Now and Forever…
November 1st, 2007 @ 4:32 pm by Mrs. Violet
Remember a while back I posted about a fight that almost went down between the Mr. and I regarding seeing each other before or during the ceremony? In the end, logistics won and we saw each other beforehand. We both thought that it was the best decision we made. Not only did it ease our nervousness a bit, we also had enough time to take all the pictures we needed and enjoy time alone & with our guests during cocktail hour.
The reveal… I know I look completely blissful and full of smiles, but I have to tell you that I almost had a minor incident. Right before stepping up to tap on Mr. Violet’s shoulders, my heel got stuck. It must have only happened for a few seconds but it felt like forever and I’m suprised the photos didn’t show my nervousness one bit. *See picture a few shots down for reference of bridge.
The Boys Get Ready…
October 31st, 2007 @ 4:03 pm by Mrs. Violet
The day before the wedding, I asked the entire bridal party to come over to our place so that I could run through the time schedule. Each person received a detailed schedule of when things were to happen. The reason why this picture is so funny is that the limo was due to arrive in an hour and of course, the boys just woke up! (Mind you, I’d been up since 6am.)
It Begins…
October 31st, 2007 @ 10:59 am by Mrs. Violet
I spent the last day of my single life in my little sister’s room. My best friend arrived the earliest. She was already dressed and ready while I looked completely haggard.
Money Talks…
October 23rd, 2007 @ 1:49 pm by Mrs. Violet
We had quite a busy weekend. Birthday celebrations, a karate tournament, apartment chores and errands.. but most importantly, the one thing we did accomplish this weekend was planning our financial future together.
I think I’m a dreamer. I live thinking that as long as I’m making some kind of money, I’ll be fine as long as I designate my husband to handle all the finances. I hate financial talk. I’m seriously not a numbers person and even when my financial friends talk about money, they start losing my focus after about a minute. However, a dreamer still needs to eat and live.
On the flip side, I am also realistic. I worry a lot. I worry that we won’t have enough money left to do what we want (travel, buy a home, eventually have children). I realized this weekend (it only took 8 years) that I can’t just leave it up to my husband, because he can’t do it all. Just like I couldn’t plan our wedding entirely by myself (although I tried really hard to), this is a team effort. I need to get involved and work out a plan.
The STD’s Are Done…
October 22nd, 2007 @ 3:28 pm by Mrs. Violet
Not for my wedding of course, but for a friend who asked for my help two weeks ago. (And here I thought I was done with wedding related stuff.)
After a few prototypes, we have the final Save the Date card/magnet. That’s right - it’s a card and it’s a magnet too! This was the first Save the Date project I did for someone other than myself. I think these came out great and she loved them too. 
For The Love Of Lavender
October 17th, 2007 @ 2:33 pm by Mrs. Violet
When I first pondered what kind of favors to give for our wedding, I was wholeheartedly set on lavender sachets. I just love lavender; the color is beautiful and the smell is so fragant. It’s pretty yet also functional. I was almost set on buying bags of these buds when I suddenly realized that maybe not everyone will share in my sentiments; specifically the male guests and those who have allergies. Sigh. Nevertheless, I still think lavender is a great favor to give.
Here are a few favor ideas that I found - I am hoping that someone out there does lavender for the sake of Mrs. Violet (just kidding). These love buds would work perfectly for bridal showers too!
From the Knot, these babies are $1.65 each.
Missing My Homies
October 15th, 2007 @ 11:47 am by Mrs. Violet
Last night one of my best friends called me out of the blue. I haven’t seen or spoken to him since the wedding (1.5 months ago) He called because he wanted to see how I’m enjoying my married life. I gave the usual “it’s the same, but it’s not at the same time..”speech. I told him that we should get together soon to chat in person.
Our schedules conflict tremendously. He works late hours and I don’t like to hang out in the city that late now that I live farther away; so I suggested that he swing by and hang out at my place. He hesitated and reminded me that I’m married. Well duh, so what? He went on to explain that now I’m married, that I’ll always have Mr. Violet by my side, so it won’t be as easy to hang out with me privately, without the husband. He won’t be able to talk to me about everything in front of Mr. Violet. My solution for him was that he can come and hang out in my backyard and we can talk privately(so what if the weather is getting a bit crisp and chilly!). I reassured him that just because I’m married, does not mean that Mr. Violet and I are glued to the hip forever!
A Stamp For The Newlyweds
October 5th, 2007 @ 11:24 am by Mrs. Violet
I found the perfect gift to give to newlyweds: a personalized stamp! I only wish that one of our guests thought of this, but alas, no one did, so I went ahead and bought two stamps from Sweet Papery - an address stamp and a stamp for my etsy shop. The address stamp will come in handy when it’s time to send out those Christmas cards. I just love how “our” last name appears on the stamp.
Letter To Husband
September 26th, 2007 @ 12:31 pm by Mrs. Violet
Dear Husband,
I’d be very grateful if you can make the following yummies for me. In no particular order..
Banana Muffins with Mascarpone Cream Frosting
Your wife,
Mrs. Violet
My wonderful husband made banana muffins.
Thank You Card Deconstructed
September 25th, 2007 @ 3:02 pm by Mrs. Violet
I decided not to wait for our photo thank you cards, so I made some of my own to send out. Thanks to the great idea of meleven, I will instead use the photo thank you cards for Christmas.
Making thank you cards is actually quite simple.(well for the most part) I will try to give you a quick snapshot of how you can make your own handmade cards to send out.
What I used:
80lb cardstock (I bought 8.5 x 11″ and made two cards using my trimmer and scorer.)
Scrapbook paper of your choice
Computer & Printer
Ink, Stamp & Glue
Mrs. Violet, New York
Age and Occupation: 27, Executive Assistant
Fiance's Age and Occupation: 27, Computer Engineer
Engagement Date: May 13, 2006
Wedding Date: September 2007
Venue: Westbury Manor
About Me: We've been dating since college. In our spare time we enjoy the city life, playing with our dog "Sam", eating our hearts out, and traveling. I also love to DIY. Check out my crafty creations at http://www.waisze.etsy.com.
