After we got a sneak peek of the fabulousness in the pavilion that served as our reception space, our photog Laura snuck us away for a hot second to get a few more “official” couple pictures—ones that I’d been dying to get since that morning. Much thanks to our -awesome venue.
All photos by Exclamation Imagery unless otherwise noted.
I mean, screw creating our own monogram—we had our names spelled out in big, splashy red letters for the whole town to see! We were kiiinda a big deal (for a day, at least). Hey, it’s the little things in life!
Anyway, back in the pavilion, our guests and DJ were gearing up for our reappearance, which we were all too ready for. Once we heard “Shake It” by Metro Station start playing, we made our way out while being announced as the new Mr. & Mrs. Foxy!
Photos by Mrs. Pony
I tried my hardest to actually shake it…helloooo, song title…but Foxy wasn’t having it. White boy can’t dance.
Personal photo by a friend
Personal photo by a friend
This whole introduction thing was actually quite the process. I told Foxy the night before he was mighty lucky that the dancer in me didn’t choreograph some elaborate thing to our walk out and/or first dance (because trust me, I was so tempted!). My only request was that he give me a little twirl right before we started our first dance…which he eventually did…but which he also kept. trying. to. do. while “Shake It” was still playing. I watch the brief video of it all and it’s just a whole lotta awkward. But amusing, too!
As the DJ did an as-subtle-as-he-could transition from our my mini-dancefest into our first-dance song—”Wake Up” by Coheed & Cambria—I handed my bouquet off to Jamie and Foxy and I took the floor.
Personal photo by Breezy B
I realize now that I never posted much (or anything, actually) about our first-dance music selection. Like most couples, Foxy and I wanted to choose a song that really represented the two of us; at the same time, we realized that it also needed to be by a band that we both really liked. I personally had several songs in mind, initially—”Even Now” by Dashboard Confessional or “Lullaby“ by The Spill Canvas were two of my top contenders—but Foxy just wasn’t thrilled about them, especially the latter, as he didn’t even know the band. (Which sucks because it was so perfect! So if you’re in the market for a first-dance song…try that one!). We had briefly discussed using “Stolen” by Dashboard, but at the time it felt like everyone and their mother was using that song, so we opted to keep searching.
To make a long story short, I suggested “Wake Up” by Coheed & Cambria, a band we both really love. It’s one of my favorites by them, but shockingly, Foxy had never heard that particular song before. After his first listen, he was hooked. Sure, some of the lyrics are a bit depressing and not very “weddingy,” but whatever. Most of the song is sweet, we both liked it, it was good for sway-dancing…done aaaand done!
Some of my favorite lyrics (because what’s a post about the first dance without lyrics?!):
I’ve earned through hope and faith all the curves around your face, that I’m the one you’ll hold forever. If morning never comes for either one of us, then this I pray to you wherever.
I’ll do anything for you, this story is for you. I’ll do anything for you, kill anyone for you.
The morning will come in the press of every kiss, with your head upon my chest—where I will annoy you with every waking breath, until you decide to wake up.
About a minute into the song, per an earlier request we made to DJ Frank, everyone was asked to join us on the dance floor. (As Foxy would say—anything to take the focus and attention off of us for a few minutes!)
This was probably the most packed the dance floor was all night (which sucks, because I was hoping it would be hopping, but whatevs), but I still loved that we were able to have everyone come out and join us for even a few minutes. It made for some super-cute photo-ops, too!
This is my “Bahahaha, no you may NOT dance with your husband, Officiant Em…he needs to film us doing our intricate sway dance!” face. Yes, that happened. Sorry, Em…you know I love you!
This moment—our first dance and the accompanying song—felt extra special to us since we decided to forgo any of the other traditional dances and reception events (think father-daughter dance, mother-son dance, bouquet and garter toss). We wanted to keep it simple, to keep it sweet.
And maybe it seems a bit selfish, but in that moment, surrounded by all our friends and family, it really felt like it was all about us. You know, the two people who I repeatedly forgot about.
So once the song was over and people started dispersing from the dance floor, it was time for another one of my favorite moments of the day—toasts!
Did you have to take different music tastes into account when choosing your first-dance song? Did/does it have any non lovey-dovey lyrics in it like ours did?
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