Jewish Wedding Customs (Part 1)

As I previously mentioned, Judaism has played a major role in our wedding planning. When Mr. Wellies and I discussed our ceremony, we knew without a doubt that we would have a religious Jewish ceremony. We’re both very excited to incorporate so many different aspects of Judaism into our wedding; since everything is rich with meaning and history, it will give our day an even deeper resonance.

Chuppah ”“ The ceremony takes place under the chuppah, a canopy that represents the home Mr. Wellies and I will build together. It is open on all sides, symbolizing that friends and family are always welcome. I really love the imagery (both literal and metaphorical) of the chuppah. Although there are several vendors in the area who would be able to create a chuppah for us, we’re going to build it ourselves, to make it even more personal.


Image via Ruffled / Photo by Jodi Miller Photography

Hakafot (Circling) ”“ Jewish weddings traditionally begin with the bride circling the groom seven times. There are various interpretations of this ritual: Seven is the number of days of creation, and the wedding ceremony is the creation of a new household; there are seven wedding blessings; and seven is the number of times the phrase “when a man takes a wife” occurs in the Torah (the first five books of the Hebrew Bible). By circling Mr. Wellies seven times, I will intertwine our lives and form a new family circle.


Image via Sandor Welsh Photography

Kiddush (Blessing over Wine) ”“ Wine is often associated with celebrations, festivals, and simcha (joy). Kiddush is part of virtually all Jewish observance as a prayer of sanctification. During the ceremony, Mr. Wellies and I will drink from a Kiddush cup that once belonged to my dad, sanctifying the joy and abundance of our marriage.


Image via The Wedding Yentas / Photo by Next Exit Photography

Ketubah ”“ The ketubah, or marriage contract, is one of the oldest elements of Jewish weddings. Our ketubah consists of the traditional Aramaic text, which has bound Jewish brides and grooms since ancient times, as well as an English interpretation, which specifies our commitment to one another. We’ve already selected our ketubah design and can’t wait to display it in our home!


Image via A Practical Wedding / Photo by Joseph Milton

What religious or cultural customs are you including in your wedding day?


Miss Wellies

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February 2014
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    traumaqueen 132 posts, Blushing bee @ 9:44 pm

    I can’t wait for your tutorial on making the chuppah (I’m assuming you will do a tutorial on it!). My fiance and I are currently trying to figure out the best way to make ours (or to instruct my super handy father to make it.).

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    cosmo_gmr 488 posts, Helper bee @ 6:21 am

    @Mrs. Waterfall: I read your post and it was very interesting about the arras! I guess the meaning changes from one country to the other?

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    wellies 1425 posts, Bumble bee @ 7:13 am

    @Mrs. Treasure: I love it, too! :)
    @Mrs. Waterfall: Congrats to BM Green Eyes! That’s awesome! 😀
    @TraumaQueen: If we actually succeed in making one, I will try to write a comprehensible tutorial, ha ha! 😉

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    andyisgreat 242 posts, Helper bee @ 1:33 pm

    I spot my venue in the Hakafot (Circling) picture!!! How exciting. I love all of these traditions I see at Jewish weddings.

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    HighStyleEvents, Guest @ 1:35 pm

    Great insight on Jewish wedding planning! We couldn’t have said it better on our blog!

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