As soon as I had the ring on my finger back in August 2008, three basic questions were asked (over… and over…) of me as a bride-to-be. And my answers to these early questions have helped guide the rest of the planning process:
1. When will we get married:
This is a 2 or 3-parter. We first looked at the timeline of our immediate future and where we saw ourselves in the next couple years. We were definitely in a time of transition—so we thought it best to take our time. Mr. T would finish school and get a job first, so we looked toward 2010.
Then it was on to what time of year: I value delicious, seasonal food over fluffy, beautiful seasonal flowers. So Autumn won, with a brief debate over late summer so we could savor ripe peaches and tomatoes—my fave. The argument about the extreme heat of August convinced me otherwise.
Not to rush summer… but I can’t wait for peaches’n’tomatoes season.
Finally, a specific date.
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