Hive, on May 30, 2013, early in the planning process, I found out something that made me a little sad: our reception space cannot do a sparkler exit. I know it’s sort of pathetic to get so upset over something so little, but I had fallen in love with photos like this:
Unfortunately, our reception coordinators had run into some trouble the last time they had allowed a sparkler exit. Previous guests had left the sparklers lying on the lawns, scorched the deck, and made a general mess of things. So, for good reason, they had banned the use of sparklers on the grounds.
So”¦what else can we do? What will work for an evening exit?
Over the course of the next two months, Mr. Big and I deliberated what to do. A glow-stick exit was proposed, but didn’t match our general wedding “theme”; bubbles don’t photograph well at night; and confetti is usually out of the question because of the mess factor (and I don’t really like confetti).
The reception space usually has a goodbye circle or an archway, but a goodbye circle involves the bride and groom saying goodbye to EVERYONE (and we will have over 100 guests) and the archway was used by my cousin for her wedding (and I’m trying not to do the same thing as her).
And then I stumbled upon this post during a jaunt over at Offbeat Bride.
Mr. Big and I are perpetual high-fivers. The first thing we do when either of us has succeeded in something, be it in my academic work or Mr. Big’s job, we high-five each other. The same applies to others. For example, my little sister/junior bridesmaid/Groom’s Homie gets a good mark in her exams, she gets a high-five; my older sister and maid of honour gets a job, she gets a high-five, etc.
I suggested the idea to Mr. Big and he was so there. We think it’s an awesome example of us as a couple. We’re constantly high-fiving each other and everyone else. What’s even more is when others found out they were all for it. We even got one of Mr. Big’s groomsmen giving us a thumbs-up for it.
What this means, however, is that the send-off will have to happen indoors. Guests will have to line up, similar to the “archway,” where guests form an arch with their arms. Instead of holding hands above and running underneath them, which will be extremely difficult for my six-foot-tall husband-to-be, they’ll put their arm up, palms facing toward us. We will then run through them, high-fiving each and every one of our guests!
So all of our guests (who survive to the end of the night) will be getting high-fives (and possibly even hugs) from us before we leave! <3
What do you think, hive? Good idea or great idea?
- Sydney, NSW, Australia
- Postgraduate Student & Aspiring Writer
- Wedding Date:
- February 2014
- The Hunter Valley Gardens & Tamburlaine Organic Wines