Wedding Dress Decisions

(Much better than Wedding Dress Nightmares)

From the very beginning, I had a dress preference from the six I originally liked. But first let’s look at the ones I didn’t choose.

Bettina

Image via J. CREW

The Bettina was beautiful, but not exactly what I was looking for in a wedding dress, mainly because I couldn’t see myself walking down the aisle with any jewelry or a veil with it. The neckline doesn’t lend itself to a necklace, and I feel like in a veil I would just be completely covered from toe to forehead. So for me, that one was out.

Sararos

Image via J. CREW

Mr. Lemur was actually the one to veto the Sararose and Sinclair dresses, which was fine with me! I was glad he had input, and neither of these dresses really stood out to me.

I also should note that I’m not the typical “look for the dress and cry when you find it” bride. In some ways I wish I were! It seems so romantic and classic. But I have yet to feel that at all in my planning process, and I don’t know if I will.

I guess in the end it just came down to availability, price, and what I could actually see myself wearing on my wedding day. I went to a local J. CREW store (not a J. CREW bridal store, the nearest one is Atlanta) and tried on a few dresses to size myself. I’m consistently the same J. CREW size, so I felt fairly safe ordering online without trying on the actual dress.

Sophia

Image via J. CREW

So here we go. The J. CREW Sophia. My number one choice from the beginning for several reasons—the simplicity of the dress, the way it fits with my style, and being able to feel comfortable and like myself on my wedding day. I also like that I can make this dress my own! I haven’t decided how yet. I’m considering a chunky necklace for the reception, maybe fancy drop earrings, a sash, flowers in my hair/on the sash, or really anything that I want. Because of the simplicity of the dress, I can do whatever I want with my accessories!

A few things—as of my purchase, the Sophia was no longer sold on the J. CREW website (I think it may be back now). Which is fine, since I knew I would be able to find the dress cheaper elsewhere anyway! I found it on RecycledBride—not my size. Again, here it is on PreOwnedWeddingDresses—this one is my size, but sold, obviously. These are just a few of the sites I checked! There are plenty of places to buy gently used or even new with tags wedding dresses that aren’t full price.

These pictures and dresses are also all showing the dress in silk tricotine. J. CREW originally made the dress in both silk chiffon and silk tricotine. After looking at pictures of both online, I decided I wanted the dress in silk chiffon. It seems like most women buy silk tricotine, but since I was looking to have a casual ceremony and reception, I felt like silk chiffon would be a better fit.

I did eventually find the dress online and buy it…yes, without ever trying it on! It came a few days later and fit perfectly! It does need alterations in length, but I haven’t decided what I’m wearing for shoes yet. I bought for my current size, not a size down, but that was right before the holidays so I probably should try it on again just to be sure…

I keep looking for pictures of brides wearing this dress but there aren’t very many out there in my style and size. I took a few horrible pictures of myself the first time I tried it on, but you’re going to have to wait until I can take some slightly less embarrassing shots! And since this post is long enough already, we’ll talk about the details of my dress the next time around.

Did you wear a J. Crew dress on your wedding day? Are you considering buying a pre-owned dress?

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Mrs. Lemur

Location:
Greenville, South Carolina
Wedding Date:
May 2013

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    Faye - Boutique Bag Lady, Guest @ 6:17 am

    A lot of new brides are going with simple chic gowns and don’t want to carry around long trains for some reason.

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