
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    Olivetobe 66 posts, Worker bee @ 9:09 pm

    Beautiful! I’ll be a month shy of 33 when I marry in 3 months and this resonates with me. When I finally became happy with myself is when I found my guy. Thank you for writing this and sharing your experience.

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    village_skeptic 1861 posts, Buzzing bee @ 10:55 pm

    So beautiful and so true. I love that the two of you are coming into this marriage as fully-developed people with your own histories and lives!

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    Anesya 53 posts, Worker bee @ 11:22 pm

    I’m in your same shoes, so I understand and agree completely with your post. I will also be 30 when I get married in May next year and my fiance will be 35. I almost got married at 20, but thankfully I didn’t. I’m glad I’m not the only person out there that saw my life and past up to now the way you do, so thank you!

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    debeachgirl 742 posts, Busy bee @ 5:04 am

    Thanks for this post. I will be 32 (and very close to 33) when I get married. FI is 37, so I could really related. It was a refreshing read.

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    Gemstone 20900 posts, Honey Beekeeper @ 6:36 am

    I know what you mean about sometimes feeling behind the curve. No babies or mortgages here. But we all just have to remember that it isn’t a race, and it’s not about winning. It’s about being happy, and I’m so happy for you! :)

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    Mirror_Mirror 6 posts, Newbee @ 6:46 am

    Thanks for the post and I know what you mean as well. We met at 30 engaged at 35 and married at 36. NYC living! We both have amazing careers, savings and focus. Not to mention years of fun filled stories and vacations separately and shared. No regrets here!

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    Schneewittli 56 posts, Worker bee @ 8:08 am

    This is so beautifully written! Thank you for this post!
    And I can totally relate to it – I’m 34 and getting married in a few weeks, FI is 37. Like you I travelled the world, lived on my own and abroad (I still do now, actually). And I loved it all! I never feel like I’m an ‘older’ bride though, but that must be because I live in NYC and everyone here gets married in their mid 30s ;-)

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    stephk527 987 posts, Busy bee @ 10:39 am

    First of all, you look amazing in all of these pictures.

    Second of all, thank you SO much for sharing and writing this post. I’ll be 24 when we get married and I supposed that’s on the younger end of the spectrum, but I truly don’t believe that age matters as much as the people do. That having been said, your experiences sound AWESOME. Whatever you had to go through in life to lead you to Mr. Camel is totally worth it and I’m so glad you found each other, with your killer story.

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    Ms_Maple 115 posts, Blushing bee @ 4:01 am

    Well said…and thank you for speaking for us 30 year old brides! There are pros and cons for getting married at any age. For me it worked out great – I had time to get my masters degree and work long hours to move my career along without having to answer to anyone. My fiance and I also have more money now to have the wedding of my dreams :)

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    ddavila2001 611 posts, Busy bee @ 7:01 am

    Yes as some of the previous posters above mention, NYC living = most getting married in their 30′s. I honestly never experienced any kind of internal pressure or rush to get married and make babies. I had a good time in my 20′s in this city and still continue to do so, I enjoy my financial security, a home that I purchased on my own and my career! No regrets, only accomplishments and life experiences!

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    ersatzpnk, Guest @ 11:38 am

    This is perfect. I’m also getting married at 30, and feel every bit of this. I did not get to have the adventures all over the world, but I had enough of them in my own backyard. And then I met the love of my life who lived 15 minutes away from me all my life. Crazy how that works out, eh?

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    Succulent, Guest @ 11:45 am

    Beautiful post! I just got married at 31, and was rolling my eyes when I read the introduction about being an “older” bride. I hardly consider myself an “older” bride as most of my peers in San Francisco aren’t married yet and was expecting the blog to be patronizing to “older” brides. However, your post was beautifully written and a fantastic argument for the benefits of getting married in your 30s, particularly taking advantage of your independence in your twenties. Thank you!

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    MrsKeAloha 1044 posts, Bumble bee @ 12:02 pm

    Ah, the 30′s. For me, 30 meant the beginning. What a wonderful time it has been. I met my love at 30 and married him 3 years later. The thirties have so much in store. A perspective on life I didn’t have in my twenties and still the youthfulness of adventures and dreams, although i can’t imagine we will ever “settle down” but we will continue to explore this journey through life hand in hand.

    Well written.

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    henna313 14 posts, Newbee @ 1:02 pm

    Thank you for this post!!! I am getting married next November and I will be 33. I looked and looked for that special someone forever. Everyone told me to stop looking and it will just happen. And that is exactly what happened. Turns out he was under my nose for 3 years, and my sister tried to set me up with him for 3 years. I just said no over and over and didn’t even give him a chance until the day came when I needed a plumber..haha. (I welcome all the plumber jokes). He showed up at my house and all of the sudden I saw him differently. Now I can’t imagine my life without him. I spent years crying over being the only one not getting married or having babies. Even my sister who is 5 years younger than me, got married and is pregnant. But, I truly believe now that it was worth the wait and timing is everything.

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    Miss Honey Badger, Guest @ 1:08 pm

    This is the most disturbing thing I’ve read in a very long time. The idea that being married defines you in any way, at any age, is mortifying to me. I’m a 34 year old business owner who has been with her boyfriend for 7 years. We have no intention of getting married because we have no reason to. It won’t make us love each other more, and we have nothing to prove to the rest of the world.

    I think the worst part of this self-important, anti-feminist dribble is the comments that follow. Shame on all of you for making anyone else out there feel less-than because they’re not married, or because some idiot gave them a judgmental stare at the wedding dress shop when the bride told them her age.

    This is 2012, not 1970.

    I leave you with this statistic from the National Center for Health Statistics:
    60 percent of marriages for couples between the ages of 20 and 25 end in divorce.

    Maybe climb down from your little wedding pedestals, swallow a big bite of humility and start looking at the bigger picture…

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    Blue Eyes by the Sea 96 posts, Worker bee @ 1:11 pm

    Miss Camel, this is beautiful. You read my mind and said something I feel in a far more eloquent way that I ever could (as I’m in a similar boat). Thank you for this :)

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    Jaclyn, Guest @ 1:20 pm

    Thank you for writing this. I couldn’t have said any of this better myself. I, like you, am class of ’01 and will be just a few months shy of 30 when I walk down the aisle next June. I was engaged once when I was younger (24-25), and thankfully, that wedding never happened. It was a painful, life-reevaluating experience, but looking back now, I know it was definitely for the best. Having gone through that, I learned that I deserve better and that, as my own person, I am complete. Having found someone to share my life with now, well that is just a bonus :)

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    shida_girl 32 posts, Newbee @ 1:27 pm

    @Miss Honey Badger: @Miss Honey Badger: @Miss Honey Badger: I have to ask you if you are so happy with being with your boyfriend for 7 years without the intention of getting married, why are you reading wedding/marriage blogs? The only judgmental thing is your commentary and from the looks of all of the feedback, you are in the extreme minority. The tone of her blog is not to judge anyone but to tell her story, something that every person on this site aims to do. You might not agree, you might not understand but you don’t have to – it’s not your story. And if hearing other people’s experiences is so disturbing to you, maybe this is not the forum for you.

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    Miss Honey+Badger, Guest @ 1:45 pm

    @shida_girl It’s to be expected that you would make assumptions about me – as that seems to be the main focus of this “forum”. I’m reading this, and many other, wedding blogs because I work in the wedding industry. Not that that’s relevant or any of your business.

    But it certainly does prove my point, so thank you for that.

    Not only is the tone of Miss Camel’s post extremely judgmental, so is the tone of your reply to my comment. I shall use your own words to respond to your criticism of my post:
    “You might not agree, you might not understand, but you don’t have to – it’s not your story.”

    People really need to think things through before they speak (i.e. type), but alas, the Internet is full of passive aggressive, judgmental people like you, isn’t it?

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    MrsKeAloha 1044 posts, Bumble bee @ 1:54 pm

    @Miss Honey+Badger:
    Judgmental. There is nothing wrong with a woman or little girl dreaming of her wedding day. There is also nothing wrong with someone not wanting to marry. You are right, a paper or a ceremony will not make someone love another more but it is a beautiful symbol and a special day for the couple, family and friends. If you can’t support another with the journey the are on, don’t read it, don’t listen to it. Thank you for the statistics and your viewpoint

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    Melissa, Guest @ 3:12 pm

    Love your post! I’m class of ’01 as well and I’ll be 3 months shy of 30 when I get married this coming February. My husband (yikes!) will have JUST turned 28.

    I don’t have any regrets either. My original plan was to be married and have one child by the time I was 21. What on EARTH was I thinking?! I live in a heavily Mormon area (or maybe a lot of my friends just have kids early!) so I felt like a spinster when I was 26 and 27 and single with no kids while my friends were enrolling theirs in Kindergarten. The majority of my friends are on their 2nd or 3rd baby.

    But you know what? I’ve learned SO much about how I want to raise my kids because I’ve seen what they’ve done, or what they didn’t do. I’ve established my career, as has my fiance, and we can provide for our family. I (soon to be we) own our home. Had I been married at 21 there is no way any of that would have happened.

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    Melissa, Guest @ 3:13 pm

    Um… why are you on a wedding blog bashing people if you don’t want to get married?? Just saying.

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    felina 48 posts, Newbee @ 3:43 pm

    “I know that we met and fell in love at exactly the right time in our lives.”

    This resonated so much with me and the man in my life, we have talked about it and even though we have known each other for a few years, we are sure had we tried it before it wouldn’t had worked out.

    We finally decided it to give it a try only a few months ago before I turned 30, we are head over heels in love and getting engaged next year, due paperwork I might not end up married until I am 31 and I couldn’t care less, I am simply ecstatic I get to marry my perfect match.

    Sure, the original plan of waiting for a few years for a baby will probably have to be changed to waiting only one year or so, but that is hardly a sacrifice!

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    Em, Guest @ 9:10 pm

    Well written! Loved it!!!

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    brooklyn55 743 posts, Busy bee @ 10:32 pm

    Great post! I can see the pros and cons to getting married at any age. I will be 23 1/2 on my wedding day so younger than the US census and while I am so happy (and ready) to marry my fiance, there are SO many things that I know wouldn’t be stressful if we were older. For one, I am just finishing graduate school and have NO idea where my career is going to go after I finish. He is also just starting his teaching career (he’s a 2nd year teacher) but will likely have to move because of my career. Now, we have discussed all of this and are supportive of each other and will do what we have to do, but trust me, sometimes I think about how much easier it would be to have waited until we were more settled in life.

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    Miss Funky, Guest @ 11:18 pm

    Amen to this post, sister! I will be 39 when we finally get married next year. I have suffered years of judgemental comments, and apparently so has my mother on my behalf. Everyone is on their own schedule in life, and personally I’ve never been ready for marriage until now… yet so many people don’t understand that, sadly. I feel there is a lot to be said for fully becoming your own person and seeing the world first, to ensure you are a strong pillar together with your partner. Well done on this post! <3

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    bluebelle23 854 posts, Busy bee @ 7:49 am

    I’m 32 and to be honest…. feel a little young to get married.
    Don’t get me wrong… EVERYONE I know is married and I feel that pressure and I love my FI.
    BUT I just wish there was an extra 10 years between 25 and 35 to explore the world and who you are.
    Just last night, an episode of House Hunters was on with teachers moving to Germany. And now I want to move to Germany! LOL
    Unfortunately Mr. Blue doesn’t share my sense of whimsy. I would just love more time sometimes… ya know?

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    MRSJCM2 12 posts, Newbee @ 2:08 pm

    From one “older bride” to another…Congratulations and best wishes to you and your husband!

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    S.T., Guest @ 6:53 pm

    Awesome post! I will be 33 when I get married and yes I felt like I will be old and sometimes I wish maybe it had happened earlier. But on the bright side I have accomplished so much on my own that would have been difficult if I had been married. Funny…a lot of those things were very similar to you…backpacked Europe, grad school, traveling all over the world, etc.

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    MsMamaBear 3650 posts, Sugar bee @ 7:37 am

    Thank you for this post. I’m 31 and not engaged yet. Some people act like I’m decrepit because we aren’t married yet. I’ll probably be 33 by the time we get married but that’s ok. :)

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    camel 703 posts, Busy bee @ 8:05 am

    @Miss Honey+Badger: Assuming you are not just a troll out for stirring up needless trouble on the internet, I’m really curious as to how you found this post judgmental.

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    JessaXOXO, Guest @ 9:19 am

    I’ll be 28 when we get married next year. I don’t think getting married at 30 is old at all. I live in New York and its completely normal to be unmarried at 30. It’s expensive to live here and most of us focus on careers before settling down. With that said, my fiancé and I will be together 10 years when we say “I do”. It’s not that we weren’t mentally prepared to be married, we weren’t ready financially. I don’t see the point of rushing into a marriage because you feel like you’re getting too old. Be patient, wait for the right person, and make sure you’re fully prepared(mentally, financially) to share your life with someone else.

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    camel 703 posts, Busy bee @ 3:34 pm

    @JessaXOXO: Man, maybe I’m really a New Yorker at heart because everything you said hits home with me. Financial stability is not something I mentioned in my post, but now I wish that I had. Definitely being personally financially independent is incredibly important.

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    msmongoose 264 posts, Helper bee @ 4:54 pm

    Beautiful post Miss Camel! I especially love your reference back to your 20-year old self. I often think back on how much I thought I knew at 15, 20 and even 25. Little did I know what a wild ride my 20s would end up being! I will be 29 by the time I get married next year and I feel that the timing is absolutely right for me.

    Even though I’ve been with Mr. Mongoose for most of my 20s, the first half of our relationship was long distance so we lead pretty independent lives. I feel like I truly had the best of both worlds though–we both were able to do things on our own and grow up as individuals, while at the same time growing as a couple. I wouldn’t change a thing!

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    missmusubi 14 posts, Newbee @ 11:39 pm

    Brilliantly written and mission accomplished – your post renewed my hope for a relationship, despite being one of the “older” singles you so (thankfully) included.

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    Lynn, Guest @ 1:09 pm

    America is the only westernised country I know of where getting married beyond the age of 25 is considered to be old. In my country, and continent (Europe), most people get married in their late 20s/early 30s. This is true for both men and women.

    My country has a very low divorce rate, and I believe the age of marriage has a lot to do with it. I shudder when I think of what would have happened had I married the bf I had at 21. He was wholly unsuitable, but what did I know? I was so very young.

    I know three couples who bucked the trend and married when they were <25. All ended in divorce.

    TBH, I think that your marriage has a higher chance of succeeding than some of those FB friends from the class of '01. I'm not saying that getting married at the age of 30 somehow magically protects you from divorce, but I *am* saying that marriage is tough and going into at age 21 just makes things even tougher. You don't truly know yourself, so how can you really know who is best for you?

    My blessings to you and your fiancee. :)

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    jenn, Guest @ 5:17 pm

    I will also be a 30 year old bride. No kids, no car payment..just a motgage which I call my “expensive baby”, lol. The way I look at it is people are doing everything older now-adays, even living longer so to “begin your life” by getting married at 30 is no biggy in my book. Just enjoy life as it comes to you :) You’ve got tons of time for the rest!

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    ladylewis12 271 posts, Helper bee @ 5:24 pm

    Hey I’m an 01′ bee too and I can totally relate!!! All I can say is “well said, well written rather”.

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    Jenny, Guest @ 7:30 pm

    I personally found this article insulting to anyone over 30. You are basically saying 30 is old. I live in New York City and I was married at 31 and the majority of people I know get married over 30. You make marriage at 30 seem like some sort of disorder. I find this article very small minded (I assume you are not from the East Coast) and insulting.

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    camel 703 posts, Busy bee @ 8:28 pm

    @Jenny: 30 is absolutely not old. I think you missed the point of this entry if you think I believe that.

    I wrote this for women who are in their late 20′s or 30′s and who are feeling pressured by life or those around them into feeling “behind” in life because they are not married. Which, for many women, is a reality. Please read the comments on this entry if you don’t believe that.

    Is it right for women to feel “old” for getting married at 30 or older? Absolutely not. Which I felt was my point here. Find time to be yourself, grow, meet someone, and (if you so desire) marry them when you are ready. Not when society is ready, or your friends are ready, or your family. It’s important for people to remember to disconnect themselves from societal pressures like this which are all too common now that social media is constantly peddling other peoples’ lives before us as if begging us to make comparisons.

    I am from the East Coast, but I’m also from the South and as I mentioned, most of the people I know who are my age are already married, have children, or have a child on the way.

    I hope this has broadened your “small minded” perspective as to why I wrote this.

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    camel 703 posts, Busy bee @ 8:43 pm

    @Lynn: Thanks for your comment Lynn–I absolutely agree with everything you said. I am so glad that I didn’t get married (or even think of marriage) any younger than I am now. I really didn’t even start to feel like my true adult self until I was maybe 25 or 26 years old, and things have only gotten better in my life since.

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    Miss Funky, Guest @ 10:51 pm

    The (unfortunate IMO) truth is that to much of the country, 30 IS old for getting married. I’m in LA – will be nearly 40 when I get married (first time!) next year, and will have plenty of older, unmarried friends there… but that is so unusual compared to most of this country. No need to be offended by it, it’s just fact. I feel honored to be counted among those women who simply didn’t find the right one early on, and stuck it out… stayed strong despite social “rules”, in order to find what was right. Some find that at a young age, and those who do are lucky… but don’t settle ladies! ;) That is the ultimate offense – to yourself.

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    MrsKeAloha 1044 posts, Bumble bee @ 1:11 pm

    My husband 38 me 33. We got married 7 months ago. Many people who find out we ate newly weds think we are on our 2nd or 3rd marriage and sometimes ask how many kids we brought into the marriage. It never offends me and i think nothing bad of those marrying again. But for me it shows that most people expect one or both of you to have been married at an earlier age.
    i had a grandmother who married at 17 and use to worry i would never find someone to take care of me. My other grandma married at (gasp) 27 years old (in the 1940′s & 50′s that was Old) and she always encouraged me to live my life to be happy and not to others expectations.

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    Allie99 41 posts, Newbee @ 4:09 pm

    I’m 33 getting married. I always hid a lot of facebook posts. Its flooded by “friends” wedding and baby pictures, friends turned stay at home moms talking about how great it is that they don’t have to work, ect. I was so lonely in my 20s. It was really hard seeing others get everything they wanted while i feared living my life all alone and really not having anyone that loved me.

    I don’t feel like i’m an “older bride” at all. It all depends on where you live i guess. I live in the city. People here marry at all different times. Some marry young in their 20s, some marry in their 30s and some marry when they are older in their 40s.

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    ja-mila 5 posts, Newbee @ 11:50 pm

    Amen sister!

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    RM, Guest @ 8:16 pm

    Beautifully written! and I am so in the same spot. About to enter the new phase of my life by the end of this year when I would be 30, with the man I waited for atleast a decade, and missed sharing so many moments with! But the good part is , hes finally here….!

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    Teah Beglau, Guest @ 1:19 am

    I am 29 and have not yet found Mr. Right. As much as I keep telling myself I will find someone, I’m scared that he’ll never come. Due to a car accident which happened in my teens my life has gone sideways at times. My dating life was never like it should have been as my classmates and friends throughout high school and college. I’ve been reading a variety of things on the internet including your post to help me keep going, but as stated, I’m scared I’ll never find someone and I’ll be alone for the rest of my life. I so badly want children and have made a promise to myself that if I have not yet found someone by the age of 35 I will have an artificially insiimination. If anyone who reads this has words which will help me cope, please write to tbeglau@ymail.com. I thank you.

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