We Do(e): It Happens…

I am going to jump ahead a bit in the evening. Mainly because I feel like talking about this right now. Good enough, right?

You know how people say that something will happen during your wedding that you won’t be prepared for? Coming from a grade A Girl Scout over here, I somewhat scoffed at the idea of not being prepared. I am always prepared.

But here’s the thing, you cannot control other peoples actions. What you can control is your response.

Once the open dancing got under way, people really started to let loose and have fun. Unfortunately, one of our guests broke one of the golden rules of bringing drinks onto the dance floor. You just cannot jump up and down and control your drink at the same time.

Insert the party foul of all party fouls. He spilled his drink. All down the front of my maid of honor’s dress.

I won’t completely point out which dude was the offender in this picture, but take a wild guess. This picture was taken literally the moment after it happened. You can even see my sister in the middle looking down at herself realizing that there is some type of alcoholic beverage all down the front of her dress. I obviously had not realized quite yet what had happened.


There are a few different ways we could have handled this situation. The big sister in me wanted to grab him by his tie and yell at him. I know accidents happen, but you really shouldn’t be getting sloppy on the dance floor at a wedding. Also, I would probably lose the whole “classy bride” thing.

Instead, the Monte Verde Inn staff was quick to clean up the floor as if nothing ever happened. My sister went upstairs, cleaned herself off and changed into a tank and sweats.

Luckily it was towards the very end of the night, so many of our guests had left and she was probably more comfortable anyhow. We both kind of just smiled our irritated smile and the party foul-er apologized profusely.

And while my sister may have had to change out of her pretty dress and into a tank top and sweats, she obviously did not let that stop her fun. My sister rocks, y’all. (I don’t usually say y’all, but no other word seemed appropriate here. Why can’t Californians say cool things?) Either that, or Journey can really turn some moods around.


It has since turned into a joke and we can laugh about it now. Kind of. My sister and the party foul-er even ran into each other a few weeks back and he once again apologized, in which she told him it really is okay, no harm no foul. But just to give him a hard time, we will continue to make off hand jokes and jabs—all in good fun.

Moral of the story, you may be as prepared as a girl scout for your wedding but at the end of the day, as Forrest Gump would say:

(Video via You Tube)

Did you have any type of unfortunate event happen at your wedding? How did you handle it?

*Photo by Martin’s Photography


We toss to call me maybe

We dance like nobody is watching

We foxtrot to Jack Johnson

We admire the ruffled cake

Toasting time with a few good laughs

Dinner with a light drizzle
A Sweet Entry

A funny photo and bridal party pictures

The rain irritates me and we take photos

Over ten years go by and we get married

The birds and the weather join us

We promise to laugh

We journey down the aisle

The ceremony begins

The bridesmaids share a view out the window

The boys shake their nerves and take photos

The girls take photos

I show you my magical flowers

I talk about my whipped cream dress

The girls have fun getting glam

We get our hair done and grub down on some food delivered by dad



Mrs. Doe

Northern California
Wedding Date:
May 2012
Burnin' Love: The Little Things
Showered with Love: A New England Surprise!
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    Redondo, Guest @ 3:30 pm

    Wow, that’s just bad form on his part! You can’t do the Electric Slide with a gin and tonic in your hand bro… come on! 😀

    Glad it worked out for the best…

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    Mrs. Bracelet 279 posts, Helper bee @ 3:32 pm

    Haha, your sister is awesome for rockin’ on and not letting something like that ruin the night for her!

  3. painauchocolat Bee
    painauchocolat 2298 posts, Buzzing bee @ 4:31 pm

    You and your sister handled it with class. Something like that could have derailed the fun so that was a great approach to take. And you’re right, she probably was way more comfy with a change of clothes.

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    mspony 9265 posts, Buzzing Beekeeper @ 5:19 pm

    I’m just glad it wasn’t spilled on you! I totally thought that’s where the post was going. Glad your sister handled it so well!

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    stephk527 987 posts, Busy bee @ 11:33 am

    Your sister is a champ and so are you. At least it was at the end of the night and it could have been worse? I’m one of the clumsiest and most awkward people imaginable so I am often the drink-spiller, drunk or sober, so I get that it was an accident and actually feel for him a little. . . but I feel more for you and your sister. 🙂

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    GFerg 4893 posts, Honey bee @ 2:02 pm

    I’m surprised..yes, him spilling was a party foul, but here, everyone drinks on the dance floor! 🙂

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