It’s Not a Diet. It’s a Lifestyle!

I’ve been trying to keep from talking too much about our diet and exercise routine on this blog. I don’t want to be that girl. The one that is always “Paleo this” and “Crossfit that.” You know, the Paleo wedding blogger. It’s a big part of our life, but it’s not like it’s completely informing our wedding-related decisions.

Sure, we wanted to have a menu that we could actually eat and we didn’t want to give out sugary favors that we wouldn’t eat. And yeah, our changes in diet and activity have helped us become more in shape than ever. But it’s not like we’re forcing our guests to eat beef jerky and bacon grease. And even though it would be amazing, I won’t be tossing my bouquet in kettle bell form.

That said, it’s driving me crazy when people say, “Wow, you’ve lost a lot of weight for the wedding!” or try to explain “Miss Rucksack doesn’t eat sugar because she’s getting married soon.” Ugh, no!


Image by Bye Calories

Depending on the offender, I’ll either smile and nod or I’ll get up on my soap box and explain that actually we are making a lifestyle change based on what we’ve learned about our bodies and all this cool science-y stuff. I don’t eat sugar because it’s bad for me. I don’t eat soy because it makes me break out in hives. I don’t eat gluten because the cramping it gives me is so not worth it. I lost weight because I was getting kind of chubby from sitting on my butt and eating cookies all day. Giving up cookies and starting to work out naturally meant extra weight lost. I’ve stuck with this “diet” for eight months because it makes me feel really damn good.


Image via Quick Meme

Of course, the aesthetic benefits are there too. I lost 12 pounds within the first couple of months through Paleo and then started changing my body through Crossfit. I sort of had to stop looking at the scale because muscle weighs more than fat and all that stuff, but I know my weight yo-yo’ed a little in the beginning. But all sorts of other amazing things happened that the scale didn’t show. My butt got higher and tighter. I developed abs! It started with two and I’m now up to five. Sometimes I just stand half-naked in front of a mirror and flex my abs because it still just blows my mind. The circumference of my legs is so much smaller. I use so much less lotion now! I have biceps and really awesome triceps. I still like to rub them just to make sure they’re actually there and not a figment of my imagination. And you guys, I actually completed a five-mile race over Father’s Day weekend.


Considering I was the girl that faked menstrual cramps every day of high school gym class, this is such an amazing accomplishment. My family still can’t believe I ran the whole thing. And I was shocked that I didn’t come in last!


Winning! / Photo by Capstone Photography

I plan on sticking with Paleo for the rest of my life. Now that we’ve been doing this for a while and we know how different foods affect our bodies, we have a much better sense of the sorts of treats we can allow ourselves. (He’s fine with soy, I’m not. Occasional dairy hasn’t hurt me, but gluten is painful for both of us.) So I’d say we eat pure Paleo 99% of the time with the occasional treat of goat cheese on a salad or chocolate that’s not quite as dark as it should be. Oh—and alcohol. I do like to treat myself with a glass of wine or hard cider after a particularly long day. So really, I don’t think I’ve given up too much. And the fact that I get to walk down the aisle being the best version of me is such a reward.

Have you made any lifestyle changes recently?


Mrs. Rucksack

May 16
Branford, CT
Wedding Date:
August 2013
Gallery of the Day: August 12, 2013
The Proposal
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    lisaelanna 531 posts, Busy bee @ 3:07 pm

    My husband and I tried doing the Paleo thing – it was fantastic for him, but I gained 10lbs (of fat, about 99% sure). It was hard to cut out all the carbs in the beginning, but when I decided, after 3 months, that it just wasn’t working for me I found that I’d gotten so used to meal planning and eating Paleo style that it was actually hard to switch back to eating carbs and I don’t really even like them that much anymore! So I guess my point is – if you’re thinking “I wouldn’t ever be able to do and stick to the Paleo diet” I encourage you to just try it. Commit to doing your best for a couple months and you might just be surprised how easy it becomes!

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    msmongoose 264 posts, Helper bee @ 5:56 pm

    You look fabulous and congrats on finishing your first marathon!!

    @jilleeann: That’s great advice–starting off one step at a time.

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    rucksack 518 posts, Busy bee @ 6:41 am

    @Jessica: Thanks so much!
    @Mrs. Blue Whale: There’s so much “pressure” to be thin for your wedding that part of me felt guilty about losing weight – even if mine wasn’t entirely wedding related. Every time someone commented on it, I felt like the worst feminist ever. And then got over it and showed people my muscles instead! Props to you for getting healthy for married life!
    @dcgirl655: So true!
    @Miss Wellies: Thanks, Miss Wellies!
    @jilleeann: I think that’s a great method!

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    rucksack 518 posts, Busy bee @ 6:51 am

    @missamysmiles: I really think it takes giving foods up to realize what they were doing to your body. I thought it was normal to be bloated and hivey all the time. Poor past tense Miss R! Glad you’re feeling great too!
    @Mrs. Waterfall: Dude, I can actually lift things now! Can’t weight to read your similar post!
    @lealorali: Haha, as much of a pain it can be sometimes I guess it is nice to have people notice too! For what it’s worth, I feel like sometimes people don’t want to comment on weight loss because it implies that the “before you” wasn’t good enough or simply because they feel it’s rude to make a weight loss comment. I’m sure you look awesome – and if you feel awesome that’s even better!
    @Blonde17Jess: It’s a cult, I tell you! So addictive!
    @lisaelanna: I agree! Sometimes I try to cheat and I can’t even do it because the food doesn’t quite match up to memory of it.
    @Mrs. Mongoose: Ha, marathon! You flatter! (It was only 5 miles, but it sure felt like a marathon to me!) And thanks for the compliments – I feel fabulous for sure!

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    cosmo_gmr 488 posts, Helper bee @ 12:45 pm

    Awesome! I will have to look into this Paleo thing. You have inspired me!

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    mexicalijennie 393 posts, Helper bee @ 7:03 pm

    Paleo- friend over here! I’ve been eating paleo for over three month now.and am loving it. I keep on getting the “oh, it’s just a phase
    ” comments from mostly ignorant people accompanied by a ” whatever” look when I tell them I intend on eating paleo forever. Oh well, they can think what they want I know I found what works for me! I have one cheat per week, usually on the weekend. It’s helped me stay on track and that way I only cheat on something that’s totally worth it! Glad to hear paleo is working for you as well!

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