Taking gobs of inspiration from two of the most talented gals around, Huckleberry Karen and Lisa at Bellissima Vita, I sat down last night to make our escort cards that will tell guests where they are seated and also serve as wine charms for folks to keep track of their wine glasses.
The inspiration:

photo: Ed Pingol
And my own, below. Here’s the step-by-step:
I printed my guests’ names on cardstock, their table assignment, and a little design that matches the rest of our wedding scheme.

Then, cut them out, and also cut slightly larger pieces of coordinating cardstock.

Adhere using your adhesive of choice. I used Xyron.

I purchased some wire hoop jewelery ($2.50 for a pack of 60) at a craft store, along with some beads that match our color scheme ($3.00 for 100 beads). The reason I chose jewelry hoops over ribbon, while it’s less pretty, it’s easier to slip on (versus tie) on the day of the wedding for whoever has to set it up.

Poke a little hole in the cardstock using the sharp end of an X-acto knife, and thread bead-card-bead….and that’s it!


The cost associated with this project is negligible. I guess maybe less than $15 (if that) for 120 escort cards.
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Dear Miss Penguin,
Why do you have so many freaking pictures of yourself?
Answer: I dunno. And I have no idea what I’m going to do with all the pictures. But these turned out wonderful! I was going to forgo engagement pics altogether because I thought they were strange….which is why I put it off until 3 months before our wedding. But actually seeing them come to life has changed my mind. Of course, what to do with them now? Who knows. Here’s our session with our faboo photographer, Sarah K. Chen! I can’t wait to reunite with her at the wedding!
I’ll refrain from having a one way conversation with myself now and move on to the pictures…








I’m thrilled that Sarah took a lot of shots where we weren’t exactly the “main focus” of the picture, because I see myself putting these types of pictures in our home moreso than the pictures of us in center frame, smiling. It’s fun to consider what kind of pictures you have decorating your home when thinking about Engagement picture locales…these architectural shots will fit in just nicely with our loft decor, should we ever decide to display a few in our house!
So, now that you’ve got 8.2 billion new cute pictures of you and your Fiance, what are you going to do with them? Any creative ideas?
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Why mess with success? Mrs. Lemon showed us how to collect non-pro photos from our guests via Flickr, and I ran with it. Originally I planned to copy her idea exactly, however, my inkjet printer isn’t equipped to handle small pieces of cardstock (I bought blank, pre cut business cards), so I had to go the Gocco route.
Because I turned to Gocco, I wanted to keep the font pt size above 10, and wasn’t able to fit all the pertinent info with a 10 pt font, so I made some minor modifications. Ultimately, it’s just an extra step, which isn’t too bad.

The cards send our guests to our wedding website, which contains all the info needed to log onto Flickr and upload pictures. (click to view full screen)

Then, to make sure the guests took the cards home, I slipped them into our coaster favors.


..and now we sit back and wait for the photos to roll in!
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I was referred to my makeup artist, Lisa Deniz, by my neighbor. She’s a Business Manager for Bobbi Brown at the Nordstroms in the Roseville Galleria, and since getting my makeup done by a Bobbi Brown artist in LA for my Engagement Pics with Sarah K Chen, I was sold.
Rather than charge me for a trial, Lisa had me stop by an event where she was repping Bobbi Brown. On a side note, if you hire a makeup artist that typically works at a mall counter, she should be happy to let you stop in to the store when she’s working to give you a “free” trial. And by “free” I mean that it would be a great idea anyway to buy the extras you’ll need for touchups on your wedding day (pressed powder, lip pencil, lip gloss, whatever) so really, you’re just getting a makeover disguised as your makeup trial.
Anyhoo, my trial went great. I asked for a smokey eye, and I got it, although I’m rethinking it for my actual wedding day…it seems a little too “nighttime” for me, even though I’m most comfortable with a smokey eye.
The thing that was most conflicting though, was the fact that in person, I looked like I had RIDICULOUS amounts of makeup on, while in pictures, the makeup looked great. Before snapping pics of myself, Lisa held up the mirror for me, and I quickly thought it was too much makeup, and had her wipe a lot of it off. Then I snapped a picture of myself, and realized that I hardly looked like I had any makeup on at all. She only did half my face with eyes/cheeks/lipgloss, to make sure she was heading in the right direction…

I mean, this is practically what I look like every day. It looks GREAT in person, but just kind of…blah in pictures. I remember thinking back to my Engagement Picture makeup and thinking how HEAVY it was, but in the pictures, it turned out nice. So I told her to go heavier on everything and here’s how it turned out (inside/outside):

Great for pics. Problem being, I look like a crazy hooker in person. Like, scary. So I’m conflicted. Should I wear makeup for the pictures, or wear makeup for how I look in person? I’m sure striking some sort of balance would be just fine, but in the end, pictures are all that you’ll have left of your wedding. And I want to look my best for the ages!
Were you surprised by the amount of makeup it took to get you to look pretty in pictures? Or am I the only one with this problem? In the end, did you decide to go heavy on the makeup for pictures, or more natural?
Makeup by:
Lisa Deniz
Bobbi Brown Business Manager
Travels within the greater Sacramento Area (Contact for travel rates outside of the area)
336.848.0357
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Um yeah. That title sucked. I tried.
The disc for our first engagement photo session has arrived and it is AWESOME! Travis has this amazing ability to really get people to come out of their shells. Granted, it doesn’t take me much to come out of my shell (and apparently, within 5 minutes, flash my panties at you) but Mr. Penguin is quite the shy guy, and Travis’ incredibly happy and positive attitude really warmed Mr. Penguin up quite quickly. Here’s some highlights from the day:

Classic Pengy Face!







This last picture was almost the last picture Travis ever took! EVER! He was shooting us telephoto from across the street and almost got hit by this Muni Bus. He happened to snap the picture right as the front glass door of the bus passed him by. Oh, the lengths photogs go to to get a great shot….

All photos by Travis Hoehne Photography.
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To the shame and embarrassment of some of my “cultured” friends, I’m ridiculously into Top 40 music. If Ryan Seacrest likes it, so do I. It took the power of 10 horses for me not to add Miley Cyrus to my wedding playlist. I think my bridesmaid Jess would vomit all over my white dress.
There. I said it. I love Miley Cyrus. Don’t hate.
That being said, I spent the last two days compiling a “Regular Playlist for a Regular Bride,” and I hope some of you will be able to benefit from it. I separated the songs into categories, Beginning with “key songs”, then cocktail/dinner songs, and finally, reception songs divided by tempo. It’s about 7 hours worth of music!
Key Songs:

mother/son dance song TBA (Yeah, that’s right Mr. Penguin, get on it).
Cocktail Hour/Dinner Songs:

Reception - Uptempo:

Reception - Midtempo:

Reception - Slow:

Top 40 Brides, Unite.
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Mr. Penguin and I bought our wedding rings last weekend while in Minnesota…we took advantage of the lower sales tax out there, which was nice (Cha-CHING!). Mr. Penguin’s ring has to be made, but I was able to bring mine home that very day!

Rather than put it in our luggage on the plane, I wore it, because clearly, this was the safest way to transport it home.

…then I didn’t take it off for two days. I grew attached to it. I loved that I looked all married and stuff. I went to the drug store this morning to pick up my…um…Lady Meds, and while swiping my credit card for the nice pharmacist, I waved my engagement/wedding ring combo around REALLY flashy-like, as if to say “Yeah, thats right sir, it’s called FAMILY PLANNING now. Don’t mistake me for some kind of promiscuous hussy. I’m MARRIED.”
It felt good. And I didn’t feel promiscuous, nor like a hussy, at all.
Then I had to take a shower so I took it off and tucked it away in its box, not to be taken out again until the wedding. Well, it was fun while it lasted.
..and yes. If you were paying attention, it had been 2 days since Miss Penguin took a shower. That’s how I roll. Stinky style.
Did you take your wedding ring for a test drive before you got married?
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I dreaded bustles even before I found my wedding gown. I vowed to get a gown with a sweep train, just so I could get a tiny little underbustle that no one would ever notice. When I thought “bustle,” I had visions of old musty Victorian drapery smack dab on my booty. Eew. But alas, I fell in love with a gown with a rather long train, which was the exact opposite of what I had envisioned:

More like a Peacock than a Penguin!
So I was adamant going into my alterations that my bustle had to be as subtle as possible. I asked to see an over-bustle, which Mrs. Lemon and my friend Michelle quickly DENIED:

Then we tried an under-bustle, which everyone liked better, but I still wasn’t sold on. It was a little fluffy for my taste:

So I went in for my first alterations and asked the tailor if she could make the bustle “the least poofy” she could. So she came up with this:

I love it! The most unbustly bustle we could get. It’s got 7 points, which shouldn’t be too difficult for my mom to figure out (I’ll bring her to my next fitting so that she can learn how to do it).How Bustly is your Bustle? Are you a bustle bride or an un-bustle bride?
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I bought a bonefolder about a year ago, misused it a few times, and forgot that I had it. I couldn’t really figure out how it worked, and I kept making these shiny creases in my paper, so I gave up on using it.
What is a bonefolder?
A bonefolder helps you create perfect creases on cards and helps smooth out paper. Notice when you try to fold something by hand you get kind of a “jagged” crinkly crease? Bonefolders will create a professional looking fold at home.

image: paper-source.com
I made some personal stationery cards for the girls at my MN shower, and I decided it was time to REALLY figure out how to use a bonefolder. Here’s the step-by-step!
1. Place a ruler along the line where you’d like your paper to be folded. With steady pressure, use the pointed end of the bonefolder to create a score mark. Press firmly, but not TOO hard, as pressing too hard will just cause your paper to rip in half when you fold it.

2. Remove the ruler, and now your paper is perfectly scored!

2. Fold the paper over, and feel free to use the flat side of the bonefolder to help give a perfect fold.

That’s it! So simple, yet I could never figure it out.
Happy Folding!
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Never one to arrive empty handed when kids are involved, I showed up to my shower fully armed with 15 pounds of candy and some other goodies for the young girls to take home. I actively participate in bribery on a regular basis. What can I say… what I lack in child interaction skills I make up for in buying a lot of candy. The dilemma was that the ages ranged from 2-16, and I didn’t have time to run around town buying individual gifts. Also, if you don’t give everyone the same thing, it might be a little unfair, and I wanted to avoid that too. So here’s what I came up with:

Inside each was a mini photo album, a Lip Smacker in a favor cone, a polka-dot Chinese takeout box full of candy, and some custom “princess” style cards that I made for each girl.

The stationery cards were super easy to make. I had some leftover 8.5×11 Cover Weight paper, so I cut them in half and printed out an image with each girl’s name on the card. They were a big hit, and super quick to make!

Using the same image from the stationery, I printed their names onto sparkly pink paper and taped each to a white gift bag. I added little paper flowers and some pink tisssue and thats about it!

Each bag cost around $7 to make with all the goodies inside. I think the girls loved them!

Did you give out favors at your shower or did you leave it up to the hosts?
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