I have a ton of DIY projects finished for our wedding, with plenty more to go in the next few months. But this weekend, I made my first DIY donation. That is, someone else is going to DIY it for me!
You see, we’ve been searching for green ties for the groomsmen for a long time now. The tuxes for the boys have pinstripes, so I don’t want anything crazy going on with the ties. Just a plain tie in a mossy green color will do. Finding plain green ties is a lot more difficult than I thought it would be! We’re looking to give the ties to the groomsmen as a gift, along with some green socks, and another rather large surprise (that will be the topic of another post). So while we want them to be nice, we do not want to spend a ton of money on them. As you can imagine, finding good quality, inexpensive, plain, mossy green satin ties is an even more difficult task!
Since I like to sew, I decided I’d find a pattern and make the ties myself.
I deconstructed an old tie to use as a pattern, found green fabric and the rest of the supplies at Jo-Ann’s, and went to work. Sadly, my first tie did not look at great as I’d wanted it to. So, I tried again. That one didn’t turn out, either. It was stiff (which I could fix by changing the interfacing), but I also couldn’t get the lining to look like I wanted it to. This bothered me, even though no one would know by looking at them from the front. Plus, making the ties was not fun AT ALL. I don’t have a long enough cutting mat, which made the tedious task of cutting the fabric even more annoying. The fabric was nearly impossible to fold in a straight line to make nice lines along the sides of the tie. The entire length of the inside of the tie had to be hand-sewn. Did I mention yet how much I hate hand-sewing? I hate it! Overall, the ties were a huge pain in the you-know-what to make, and in the end, they didn’t even look very nice.
My future mother-in-law was visiting this past weekend for Easter, and asked how the ties were coming along. I showed her the two that I had made, and expressed to her how much I did not enjoy making them. Then she suggested we talk to a friend of hers, who is a retired seamstress, and is also doing my dress alterations. She called her up and asked if she would have time to make the ties for us. Luckily for our groomsmen (and for my sanity), she said YES! I am so happy to have this project off my plate! And I can’t wait to see how they turn out when made by a real professional!
Did anyone else struggle with a DIY project and ultimately give it up to a professional?