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Normally I’m a pretty decisive person.
Deciding on the music for the wedding, however, has turned me into this indecisive crazy person. If you asked me 6 months ago, I would say that the bride should always walk down the aisle to a traditional wedding march, because how else will the congregation know that the bride is coming?
Now that I’m trying to decide what to walk down the aisle to at my own wedding, my opinion has completely changed. Traditional wedding marches don’t inspire any kind of emotional response in me, and while I feel that might be good for my automatic cry reflex, it might make the ceremony feel less personal.
So now I’m trying to find songs that I love that are also appropriate for walking down the aisle to, and I’m having a pretty tough time.
At first I was thinking I would walk down the aisle to “Sweet Disposition” by the Temper Trap. I was at the gym one day and it came on Pandora, and I thought, this is it! I love the song, but I’m not sure how I would cut it to work… my walk down the aisle will be long, and since I only have one bridesmaid I may be able to have her walk as well, but it still makes the cutting tricky.
First I want to apologize for my absence… I have had a jam packed week!
Mr. O and I signed the lease on our first apartment together and I started getting all of my furniture and wardrobe moved in. So far I’m loving living there because it is so much closer to my job. The downside is that the internet is not set up yet, so I haven’t had the opportunity to blog!
We’ve hit that point in the wedding planning process where we’ve made all the big vendor decisions. Now it’s just attacking that laundry list of tasks that will make everything come together. We have final fittings, meetings with the DJ and florist, marriage counseling, and last minute DIY projects to finish, all within the next few weeks. We’re making final decisions regarding the honeymoon and slowly getting our lives moved into the new apartment, so we’ll be all set up right after the wedding. On top of all of this, I’m finishing up grad school applications and Mr. O is applying for jobs left and right.
It’s about this time in the process where many brides start feeling like they just want the stress and the planning to be over. I can totally understand that feeling… the initial excitement of our engagement has dwindled and our “to do” list keeps growing. I’ve found myself turning back to my wedding inspiration in order to keep me truckin’ through the next few weeks to our big day with the same gusto that I had at the beginning of the process.
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I’ve gotten lots of feedback about our invites (which means most all of our guests have received theirs), so I’m finally ready to reveal them to the Hive!
These really were a labor of love. They were time consuming and tedious, but I don’t regret it in the least. I think they turned out better than I had hoped for, and I think they are the perfect introduction to our wedding celebration!
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| The whole suite! / Personal Photo |
We recently turned my mother’s guest room into an invitation factory. The process was long, but so worth it!
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| We started with a textured, sparkly paper that I got from Michaels on sale. / personal photo |
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Obviously when people think of “wedding” and “dress” they think of the elegant white dress the bride wears when she walks down the aisle. What you don’t always think of are all the “other” dresses the bride wears to the various events that generally accompany a wedding.
Besides the dress I bought for engagement photos, I’ve purchased two “wedding related” dresses. At the start of the planning process I promised myself that I was NOT going to spend tons of money on items like these, and I think I did a pretty good job. I did spend a little more money than I usually might, but I didn’t go completely crazy. I think I a reasonable amount of money for some events that will only happen once (in honor of Mr.O and me anyway).
I bought this dress on sale at an awesome little boutique in town called Cole Couture. At the time my mom and I were toying with the idea of a getaway dress, and this one caught my eye. As soon as I got it on I knew it’d be the perfect bridal shower dress. On sale it was around $45.
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| Please excuse my no makeup face andcrazy hair! / Personal Photo |
This topic can sometimes be misconstrued so let me begin with a few statements about my situation…
At the beginning of last year I set off on a four month European adventure. I was lucky enough to get to live in Italy with 19 other students and two professors from the architecture program at UF. It was kind of like a grand finale right before graduation… we had all been in school together for four years, so four months of living together in Italy was the cherry on top.
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| Part of the crew on an ATV ride in Santorini, Greece.
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Having a “home base” in Italy meant that I really got to explore. I didn’t feel rushed while visiting local cities and I was able to sit back and enjoy the architecture, art, and culture. Life in Italy was so relaxed… between siesta and appertivo (appetizers and drinks before dinner almost every night) I was living the good life.
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We’re having a small/medium sized wedding according to modern standards. I estimate that we’ll have about 110 people RSVP. Combine that with our tiny little wedding party, and you get a tiny little rehearsal dinner. The benefits of this are less planning and less money for my future in-laws to spend on dinner. If there is anything I’ve learned while wedding planning is that events get pricey fast.
However, despite my lack of wedding party and our lack of budget I still want to have the opportunity to hang out with our out-of-town guests as much as possible. I just have this feeling that the wedding day is going to be such a whirlwind that I won’t really be able to enjoy all the people I love, despite the small-ish size of the affair.
After talking about it with Mr. O, I’ve decided to throw a “welcome party” at one of our favorite bar/restaurants after our tiny rehearsal dinner. We are getting married on a Friday, and it just so happens that our favorite little place has live music every Thursday. They are known for bringing in lots of eclectic bands and I have yet to be disappointed by the music selection. On top of this, they serve incredible desserts until about 1AM (even after the restaurant portion of the business closes). Mr. O and I love to go there for drinks, dessert, good music, and a relaxing time. I think it’s going to be the perfect opportunity to get everyone together to socialize. I know I won’t regret spending some extra quality time with our family and friends before the wedding. Plus, it’s free.
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| The inside of our favorite place… ignore the weird girl in the front?
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And it’s not because we’re photogenic people. It’s because Seed and Sparrow is awesome. Period.
All of the vines we collected to make the wreaths got my wheels turning about another project that I’ve been wanting to do for a long time now…long before we started planning this wedding. Every Christmas a local nursery hangs these awesome twinkle-light balls from the giant oaks in the entrance to the nursery. They’ve added to the collection over the years, and every time I see them I have one of those DIY, “I could make that” moments.
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| Personal Photo |
I am totally the type of person to see something in a store that a little out of my price range and think to myself, “I could make that.” I like to think that I’m a naturally creative person. Pair that with my design background and I have tons of potential to “do it myself.”
However, I wouldn’t necessarily call myself a DIY bride. When I think “DIY Wedding” I always imagine a completely handmade party… from the food to the decor. These types of events are usually turn out gorgeous, but I know they aren’t for the faint of heart. You have to have the courage to take on all the responsibility that comes with DIY projects, which sometimes includes giving up your time and sanity. Being creative is hard work, especially when you’re working full time, going to school, or just living a normal, busy life.
I am certainly not DIYing everything. Not even close. If there is anything my design background has taught me it’s that I should trust trained designers with a creative vision. For example, I gave the photographer an idea about the feeling I wanted our engagement photos to have, and then let her direct me in location, lighting, and poses. I couldn’t be happier with how they turned out! Had I tried to direct every aspect of the shoot it wouldn’t have been as successful.
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Hive, I need help! I can’t decide what we should do for our “getaway!”
I think that bubbles are adorable, but I hate the little plastic containers they come in…don’t ask, just one of those bizarre things that bother me.
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| Via Luster Studios Blog / Photo by Luster Studios |
I’ve talked before about being somewhat nontraditional in our wedding decisions, but I haven’t talked in depth about our most nontraditional decision.
We decided early on to not have bridesmaids or groomsmen. The decision was made after discussing a variety of issues that really made it difficult to have a wedding party. Instead we each picked a maid of honor and a best man, respectively, and left it at that.
Image via Teaser Trailer / Hilarious movie. Seriously. Even Mr. O was doubled over.
One of the major reasons that we went this route is because of another wedding. Mr. O’s oldest brother is getting married a month after us, and all of the brothers will be standing up with him. We thought that it might be too much to ask of the guys to do that twice in one month. When we broke the news to them, we got relieved responses. Less to buy, less to think about, and less to stress about for four guys who really don’t like the spotlight to begin with. One of Jon’s brothers said that he was excited that he would get to sit back and just enjoy the party. At the end of the day, that is what Mr. O and I really want for our guests…a chance to spend time with us and celebrate our marriage!
I’ve mentioned before that Mr. O only has very strong opinions about a few parts of the wedding. One of the strongest opinions he has is on the issue of the “first look.”
He isn’t a fan. He says that it is definitely NOT for us. For him, the moment that is the most important is when he sees his future wife walking down the aisle toward him. I understand where he is coming from…
But even some of the most traditional couples make the decision to do a first look. It enables the couple to enjoy their cocktail hour and helps to calm the nerves before the ceremony. So many smart bees have chosen to do it (Mrs. Brooch, Mrs. Knitting, Mrs. High Wire, Mrs. Eggs Benedict…I seriously could probably fill the rest of the post with bees who have done this, but you get the idea).
The reason I want to do a first look is a pretty silly one. You see, I’m a crier. Mr. O and I have turned it into a running joke between us, but really it is just a sad truth. I cry during commercials and sad songs, and when I see homeless people. Weird, I know. I’m going to cry now just thinking about it…just kidding.
I can’t help it, though. When commercials like this come on I instantly turn on the waterworks. Full on, ugly-cry style. I do it EVERY time (and I’ve probably seen this commercial about 8,763,123 times). Eventually I got smart and started changing the channel so I wouldn’t be a smeared-mascara mess every time I turned on the TV.
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And I’m gonna put a ring on it because we finally decided on Mr. O’s wedding band!
Mr. O is not a jewelry guy… he’s not even a watch guy. I can honestly say that in all of our seven years together the most jewelry I’ve ever seen him wear are cuff links with his prom tuxedo. And I’m not even sure that that counts as jewelry.
We started looking at rings for Mr. O by going to a local jewelry store and checking out a huge selection of styles and metals. He really liked the look of Tungsten rings, but the fear that the ring couldn’t be cut off in the event his finger started to swell was enough to force us to go in another direction. With Mr. O working as an EMT/Firefighter in the future, as well as his constant involvement in sports like rugby, the possible risk just wasn’t worth it to us.
We did find one that he really liked that was white gold. It was a really interesting style, brushed with three ridges in it, almost making it appear as though it was several smaller, stacked rings.
It was very similar to these, minus the diamonds. I still haven’t seen anything that looked exactly like it though.
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| Via Appealing Wedding Bands |
Growing up, my grandpa had this awesome Polaroid camera that he would use to take photos with whenever he though something was photo-worthy. He was an artist and a designer and always was always finding new ways to express himself. I guess something about the instant satisfaction of a Polaroid camera got to him because I remember getting notes from him in the mail filled with photos. He would always write a description of the photo and the year in that little space white space below the film. He always dated his photos.
Well, one day I was wasting time on Pinterest (as I so often do) when this image caught my eye.
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| Image via PetaPixel / Photo by LoveIsABigDeal |
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Miss Opossum, Tallahassee Age and Occupation: 23, Aspiring Interior Architect Fiance's Age and Occupation: 23, Soon to be Firefighter Engagement Date: October 30, 2011 Wedding Date: April 2012 Venue: The Retreat at Bradley's Pond About Me: I am a recent design graduate and aspiring interior architect that is a compulsive list maker, a Christmas light fanatic, and an avid nap-taker. This freckle-faced Southern girl loves being on the back of a horse, hanging out at the gym, and watching SVU with her rugby-playing fiance. It is a dream come true to finally be planning a wedding (in five months) to my high school sweetheart (of seven years). While preparing to tie the knot we're also balancing Fire College, grad school applications, jobs, and precious time with our supportive family and friends. We're moving fast...but are excited about enjoying every moment of this time in our lives!
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