Secret Life of Bees: Bicycle Edition

Since I am still waiting to get my pro pics back, I figured now would be a great time for me to do my “Secret Life of Bees” post and share some insight into what makes me uniquely myself.

1. I ride horses!

I grew up riding horses from the time I was five or six until I was 16, finally stopping because the level I reached made it a very, very expensive hobby and my parents weren’t millionaires.  A little over a year ago I decided to get back into it and it has been so amazing.

Mrs. Bicycle riding Meant to Be / Photo by All Seasons Photography

Riding is the thing in life I am most passionate about, and if I am not at work you can usually find me at the barn. I currently ride in hunter classes (judged, collected, etc.), but I am starting to transition to jumper (timed, fast, fun!). (For an explanation of the difference between hunter and jumper, try this.) Riding was such a great release for me during the wedding-planning process. I could go to the barn, hop on a horse, and forget about centerpieces and invitations and RSVPs (or lack thereof). I am fortunate to ride at a great barn with a fabulous group of people.

2. I am terrified of manatees.

Yes, I am actually afraid of manatees.  Growing up in Connecticut, I didn’t know a lot (anything?) about manatees. When I moved to Florida and started doing triathlons I swam a lot in the manatee-infested waters of the Indian River Lagoon, where nearly a third of the nation’s manatee population either lives or migrates through. Getting into a river with a bunch of creatures I don’t understand freaked me out.

Want to know the worst part? I am afraid that if I swim into one my arm will go through it like it hit a cake. I know, this makes no sense at all! To be honest, I think it was easy for me to find a silly thing to focus on instead of being nervous about the actual predators that live in the water. I have since moved away from that area, and my open water swims don’t have as high a manatee risk, but I am always on the lookout!

A sign left for me in my work bathroom / Personal photo

3. My cat is potty trained.

Tchoupitoulas, my lovely cat, uses the big girl potty. Mr. Bicycle’s brother’s fiancee potty trained her cat and it inspired me to give it a try. I ordered a training system, Citi Kitty, after reading a lot of mixed reviews. (It takes a special kind of cat!)

Image via Citi Kitty

The entire process took about two months and it was pretty much pain free for us. Tchoup has had a total of three (maybe four?) accidents since training was complete in February. We can even leave her alone for a few nights without any problems. We did have our neighbors come over to flush the toilet and feed her while we were on our honeymoon. That wasn’t at all awkward to ask…

This isn’t for every cat, but I cannot recommend it enough if you’re up to it. Game changer!

Poor Tchouppy is probably embarrassed now. / Personal photo

4. I am an endurance athlete.

I have mentioned my triathlon and marathon training a bit in the past, but I thought I’d go a bit more in depth here. First of all, meet Mrs. Bicycle’s bicycle:

Personal photo

I ride a Quintana Roo Chicqilo. It is a triathlon/time trial bike, which means it has different handlebars than a regular road bike. It is also a bit more lightweight than a road bike. Because I have been dedicating so much time to horseback riding lately, my bike hasn’t gotten as much use as I would like. Maybe I will go out for a nice long ride this weekend! Some of the major races I’ve done include:

  • New York City Olympic Distance Triathlon (0.9 mile swim, 26 mile bike, 6.2 mile run) – swim in the Hudson River (fun!)
  • Nation’s Triathlon in Washington, DC – swim in the Potomac River
  • Goofy Challenge at the Disney Marathon – run the half marathon (13.1 miles) on Saturday and the full marathon (26.2 miles) on Sunday
  • Augusta Half Ironman – 1.2 mile swim, 56 mile bike, 13.1 mile run

Mr. Bicycle and I are currently training for the Rock N Roll New Orleans Marathon on February 2. If you’ll be there, let me know! This will be his second full marathon, the first being when we ran the Chicago Marathon two years ago.

I first started training as a way to keep me busy during the slow summer months at work. I signed up for Team In Training, which helps you train for an endurance event while raising money for the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society. I did three different races with TNT, raising close to $15,000. If you’re interested in getting into endurance events I recommend looking up your local TNT chapter—it is a great place to start! I also ran the Chicago Marathon while raising money for the American Brain Tumor Association because…

5. I have a brain tumor.

It is a “best case scenario” brain tumor, as I like to call it, so no worries! I have a meningioma on my left frontal lobe, which is the same type of brain tumor that Sheryl Crow has. It was discovered through an MRI after I had some numbness in my right forearm. Most meningiomas are benign and the risks of a craniotomy aren’t really worth the potential reward, so until I start having serious symptoms or until it grows significantly, annual MRIs are a sufficient course of treatment.

Researching brain tumors and seeing how devastating they can be was heartbreaking. I am fortunate that I have the best possible kind of tumor and even more fortunate that I have good health insurance. So many others struggle to find the means to pay for treatment, if any treatment at all is available. This is why I wanted to raise money for the American Brain Tumor Association—to give something to those who are facing far worse circumstances than I. I say all this to encourage everyone to do what they can to help those around them—every little bit helps!

Yes, those are running brains with tumors on my shirt. / Personal photo

5. New Orleans changed me.

Going to college in New Orleans changed me in ways I am sure I still do not understand. The city, the people, the music, the food…it all just becomes you when you live there. Author Chris Rose summed it up pretty well after Hurricane Katrina: “Dear America, I suppose we should introduce ourselves: We’re South Louisiana. You probably already know that we talk funny and listen to strange music and eat things you’d probably hire an exterminator to get out of your yard. We dance even if there’s no radio. We drink at funerals. We talk too much and laugh too loud and live too large and, frankly, we’re suspicious of others who don’t.”

One night I was fortunate to partake in a project called Dear New Orleans. Basically a photographer takes pictures of people (mostly celebrities) with inspirational messages on their hands and arms.  I was out to dinner with a friend while I was in town for the weekend when she asked if I wanted to go with her to a Dear New Orleans fundraiser where we could get our own portraits done. This is, quite possibly, my favorite picture ever taken.

Newcomb College at Tulane University ring to the left, fleur de lis ring to the right

“I love who you make me.” Yep, that pretty much sums it up. New Orleans changed who I am, and for that I will be forever grateful.

OK, I think that is enough for me! You now have a very clear picture of the life of Mrs. Bicycle. Horseback rider and New Orleans misser by day, manatee nightmare victim at night. Please feel free to share the secret life of you!


Mrs. Bicycle

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    Mrs. Blue Whale 633 posts, Busy bee @ 2:44 pm

    I’m so overwhelmed! Your potty trained kitty made me lol. As did the manatee. Then I got all sad about your brain tumor. I’m glad to hear it’s not stopping you from doing all the stuff you want to do! And your NOLA picture… so awesome. I feel like I know you so much better now!

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    Mrs. Bighorn Sheep 114 posts, Blushing bee @ 5:07 pm

    May I just say that you are totally inspirational Mrs B. Everything I read just now made me go through ALL the emotions.

    And that NOLA photo is just beautiful. I love how you’re conveying everything just through your eyes. NOLA is definitely a destination I would love to go to.

    And finally, to end this comment on an even-toned note, your cat is ADORBS all on her back like that <3

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    notbridey 770 posts, Busy bee @ 5:15 pm

    wow! great posts! if we get a cat, I think we’re going to attempt potty training. :)

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    dancingriss 420 posts, Helper bee @ 6:37 pm

    my favorite tshirt is from dirty coast and features the italics portion of that chris rose quote <3

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    Mrs. Campfire 982 posts, Busy bee @ 8:05 pm

    We totally need to get together and ride someday! Though I’m more into western riding. But, YAY HORSES!

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    Miss Pyramid 833 posts, Busy bee @ 5:43 am

    Is it weird to say you’ve got some fun life facts? Well you do! And I love your outlook for dealing with your brain tumor – it’s great that you find your own ways to make a difference.
    And of course <3 Nola. I sometimes take it for granted here or think that I just love it because it's home, but I love hearing about people's experiences like this. There really is something special about this place.

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    Mrs. Candy Apple 1877 posts, Buzzing bee @ 6:33 am

    Can I be you when I grow up? You are so kick-ass, I can’t even handle it.

    Um, and can we please discuss your potty-trained kitty. ARE YOU KIDDING ME. That is amazing.

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    Mrs. Jet Setter 512 posts, Busy bee @ 7:42 am

    I have never ridden a horse in my life, teach me teach me!

    That manatee thing made me lose my marbles, I was laughing so hard! It really DOES seem like they’re doughy and you can stick your hand clear through!

    You are the coolest, Mrs. B!

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    Mrs. Airplane 386 posts, Helper bee @ 10:54 am

    Feeling all the feelings. You rock, Mrs. B!

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    bridesmomma 427 posts, Helper bee @ 12:02 pm

    You are an awesome chick, Mrs. Bicycle! :-)

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    Mrs. Mongoose 726 posts, Busy bee @ 12:26 pm

    Wow Mrs. B you’ve had some crazy life experiences under your belt (you look so badass on that horse!!). So happy to hear that your brain tumor is in check and that you are doing fine. Sounds like you’ve gone through A LOT and I just absolutely love your positive outlook on life. Oh and I cracked up when reading about your potty trained cat :) And gahhh I can’t believe you swam in the Hudson!!! Hopefully you took like 10 showers afterwards?!?! LOL.

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    Mrs. Mink 3151 posts, Sugar bee @ 1:59 pm

    I think just going to Jazz Fest changed me. I can’t imagine how spending even more time in NOLA would affect me. It’s truly a place that constantly tugs at you to come back. I love it here!

    Is it odd that years of watching Antique Rodeo made me think of Newcomb College’s pottery and not Tulane?

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    Mrs. Bicycle 621 posts, Busy bee @ 5:39 am

    @Mrs. Blue Whale: Mission: Accomplished! :)
    @Miss Bighorn Sheep: Aww, thank you!
    @notbridey: It is definitely worth it!
    @dancingriss: I can’t seem to find that – it looks like they don’t have it anymore? I am so jealous!
    @Mrs. Campfire: YAY HORSES! :)

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    Mrs. Bicycle 621 posts, Busy bee @ 6:19 am

    @Miss Pyramid: Haha, thank you! Not weird at all ;) I am sure I took it for granted when I lived there, too.
    @Mrs. Candy Apple: You are so sweet! And yeah, she is pretty amazing.
    @Mrs. Jet Setter: I would LOVE to teach you!
    @Mrs. Airplane: @bridesmomma: Thank you, thank you! :)

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    daniellekira 548 posts, Busy bee @ 9:56 am

    Great post. I love all the different things about you. Crazy to see you have a tumor. I am so happy that it is the best case scenario one though.

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    Mrs. Palm Tree 1080 posts, Bumble bee @ 11:18 am

    Mrs. Bicycle, this might be my favorite Secret Life of Bees ever. I love everything about this. Thank you so much for sharing all of it – you are one interesting chickadee and that picture of you shows your love for NOLA so perfectly.


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    Miss_Mimosa 189 posts, Blushing bee @ 9:39 am

    I love reading these kinds of posts. After I have been following your wedding journey for so long it is cool to see a little bit about you as a person. I can’t stop laughing about the cat!

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    Mrs. Gondola 970 posts, Busy bee @ 3:57 pm

    You’re so cool! What a great post. I just recently started horse back riding. It is really fun.

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    Mrs. Waterfall 1304 posts, Bumble bee @ 12:03 am

    Wow, any of these facts alone would be really cool and different, you’re so unique! Also, I can’t believe that there are actually potty trained cats out there like in Meet the Parents! That’s so nuts! Also, sorry to hear about your health issues, and I hope they continue to remain under control. Oh, and I’m tagging along with @Mrs. Jet Setter: for some horse riding lessons!

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